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Hi everyone, 

I know that this is not a networking site but im not sure where else to go or how else to go about this. Im basically a 28 year old guy trying to get away from a bad crowd and grow closer to sikhi and want to get involved in doing more seva. I guess im just looking for someone whos willing to help and give advice on my current situation as I literally have no one to talk to. My current crowd would laugh at me if they seen this lol

Rather than writing about all my problems on here and asking for advice, I thought I would just post this and anyone whos willing to help me can just drop me a message. I really dont know where else to go to make fellow sikh friends who will help me in my journey to sikhi

Anything you can do is appreciated, even if its a general talk please feel free to drop me a message and ask about my situation 

Thanks

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39 minutes ago, SikhInTheMaking said:

My current crowd would laugh at me if they seen this lol

Stuff the current crowd, that’s what I say. Focus on what you want, otherwise you’ll never get away from those thoughts. 

You can share what you wish on here. There’s loads of people on here in the same boat as you bro, don’t worry. Most people are helpful on here. 

37 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

You didn't mention where your from, I assume some places with lots of Sikhs especially in the big cities would have some networking areas where you could meet-up.

He’s from UK. 

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52 minutes ago, SikhInTheMaking said:

Hi everyone, 

I know that this is not a networking site but im not sure where else to go or how else to go about this. Im basically a 28 year old guy trying to get away from a bad crowd and grow closer to sikhi and want to get involved in doing more seva. I guess im just looking for someone whos willing to help and give advice on my current situation as I literally have no one to talk to. My current crowd would laugh at me if they seen this lol

Rather than writing about all my problems on here and asking for advice, I thought I would just post this and anyone whos willing to help me can just drop me a message. I really dont know where else to go to make fellow sikh friends who will help me in my journey to sikhi

Anything you can do is appreciated, even if its a general talk please feel free to drop me a message and ask about my situation 

Thanks

Waheguru ji ka khalsa 

Waheguru ji ki fateh 

If you are single, best option is to get married.

Late twenties is right age to marry & start a family not for making friends.

Find someone whose willing & compatible.

Both of you can do Sangat & Seva (live n learn together).

Waheguru ji ka khalsa 

Waheguru ji ki fateh 

 

 

 

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7 hours ago, SikhInTheMaking said:

Hi everyone, 

I know that this is not a networking site but im not sure where else to go or how else to go about this. Im basically a 28 year old guy trying to get away from a bad crowd and grow closer to sikhi and want to get involved in doing more seva. I guess im just looking for someone whos willing to help and give advice on my current situation as I literally have no one to talk to. My current crowd would laugh at me if they seen this lol

Rather than writing about all my problems on here and asking for advice, I thought I would just post this and anyone whos willing to help me can just drop me a message. I really dont know where else to go to make fellow sikh friends who will help me in my journey to sikhi

Anything you can do is appreciated, even if its a general talk please feel free to drop me a message and ask about my situation 

Thanks

Yeah I understand. I don't trustany of my friends, every single one of them has stabbed me in the back bar one, who lives in another country.

 

My family is the same, all backstabbing.

Sangats important, but don't forget that humans can turn any minute and very suddenly, its usually each for themself when push comes to shove.

Which is why the Gurus Said that they have no friends or family except God.

Find Good souls to be friends with, they're needles in a haystack but ask and believe and they'll likely come to you. If not, u always have Him.

 

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Well tbh im in the same boat. Most of the people I know are not religious at all. I came here because I also wanted to learn more about my religion. All i can say is that dont feel guilty or ashamed that you're trying to improve your life. There is still so much that I dont know but im slowly trying to become an honest and true sikh .Better late than never is what I say. 

Btw what first made you feel like you needed to come on this forum, was it just about this girl ? 

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