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Hi eveyone,

Please take sometime to read my post and advise accordingly...thank you

Im a sikh living in foreign country who has been speaking with a girl in india for nearly 8 months. Everytime i call, i say and ask everything. She tells me everything i ask but has never asked me about my hobbies, interests, job etc.

Her mom always tell me and my parents my daughter speaks very little, is too nice and very shy and once she comes here, she will open up. I speak with her 3 times every week for nearly an hr and i do the talking, she listen...replies to me but doesnt ask me anything.

I have asked her personal things aswell, but i feel she is not interested in sharing anything. I felt so happy everytime i called her but lately, everytime i speak with her and  end the call, im unhappy and think if she is right for me. I am hurt she hasnt askes my anything at all and I have  not called her for the past week and will not be doing so and am seriously considering calling this off. Because of her silence, i know little about her and this is troubling, i know nothing about the person who i might marry.

Please advise:

- does the above mean she doesnt like me? If so, why is she dragging this on.

- should i assume she isnt saying anything for fear of her parents? Could our age gap (7 yrs) be a problem?

- 8 months is a long time for a couple to get comfortable with one another and i feel i have given her enough time and she should be discussing things with me.

- before you say she is an introvert, my parents, friwnds and job colleagues say im also an introvert.

Please advise

 

 

 

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Maybe he case of Cultural difference. Do they live in a city or in a pind? Was there a cixhola involved? 

I don’t think that age difference is the issue unless she is under 20. Takes time for mind to get mature.

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7 hours ago, Guest Guestz said:

Hi eveyone,

Please take sometime to read my post and advise accordingly...thank you

Im a sikh living in foreign country who has been speaking with a girl in india for nearly 8 months. Everytime i call, i say and ask everything. She tells me everything i ask but has never asked me about my hobbies, interests, job etc.

Her mom always tell me and my parents my daughter speaks very little, is too nice and very shy and once she comes here, she will open up. I speak with her 3 times every week for nearly an hr and i do the talking, she listen...replies to me but doesnt ask me anything.

I have asked her personal things aswell, but i feel she is not interested in sharing anything. I felt so happy everytime i called her but lately, everytime i speak with her and  end the call, im unhappy and think if she is right for me. I am hurt she hasnt askes my anything at all and I have  not called her for the past week and will not be doing so and am seriously considering calling this off. Because of her silence, i know little about her and this is troubling, i know nothing about the person who i might marry.

Please advise:

- does the above mean she doesnt like me? If so, why is she dragging this on.

- should i assume she isnt saying anything for fear of her parents? Could our age gap (7 yrs) be a problem?

- 8 months is a long time for a couple to get comfortable with one another and i feel i have given her enough time and she should be discussing things with me.

- before you say she is an introvert, my parents, friwnds and job colleagues say im also an introvert.

Please advise

 

 

 

U should clearly ask her if she’s not happy or has any problems.. she’s not happy with the rishta and her parents are forcing.. secondly she really could be like this and that’s why she’s not asking much but if she’s not asking u anything at all thn there must be something coz no kuri doesn’t matter living in a pind or city even after eight months of talking hasn’t opened up at all.. like not a SINGLE thing like where u work or anything else.. so instead of assuming just ask her upfront.. I’m also an introvert.

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She has her mind on someone else.  It is hard to just keep listening to someone.  She would be wanting to know about life here. She would be having many questions if she was interested in a future with you.  

She seems to be playing along only to give you the slip later on. Break it if you can. She's talking to someone else behind your back and her heart is with a desi but her parents want a better life for her. Forced marriage - it might work or she might become pakki get her boyfriend here and run off.  You are better off without her. Not worth the headache. 

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On 16/12/2017 at 5:54 PM, Guest Guestz said:

Hi eveyone,

Please take sometime to read my post and advise accordingly...thank you

Im a sikh living in foreign country who has been speaking with a girl in india for nearly 8 months. Everytime i call, i say and ask everything. She tells me everything i ask but has never asked me about my hobbies, interests, job etc.

Her mom always tell me and my parents my daughter speaks very little, is too nice and very shy and once she comes here, she will open up. I speak with her 3 times every week for nearly an hr and i do the talking, she listen...replies to me but doesnt ask me anything.

I have asked her personal things aswell, but i feel she is not interested in sharing anything. I felt so happy everytime i called her but lately, everytime i speak with her and  end the call, im unhappy and think if she is right for me. I am hurt she hasnt askes my anything at all and I have  not called her for the past week and will not be doing so and am seriously considering calling this off. Because of her silence, i know little about her and this is troubling, i know nothing about the person who i might marry.

Please advise:

- does the above mean she doesnt like me? If so, why is she dragging this on.

- should i assume she isnt saying anything for fear of her parents? Could our age gap (7 yrs) be a problem?

- 8 months is a long time for a couple to get comfortable with one another and i feel i have given her enough time and she should be discussing things with me.

- before you say she is an introvert, my parents, friwnds and job colleagues say im also an introvert.

Please advise

 

 

 

You must understand that yours is Not a love marriage.

In arranged marriage girls side usually play safe. They talk less in order to avoid any displeasure from groom or his side.

Once you meet her face to face things would be different.

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You haven't mentioned if you'd actually met this girl. If so, how did she come across in person? Did she seem interested then? Happy/smiling/shy or quiet/miserable.

If it's all just been over the phone then it's hard to say if she likes you or not. I mean can you like someone you've only ever spoken to over the phone?? Infatuation maybe. If you haven't met her a few times, I'd back right out of that.

7 years is a huge age gap. I'm assuming she's the younger one.

Be very considerate with your next move. This is someone's daughter, someone's sister. If you need to call it off, make sure you've tried your best to make it work first. Go meet her if you haven't already. See how you guys get on etc.

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45 minutes ago, sikhni777 said:

She has her mind on someone else.  It is hard to just keep listening to someone.  She would be wanting to know about life here. She would be having many questions if she was interested in a future with you.  

She seems to be playing along only to give you the slip later on. Break it if you can. She's talking to someone else behind your back and her heart is with a desi but her parents want a better life for her. Forced marriage - it might work or she might become pakki get her boyfriend here and run off.  You are better off without her. Not worth the headache. 

Wt f?? How'd you even leap to these conclusions?? Cray cray! 

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9 minutes ago, S4NGH said:

Wt f?? How'd you even leap to these conclusions?? Cray cray! 

It's like when that guy called up Harjap Bhangal's immigration show with the same situation and he's like "paaji ohh ta meri life f*cked kar gai". It was live as well.

Lol

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6 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

It's like when that guy called up Harjap Bhangal's immigration show with the same situation and he's like "paaji ohh ta meri life f*cked kar gai". It was live as well.

Lol

Lmao I remember that one 😂

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18 minutes ago, S4NGH said:

Lmao I remember that one 😂

Listen from 2.20. :rofl

 

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58 minutes ago, S4NGH said:

Wt f?? How'd youiseven leap to these conclusiohe?ns?? Cray cray! 

Seen enough of those right here In our family. If you are not happy with her before youindiwill never be happy with her ever. It does not take 7 months to take a girl to open up. Her mum supports her. The greed of INdians Is great. Remember Jaggi still not freed yet Is he?

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Bhaji,

I've seen this story far too many times.  Call things off, immediately.

This is not 1990s anymore. Girl not talking because she is shy, I think not. More likely, she has a boyfriend in India and her parents and her are planning on getting her overseas where she will eventually leave you and then sponsor her boyfriend + her parents.

But still remember....everything in this life is a consequence of our past lives. If you're going to get screwed by a potential partner, you are going to get screwed by a potential partner and there is nothing you can do about it....so enjoy the ride and keep Waheguru on your mind. 

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3 hours ago, sikhni777 said:

She has her mind on someone else.  It is hard to just keep listening to someone.  She would be wanting to know about life here. She would be having many questions if she was interested in a future with you.  

She seems to be playing along only to give you the slip later on. Break it if you can. She's talking to someone else behind your back and her heart is with a desi but her parents want a better life for her. Forced marriage - it might work or she might become pakki get her boyfriend here and run off.  You are better off without her. Not worth the headache. 

Yep, this hit the nail on the head. 

I've seen 2 varieties of this:

1) The parents were in cahoots with the boyfriend.

2) The parents hated the boyfriend and wanted their sad excuse of a daughter away from the boy. 

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4 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

It's like when that guy called up Harjap Bhangal's immigration show with the same situation and he's like "paaji ohh ta meri life f*cked kar gai". It was live as well.

Lol

Yep I remember that one too. 

Going back to the OP’s post, it could be either what Singhbj paji says that she maybe cautious about what’s she’s saying so she doesn’t mess it up. She maybe worried that if she’s talks openly or asks too much then she maybe judged on that. 

Or it can be what Sikhni penji says, because without knowing her and the family, and reading what you’ve described,  I thought this too immediately. 

Have you made sure she doesn’t want to marry anybody else or has a bf? This happens quite a bit, and there’s been cases where even with children, some women have left bringing the bf from back home abroad. 

You should have researched more about the girl and family, just as they would have you. 

But instead of jumping to conclusions without evidence, I guess you won’t know until you meet her and get to know her better and like S4ngh paji says, I think 7 years is a bit of a big gap. Is she 7 years younger or older? 

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    • Fair enough. While I'm in agreement that idol worship is not part of Sikhi, I believe the tuks you have posted have been posted out of context here. The bani above is referring to those whose spritual mode of worship is only idol worship. Those who think that Parmeshwar resides only in the idol. Those who have no other forms of worship and still think they are saved by doing puja of a pathar/image. That's not really what's happening in the video (I don't think so anyway). Do bear in mind I'm not completely justifying what they're doing. I would need to know more details before I could personally comment what side of the fence this lands on. For example, if this is a regular thing or only done on a certain day i.e. Vishwakarma Day etc, what they believe about Vishwakarma and what he represents for them, and what their intentions are as well as what their sharda and bhaavna is, in performing this Aarti? And of course their maksad. As I always say, things are rarely black and white.  
    • Brother, the reason we (or at least, some Sikhs) do Aarti of Guru Sahib is because we worship Guru Sahib. The reason it's a "big deal" is because it's spiritual adultery. Even if it were accepted that you can do aarti of a saint or elder, they are not doing that. They are not doing Aarti of Lord Vishwakarma, but rather of a picture of Vishwakarma, which sets them up for the spiritual transgression of idol worship. Guru Nanak Dev ji on idol worship: ਸਲੋਕ ਮਹਲਾ ੧ ॥ Salok Mehalaa 1 || ਸਾਰੰਗ ਕੀ ਵਾਰ: (ਮਃ ੧) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਅੰਗ ੧੨੪੦  ਘਰਿ ਨਾਰਾਇਣੁ ਸਭਾ ਨਾਲਿ ॥ In your home, is the Lord God, along with all your other gods. ਪੂਜ ਕਰੇ ਰਖੈ ਨਾਵਾਲਿ ॥ You wash your stone gods and worship them. ਕੁੰਗੂ ਚੰਨਣੁ ਫੁਲ ਚੜਾਏ ॥ You offer saffron, sandalwood and flowers.   ਪੈਰੀ ਪੈ ਪੈ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਮਨਾਏ ॥ Falling at their feet, you try so hard to appease them.   ਮਾਣੂਆ ਮੰਗਿ ਮੰਗਿ ਪੈਨ੍ਹ੍ਹੈ ਖਾਇ ॥ Begging, begging from other people, you get things to wear and eat. ਅੰਧੀ ਕੰਮੀ ਅੰਧ ਸਜਾਇ ॥ For your blind deeds, you will be blindly punished. ਭੁਖਿਆ ਦੇਇ ਨ ਮਰਦਿਆ ਰਖੈ ॥ Your idol does not feed the hungry, or save the dying. ਅੰਧਾ ਝਗੜਾ ਅੰਧੀ ਸਥੈ ॥੧॥ The blind assembly argues in blindness. ||1|| ਸਾਰੰਗ ਵਾਰ (ਮਃ ੪) (੯) ਸ. (੧) ੧:੮ - ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੨੪੧ ਪੰ. ੨ 
      Raag Sarang Guru Nanak Dev   Guru Arjan Dev ji in Raag Bharo: ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥ Mehala 5 || ਜੋ ਪਾਥਰ ਕਉ ਕਹਤੇ ਦੇਵ ॥ Those who call a stone their god ਤਾ ਕੀ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਹੋਵੈ ਸੇਵ ॥ Their service is useless. ਜੋ ਪਾਥਰ ਕੀ ਪਾਂਈ ਪਾਇ ॥ Those who fall at the feet of a stone god ਤਿਸ ਕੀ ਘਾਲ ਅਜਾਂਈ ਜਾਇ ॥੧॥ - their work is wasted in vain. ||1||   The people who do this (idol worship) will sink in the worldly ocean: ਕਬੀਰ ਪਾਹਨੁ ਪਰਮੇਸੁਰੁ ਕੀਆ ਪੂਜੈ ਸਭੁ ਸੰਸਾਰੁ ॥ Kabeer, someone sets up a stone idol and all the world worships it as the Lord. ਇਸ ਭਰਵਾਸੇ ਜੋ ਰਹੇ ਬੂਡੇ ਕਾਲੀ ਧਾਰ ॥੧੩੬॥ Those who hold to this belief will be drowned in the river of darkness. ||136|| ਸਲੋਕ ਕਬੀਰ ਜੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) (੧੩੬):੨ - ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੭੧ ਪੰ. ੧੫ 
      Salok Bhagat Kabir    
    • Like I said maybe they shouldn't have been doing Aarti, not in the Gurdwara anyway. But the picture in itself shouldn't be a problem. Mahapurkhs have been known to keep pictures of Devi Devte, they weren't allergic to imagery, especially imagery you could say that makes up "Dharam" as a whole. Maybe not the picture shown in the video, but such imagery was commonplace and is part of our heritage. As is evident from the small selection of pictures I posted. The level of Hinduphobia amongst our people borders on idiocy.
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