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In Sikh/Punjabi culture, when dear relatives and friends visit... we never send them away empty handed

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simran345    2,422

Good idea. The other things that one gets gifted is women's suits that you're never going to have sewn or a man's shirt that's probably the wrong size and colour. Although I do think this is stopping nowadays. Cakes seem to be the new thing now. 

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jkvlondon    3,419

Or give them a book on sikh history, health,healthy cooking even gutkey/ pothian even better if handwritten .

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Kaur501    4
On 9/8/2017 at 9:33 AM, singhbj singh said:

 

 

 

Haha very good idea spending some time in green vegetables garden refresh our mind a lot.

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simran345    2,422
4 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

Good food & courteous behaviour is sufficient no need for gifts.

Bibi's who are bad cooks have to compensate with gifts😆

When are you going to stop the bibian mehne? 

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simran345    2,422
4 hours ago, Kaur501 said:

Yes good food works but we should follow our culture of receiving gifts ...lol

Penji I think you quoted my post by mistake ? 

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Kaur501    4
15 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

Good food & courteous behaviour is sufficient no need for gifts.

Bibi's who are bad cooks have to compensate with gifts😆

Good food works but we should follow our culture of receiving  🎁😆

 

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Jacfsing2    1,834
On 9/13/2017 at 5:35 AM, singhbj singh said:

Good food & courteous behaviour is sufficient no need for gifts.

Bibi's who are bad cooks have to compensate with gifts😆

I can understand why you can't cook, but it isn't some elite skill that you can't learn yourself. Punjabis have always been giving gifts to each other since pre-Sikh era, they aren't going to stop just because some guy on the internet is saying stupid stuff about Kaurs.

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