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:waheguru: sangat ji I need ur help pleas. I am keep on falling in the trap of kam and then I start to m@$+ür&@+€. I always say I will never ever do it again but I keep on doing it. I have kept rehit for a couple of years and wish to take amrit on the 6th but then I think gurupita will never bestow me amrit because of my actions. Please tell me how should I quit. Thank you:clap:

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Guest Kaur 2
10 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

You are just like me i am the most low life member on here to exist lol

ਆਪਸ ਕਉ ਜੋ ਜਾਣੈ ਨੀਚਾ ॥

aapas ko jo jaanai neechaa |

One who sees himself as lowly,

ਸੋਊ ਗਨੀਐ ਸਭ ਤੇ ਊਚਾ ॥

sooo ganeeai sabh thae oochaa |

shall be accounted as the highest of all.

ਜਾ ਕਾ ਮਨੁ ਹੋਇ ਸਗਲ ਕੀ ਰੀਨਾ ॥

jaa kaa man hoe sagal kee reenaa |

One whose mind is the dust of all,

ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਤਿਨਿ ਘਟਿ ਘਟਿ ਚੀਨਾ ॥

har har naam thin ghatt ghatt cheenaa |

recognizes the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, in each and every heart.


At least you want to change.


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Be like a dog. Don't take it wrong way. No matter what the dog owner does to his/her dog, dog will always and always come back to its owner. Same with us, we need to be like a dog and always try and try to be near our owner (waheguru). It is your karam to be that way but waheguru ji is giving you chance after chance to be near him. Try hard and hard to reach waheguru and never give up. 

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You can never totally defeat kaam or any other vices.

Guru Ji tells us to control them and not let them control you. So if Kaam is an issue divert your mind have a cold shower recite prayers, do some physical sporty activities or if you still have issues then get married to a practicing Sikh and use kaam in a healthy productive way with each other.

When you get older you will find Kaam will become less of an issue as your hormones will subside.

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