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1 hour ago, S4NGH said:

I think you're an A class twat. Thus, go fcuk urself. Do you not have a sister of your own? Let some c*nt do that to her and then come back here and let us know

Go <banned word filter activated> your mum. you son of a <banned word filter activated>. 

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16 hours ago, simran345 said:

So it sounds you’re not ready for this marriage. I honestly don’t know what to say, but things do happen quickly after the shagun in India, as you’re visiting from abroad and time is limited. How did the families arrange it so quick ? Booking venue, caterers buying outfits, etc. You need about a few days to do all that, not like overnight ?. 

 

cus the whole story is made up LOL

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14 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

So you think its best to not pick up a girl from india. And end the marriage. thus destroying the girls life. instead of ending it at the engagement stage?

I think you are too busy being a first class privileged ish , It is not a small matter to just drop a girl after getting engaged . The sikh attitude is do not enter engagement unless you are deffo getting married because you are playing with the other's family's honour and standing. If you had doubts to clear you should not have done Rokna or Shagun .

  Somebody recommends fine, check it out for your self ...a bit like when you are driving and your passenger says 'it's clear to go'  you don't go on their word as you know in an accident you will be held responsible , you make sure it is clear for yourself.

I know some folks can be pushy but you are a guy and can easily say stop at an earlier stage ... I don't understand why you didn't it seems bizarre to me . We are living in the 21st century  not the 1800s you can talk on your own with the girl  nobody will object. Anyway water under the bridge and all that .

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8 hours ago, Prokharkoo84 said:

Why would anyone agree to marry someone without even speaking to them? Punjab is not stuck in the middle ages and people are in someways a lot more forward than us in the west. This whole story sounds like a mix of Big Tera's pathela which is usually full of goat meat, masala and mircha LOL. Actually no, it sounds more like what his pathela of goat meat turns into once hes eaten it all.... 

He lacks the essentials to be called a man.

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