Forgiveness of sins

[Guest Guest]

Sadh sangat ji. I am a sikh girl( non amritdhari)and recently i committed a ghor paap. I was working in a bank where i indulge in sexual activities with one of my colleague. He is married and i dont know how i took these steps. We both exchanged some of our dirty pics too. I know main ghor paap kita hai and waheguru ji will not forgive me. I let my parents down although they dont know. I just want to kill myself. How can i do this to myself and go away from waheguru ji. I am so depressed each day its killing me inside. Plzz help me sadhsangat ji 

[singhbj singh]

Bhein ji what you did was wrong but suicide is no solution.

As per Gurbani even Mahapapi can get redemption by uttering Satnaam.

i'll suggest that you take leave from work do lots of Naam Jaap then see the result.

Patit Pavan Waheguru ji are uplifter of those who have fallen from the path of righteousness & virtue.

 

[simran345]

7 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Sadh sangat ji. I am a sikh girl( non amritdhari)and recently i committed a ghor paap. I was working in a bank where i indulge in sexual activities with one of my colleague. He is married and i dont know how i took these steps. We both exchanged some of our dirty pics too. I know main ghor paap kita hai and waheguru ji will not forgive me. I let my parents down although they dont know. I just want to kill myself. How can i do this to myself and go away from waheguru ji. I am so depressed each day its killing me inside. Plzz help me sadhsangat ji 

You've made the mistake and can't go back into the past. Ask Waheguru for forgiveness and now move on to becoming a better person and not repeating the same mistake again.  

 

1 hour ago, singhbj singh said:

Bhein ji what you did was wrong but suicide is no solution.

As per Gurbani even Mahapapi can get redemption by uttering Satnaam.

i'll suggest that you take leave from work do lots of Naam Jaap then see the result.

Patit Pavan Waheguru ji are uplifter of those who have fallen from the path of righteousness & virtue.

 

Do as Singhbj Paji says. Don't do anything stupid, every time we make a mistake we should learn from it and ending our life is not the answer. You both made the mistake, not just you, but you gave into temptation, and now it can't be justified, but you can move on from this and take the right path to be a better person, you are worth more than that, so now leave the rest to Waheguru and don't do anything silly yourself.

is there anybody you can talk to?

[Preeet]

vaheguru ji ka khalsa
vaheguru ji ki fateh

Kaur ji, this is not the time for suicide! It is the time for tapasya to do praschit of the paap karma which has been committed. Some things you can do are: Wake up everyday at amritvela and read morning nitnem ji outloud, do dasvand daan out of 10% or more of every cheque you recieve from work to the gurdwara ji or other sansthas such as orphanages (for example). Read Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji daily at amritvela as well, at least for 40 days or so and do ardas ji everyday for that bad karma to have nivaran and leave you, continue even after 40 days if you feel like it (some people might call this beham or brahminvaad, but try to face east when you pray, I read this in gurbani granth (at page 4, question 10: http://www.rajkaregakhalsa.net/downloads/Gurbani Related/Sharda-Pooran-Granth.pdf )). Do seva everyday as well at the gurdwara ji while doing jaap of 'ਸਤਿਨਾਮੁ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਸਤਿਨਾਮੁ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ', it brings peace. I have heard that if anyone becomes amritdhari then their past karmas are forgiven as well. I ask for forgiveness for my mistakes in this reply.. bhull chuk maaf kariye ji. vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

[Guest Tuhada Bhra]

Human/Manukh makes many mistakes and it is now time for you to get close to gurbani to seek the true path. You made mistake and due to your good karam, your soul is telling you in early stages that you did bad and not suppose to do and put a stop to it. Start reading Jap ji Sahib with full meaning. Meet the your colleague  and tell him straight that it was a mistake and it shouldn't have happened. Put a complete stop and if you can handle the stress seek another job at another bank. Do ardas to waheguru for forgiveness and seek the love/treasure from gurbani. 

Good Luck !

[Guest Guest]

Thanku sadhsangat ji for yor support. I have left the job already. M doing nitnem and ardaas daily but m afraid that my sin is soooo big that waheguru ji will not accept my ardaas. I am hopeless?

[Guest Guest]

3 hours ago, Preeet said:

vaheguru ji ka khalsa
vaheguru ji ki fateh

Kaur ji, this is not the time for suicide! It is the time for tapasya to do praschit of the paap karma which has been committed. Some things you can do are: Wake up everyday at amritvela and read morning nitnem ji outloud, do dasvand daan out of 10% or more of every cheque you recieve from work to the gurdwara ji or other sansthas such as orphanages (for example). Read Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji daily at amritvela as well, at least for 40 days or so and do ardas ji everyday for that bad karma to have nivaran and leave you, continue even after 40 days if you feel like it (some people might call this beham or brahminvaad, but try to face east when you pray, I read this in gurbani granth (at page 4, question 10: http://www.rajkaregakhalsa.net/downloads/Gurbani Related/Sharda-Pooran-Granth.pdf )). Do seva everyday as well at the gurdwara ji while doing jaap of 'ਸਤਿਨਾਮੁ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਸਤਿਨਾਮੁ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ', it brings peace. I have heard that if anyone becomes amritdhari then their past karmas are forgiven as well. I ask for forgiveness for my mistakes in this reply.. bhull chuk maaf kariye ji. vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

I have left the job already. M doing nitnem and ardaas daily but m afraid that my sin is sooo big that waheguru ji will not accept me. 

[sikhni777]

Study yourself and deal with the reasons why you went for him?  Was it his trap ? Does he have a reputation for that ? 

I think you should change your job to another bsnk if possible.  Forget it ever happened. Many people make this mistake but never learn from it.

Are you lonely or were you seeking a promotion or better treatment?  Are you just curious about relationships. Access yyourself and deal with your weaker areas In life. 

Put up your safeguards to dtop it from happening again. Did you drink? Did he offer you drink? Was it a date first or did you just offer to help him?

Did he complain about his wife and take your pity? 

Look into all this and get to the root of the problem. 

You can always register and talk to someone in confidence if you feel that will help you. 

[Guest Guest]

10 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

Bhein ji what you did was wrong but suicide is no solution.

As per Gurbani even Mahapapi can get redemption by uttering Satnaam.

i'll suggest that you take leave from work do lots of Naam Jaap then see the result.

Patit Pavan Waheguru ji are uplifter of those who have fallen from the path of righteousness & virtue.

 

Will waheguru forgive me.. As my sin is sooo big ?

[singhbj singh]

39 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Will waheguru forgive me.. As my sin is sooo big ?

your sin is big but Akalpurakh's kirpa is bigger 

http://beta.igurbani.com/shabad/2397?verseId=27559