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So I have kept dietry bibek till I Amrit shaked and today I ate Langer where the Langer was not made by amritdhari sikhs. How can I start my dietry bibek again? 

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Has it affected you in a major way in that you are not doing any naam jap?People can have been doing naam jap during the langar preparation.  

Is eating from an amritdharis hands more important than how exactly the langar was actually prepared? 

An amritdhari can get distracted too while preparing langar and have transferred other thoughts into the food. 

Unless it is affecting you in a major way... ardaas should be enough to get rid of any negativity you might be feeling

Just try to keep your bibek if you feel you get thoughts like these after taking langar from wherever you had it. No big deal - it was just langar after all! !!!.  purified from whatever thoughts those non-amritdharis put into it.!!!

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He has to go for pesh. It's the only way. And then boycott langar.

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On 13/01/2018 at 9:10 AM, Guest Guest said:

So I have kept dietry bibek till I Amrit shaked and today I ate Langer where the Langer was not made by amritdhari sikhs. How can I start my dietry bibek again? 

Best try the Gurmat Bibek forum, a few of them follow sarbloh bibek.

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