Need advice

[Guest Singh]

I am currently amritdhari and keeping amritvela with maharaj Kirpa. However I make big mistakes that I regret occasionally. Kaam is a big one for me. 2 years ago, I was masturbating daily or every other day. However now it is every 4-5 months with maharaj's kirpa. I just did it again today , after 5 months and I feel so ashamed. It hurts when I imagine how Vaheguru ji  is always present and watching when I was being a disgrace. I tried to tell my mind that I was being watched when doing it but Kaam completely overtook my mind. It was such a strong urge. I feel to do that I need more abhiyas to destroy it. That's why I thought of doing a few all nighters doing simran/path in conditions where sleep will be restricted to get rid of it permanently once and for all.  My concern is that what if I am not able to pull it off, my entire sleep schedule for amritvela would be ruined it would take a while to start up again. Also I have school and I am in grade 11 but grade 11 and 12 are the years that can really shape your future career, so I do not want numbers to drop either. Also, where I sleep is not a suitable spot to do all night simran because people come up and downstairs where I sleep all the time and I do not want anyone to know about it . There is a room upstairs but I do not want to use it until I am sure everyone is asleep at 11 usually whereas I sleep at 8. That is where I need Sangats advice on what to do. 

[GurjantGnostic]

Well ji. I'm no expert on this so probably going to give you poor advice. But here goes. 

You can decrease kaam by not viewing pornography. 

You can decrease kaam by seeing all women as your sister or mother and treating them with respect. 

If you are giving yourself a hand focus your mind in a way that doesn't involve objectifying women. Think of laying with your wife but do not visualize her. 

If that is not proper to you lay there and simran through it man. 

Physiologically, at your age especially that's rough ji. 

From a health perspective I've been told it's healthy to keep yourself flowing from time to time. 

In terms of rehit or gurbani I'm at a loss ji. 

I'll bow out of this topic and let your uncles on here school ya. 

I will say this. Releasing a desire is one thing, forcibly suppressing it another. Wypipo have a crazy history regarding the effects of sexual repression. 

[jkvlondon]

Little bro ,

go onto your brain on porn website and read the articles and watch the testimonies , you DO NOT want to end up a virtual kuserah due to PIED - porn induced erectile dysfunction it is wrecking many guy's lives . Porn is part of the plan to wreck society by destroying morality, family ties, even monogamous relationship in marriage  and ultimately to stop the population . No functional males means no babies .

These guys have advice and a plan of action to get you normal and porn-free , it is all dopamine addiction driving this  unfortunately it is a worldwide disaster befalling the youth and many doctors are trying their best to deal with it sensibly .and sensitively

[Premi5]

12 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

Porn is part of the plan to wreck society by destroying morality, family ties, even monogamous relationship in marriage  and ultimately to stop the population . No functional males means no babies .

 it is a worldwide disaster befalling the youth and many doctors are trying their best to deal with it sensibly .and sensitively

Whose plan? How would they benefit?

[jkvlondon]

if everyone's preoccupied with sex and sports they won't be paying attention to the real issues around them until it's too late i.e. water and food wars .

[GurjantGnostic]

10 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

if everyone's preoccupied with sex and sports they won't be paying attention to the real issues around them until it's too late i.e. water and food wars .

Oh snap. 

[Guest singh]

jkvlondon u seem to know a lot but only provide snippets of information. Why is this? Please elaborate and fully disclose what u know so we may all benefit from what u have to say. Don't worry i'm listening intently. 

[jkvlondon]

10 hours ago, Guest singh said:

jkvlondon u seem to know a lot but only provide snippets of information. Why is this? Please elaborate and fully disclose what u know so we may all benefit from what u have to say. Don't worry i'm listening intently. 

read Vandana Shiva , and others like Jane Goodall ...nobody handed me the info , it's there but you have to realise priorities were always set by Guru Pita ji to be Tyar bar Tyar  that includes being aware of political matters , environmental issues and where oppression is being committed against people, animals and nature and find a fix else try to not be part of the problem . 
why do you think sikhs are supposed to be detached from manmade tamasha ?

why are they supposed to be unique and follow the beat laid down by Guru ji rather than bhed chaal of fashions and fads?

why did Guru ji emphasis making one's own food even butchering own maas , drinking water from fresh running water?

because these things are the way kalyug will destroy the unwary , the corporations are already in charge of whole governments and thus countries that's why sikhs should oppose things like mega mergers such as the Monsanto Bayer one which will mean the majority of food crops will be controlled by this mega corp , has no one ever thought why despite proving worse performers  than heirloom/traditional seed crops why these GMO patented seeds are being pushed hard into developing world countries and highly populated countries ? It's so they can remove self-sufficiency and by providing sterile seed and destroying 'cross contaminated' crops they remove all competition , once that dominance is achieved they will switch off supply at will and destroy nations from within.

Besieged the survivors will capitulate to the corporations control fully ....