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WGJkKWGJKF. This may seem trivial but it's actually a lot deeper that it seems. I have a friend who I'm very close with literally family and they were treated quite badly (indirectly) by this other person. Now me and this other person don't talk as much now - we used to talk before but I just started changing my sangat when Maharaj blessed me into Sikhi so I dont talk to them as much anymore. Out of the blue, they asked me to attend a Sukhmani Sahib paath for their birthday. I don't know whether I should go. Part of me says yes because I really enjoy Sukhmani Sahib and I've never been to a paath and appreciated it or understood it since Maharaj blessed me into Sikhi and just being with Maharaj and how beautiful Sukhmani Sahib is really is making me want to go. However, they weren't nice to my friend and even now aren't very nice to them so I don't know whether going their with negative energy would be a good thing. Saadhsangat will have an answer - Guru Ji resides in saadhsangat so whatever you guys say I will do. WGJKKWGJKF.

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I would go! You are being handed the opportunity to listen and connect to Sukhmani Sahib so take it. It doesn't matter what they have previously done to you but you being nice to them might make them change their attitude towards you.

 
ਸੋਊ ਗਨੀਐ ਸਭ ਤੇ ਊਚਾ ॥
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ਸੋਊਗਨੀਐਸਭਤੇਊਚਾ॥
सोऊ गनीऐ सभ ते ऊचा ॥
sooo ganeeai sabh thae oochaa |

ਆਪਸ ਕਉ ਜੋ ਜਾਣੈ ਨੀਚਾ ॥

aapas ko jo jaanai neechaa |

One who sees himself as lowly,

ਸੋਊ ਗਨੀਐ ਸਭ ਤੇ ਊਚਾ ॥

sooo ganeeai sabh thae oochaa |

shall be accounted as the highest of all.

You need to humble and accept their offer and not let any ego get between you and Maharaj. After all, it is Sukhmani Sahib and you are blessed to be invited seeing as they have a problem with your friend. You can clear things with them and politely ask why they don't like your friend. Hope this helps, if it didn't then I'm sorry... :/

Bhull Chuk Maaf

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