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 I had put up a  support post about an abusive family , which included the women and man being abusive (physically, emotionally and mentally). Thankfully,  God me out of the abuse and  now I have the gift of doing bani.

A few people had asked me for an inkling about how the family were so as not to take a rishta to them. The man is still unmarried.

I did not want to gossip but at the same time I didn't want NOT to warn other people. It's been a while now so I'm putting this up just as a warning to other people. DO NOT confront these people. God will deal with them when the time comes

I think of all the abuse I suffered, the most painful was complete indifference to Guru Gobind Singh Ji's great sacrifices and the Sahibzaade. I cannot understand how a family that puts up a pretense of culture and self righteousness sees nothing wrong with insulting the Gurus. I was constantly demeaned for praying and he would laugh at the Guru's and say how backwards they were compared to "science".

The family lives in derby. The man has 3 sisters of which one is divorced and the other 2 are struggling to stay married. He runs a shop.The mother goes to the Gurdwara and puts up a pretense of being religious. She is the most toxic and a hypocrite.

Do not take any rishte to them, they are abusive and a woman's life will get ruined. The mother and sisters are extremely jealous and underachievers (all live in ghettos) so they  put down others. The man talks to women on facebook and is secretive (he covers up his tracks)

 

I will ask the mods to delete this post after a while, simply because I don't want any negativity around me anymore or this family to trouble me . Mods please acknowledge

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Punjabi culture like drinking etc are taking over how a proper anand karaj should be done. I'm not saying all of Punjabi culture i'm just talking about certain aspects. Sorry if I offended anyone that was not my intention.

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