Glad to see someone with knowledge on gut flora. The good bacteria in there LOVES vegetables. We should involve light cooked/ steamed veggies in our diet. A good portion of it. This prevents dysbiosis.
Used to know someone with the surname Randhawa and from a Sikh background whose dad then family converted to Buddhism so not easy to know just from surname. There must be more than we think but not too many, in my opinion.
Here's something to try which was told to me years ago. Meditate and search inwards for 'you', that 'unique you' that you hold dear and all that. Really search inside for that special 'me' 'you' thing. It's quite profound because when you go looking for 'me' it's nowhere to be found...there is a nothingness . It's what the world trys to get you to forget with all the other baggage strapped on as you go along the journey. Once you strip it all away there is no 'you'
How about shes got a bit of a screw loose and does this crazy thing because she is basically crazy. In India there are over 1bn people. If 0.0001% of the indian population are absolutely weird and do nutty things then you have 100,000 who would do such things. Now in your circle of people you know how many are nutjobs ? I'm sure it's a lot more than .0001% of them So, apply that to a large population and you have plenty of nuts who will Do weird or crazy things . People are strange