I was told by an AMRITDHARI I was too good looking to take Amrit

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On 03/11/2017 at 10:47 PM, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

Same my parents say that to me now and my mum said: You're lucky to have a jawline and such nice eyes and eyebrows. I said that its more important to be beautiful from the inside and she just looked at me hopelessly. I felt so bad then because why can't she just accept what I want to do with my life? I would say just ignore her and carry on doing what you are doing because that's what I'm doing and its slightly working.

VJKK VJKF

Good luck. 

Keep your faith. When u step on the path people will constantly start trying to break you down.

Stay strong and Never lose your Self Confidence and Self Belief. I made that huge error and eventually did, I let them break me but now I'm getting back up again. 

Plenty of haters, ignore them, don't get sucked into associating with them no matter how much they do for you and what sweet words come out of their mouth, be aware that they'll try and get you close and then try and ruin you.

Accept their gifts if need be, and remember that you owe them nothing as humans should give without expectation of return (Seva). 

Ignore them And keep and keep moving forward down the path and have no pity because they're bad company/sangat.

Sounds crazy but I've been betrayed and backstabbing by every single person I got close to except once since beginning Bhagti. It's normal, it's God teaching us to put our trust in Truth. 

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On 03/11/2017 at 10:53 PM, Guest Rajdip said:

Hello im facing terrible terrible insomnia for the past 4 months. In depression and anxiety and brain is all numb of lack of sleep. Im currently pregnant with my first baby. I went to neuro and told him he said he cant prescribe me any pills as it will effect on my new born. Im going crazy and mental, i should be excited and happy its my first baby. But lack of sleep is killing me inside and making me crazy and do all stupid things. Please show me a way. I do paath and ardas but my memory is losing day by day. 

Sister, you need to see a counseller. 

 

As Sikhs we can be reluctant to go and seek help, but look at it in the way that we are incredibly fortunate to have these services at our disposal. 

Go and see a counseller ASAP ok.