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12 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

Bhein ji you Must contact

http://www.sikhhelpline.com

https://www.sikhhelpline.com.au

http://www.sikhfamilyhelpline.com

They can guide you in best possible way.

Will do Ardas for your well being just hang in there 

 

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Listen to him. 

You need counselling. I've been in a similar place. Trust me, you're mind is just deluding you. Seeing a counseller and contacting the above^^^ will change your life. Do it now ok. Make an account and message anyone including me on here. 

You'll be OK and you Can be happy again. 

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Don't kill yourself or you'll turn into a ghost and it wont be very nice.

You can not reincarnate to a new body, but will remain stuck in a weaker spirit form that you'll suffer in. Trust me, you don't want to go through that. You'll remain roaming around as a ghost for a long time until you meet a gursikh/mahapurakh with a high avastha (spiritual state) that can save you.

If people call me crazy, im not. This is true! 

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1 hour ago, LightofNaam said:

Can admin please post these contact details as stickies wherever u can, so many people come on with similar issues and need the above orgs help. 

I did start a thread on main contact details, and asked for them to be pinned somewhere, but it's not be listened to. 

 

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2 hours ago, NonExistant said:

Don't kill yourself or you'll turn into a ghost and it wont be very nice.

You can not reincarnate to a new body, but will remain stuck in a weaker spirit form that you'll suffer in. Trust me, you don't want to go through that. You'll remain roaming around as a ghost for a long time until you meet a gursikh/mahapurakh with a high avastha (spiritual state) that can save you.

If people call me crazy, im not. This is true! 

I don't think anyone of a spiritual or mystical leaning would disagree with the above, but for the person experiencing dark thoughts of ending their life I don't think they really care about their next incarnation or what their ghost will be doing after death. 

The emotional pain is usually overwhelming to the point that it defeats any rational thought. People suffering with thoughts of suicide need help in the here and now, not subtle threats of eternal damnation.

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22 hours ago, Guest Kaur said:

After a couple of years now of seriously contemplating suicide I’ve considered the consequences and the extremity of each of them, understanding that such extremity doesn’t exist. In my eyes, any temporary matters in life such as friends, so called family, ‘happiness’, will neither suffer nor will have any ability in changing my mind at the point I’m at.

Most of me is gone by now, but there is still a droplet of Amrit left inside that won’t let me commit such a crime, but I’m afraid that with time, my mind will take control and I won’t be opposed to such an idea of not existing any longer.

I’m sinking more than ever now

Dear Pen Jee,

your post denotes a deep pain, a big wound, and I believe it is because of unexpected bad behaviour/response from your near and dear ones.

The more one have expectations from others, the more the chances of getting dissapointed and deeply hurt.

You see, apart from our bond with Wahiguru, which is true and eternal, all other relations are "koor" . To some we leave when we depart, some others leave us with betrayl or when they also depart from this plane.

Just now, you need a big dose of love, and trust, to uplift you emotionally, so that your mental recovery takes place.

To start with, though we do not know each other, that matters not much, but for sure,  as a gursikh brother, I send you a big hug, and a lots of love wherever you maybe.

You are not alone, just as all the brothers and sisters above, have contributed with their valuable 2 cents, to make you drop down the negative thoughts, and to support you with their kindness as well.

Just see it  in their posts above. Trust Wahiguru and always be thankful under all conditions.

God bless you.

Sat Sree Akal.

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Well, with the legalisation / decriminalisation of drugs in Canada we all wondered what kind of mental society it was gonna create. I think Prabh108 has answered that one for us ?

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