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No, but it's just that your parents probably have some problems or your relationship isn't the best with them.

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2 hours ago, OneBeing said:

Things that my mom says to me keep coming true!!!

Whenever she says "I hope you get sick and become unwell" it comes true like an hour later and i get health problems all of a sudden. Problems that i havnt had for months come back again... what the hell???

Its getting really scary man! She said once "i hope you get a panic attack" and it happened 😲😨😢

So yeah...is it just me and im just acting dumb orrr is this real???

Unless its just my own mental psychological problem turning into physical health effects.

 

You need a thaparh across the face. 

Let me know if it happens 

lol 😄

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2 hours ago, OneBeing said:

Things that my mom says to me keep coming true!!!

Whenever she says "I hope you get sick and become unwell" it comes true like an hour later and i get health problems all of a sudden. Problems that i havnt had for months come back again... what the hell???

Its getting really scary man! She said once "i hope you get a panic attack" and it happened 😲😨😢

So yeah...is it just me and im just acting dumb orrr is this real???

Unless its just my own mental psychological problem turning into physical health effects.

 

Firstly, why is your mother saying these things to you? Have you upset her in any way? Are you being a naughty boy? 

 

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8 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

You need a thaparh across the face. 

Let me know if it happens 

lol 😄

You need a thappar for coming on here and cussing some bechara who is obviously upset and seeking advice. Once again embarassing yourself Mr Big Tedh.

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8 hours ago, simran345 said:

Firstly, why is your mother saying these things to you? Have you upset her in any way? Are you being a naughty boy? 

 

Cuz i couldnt be bothered to wash the dishes 

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Cuz i can

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58 minutes ago, OneBeing said:

Cuz i couldnt be bothered to wash the dishes 

Oh dear. Wash the dishes next time and wipe the worktop after too. Try to do a bit extra to help around the house, if you are not already. Sometimes parents say things in anger, but don't mean it. They just don't know another way of saying it or don't think before the anger strides in. 

Its coincidental that those things happened. And your mind stuck to the words so you got anxious, that's why. 

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Just now, simran345 said:

Oh dear. Wash the dishes next time and wipe the worktop after too. Try to do a bit extra to help around the house, if you are not already. Sometimes parents say things in anger, but don't mean it. They just don't know another way of saying it or don't think before the anger strides in. 

Its coincidental that those things happened. And your mind stuck to the words so you got anxious, that's why. 

Yeah 👍

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  19 hours ago, OneBeing said:

'Things that my mom says to me keep coming true!!!

Whenever she says "I hope you get sick and become unwell" it comes true like an hour later and i get health problems all of a sudden. Problems that i havnt had for months come back again... what the hell???

Its getting really scary man! She said once "i hope you get a panic attack" and it happened 😲😨😢

So yeah...is it just me and im just acting dumb orrr is this real???

Unless its just my own mental psychological problem turning into physical health effects.'

My reply:

Have you told her this? I think your mom should stop saying these things to you especially when she knows everything she says comes true. She should really replace every imprecation of hers' with a blessing, such as, may you win the lottery, marry a good woman when you grow up and give her a few grandchildren when the time is right. May you turn inwards and follow sikhi and Guru Sahib. There are so many nice things one can say to others and what a shame no one says them. Don't be scared man! Do you normally have panic attacks when faced with difficult situations? She should help you with this instead of making it worse. We shouldn't say bad things to anyone let alone to little children.  You can always repeat the naam as soon as she starts to purify your mind and your surroundings till its all over. Naam repetition works as protection so try saying Vaheguru, Vaheguru, Vaheguru mentally till she has finished cursing you.:waheguru::waheguru::waheguru: Then go to your room and continue with the naam jap, simran, till you have regained your composure. Remain composed and collected at all times and don't be scared. You just have to feel sorry for these souls and pray for them beause they are wounded souls due to their wicked past karms, that's all. When we take a new form our past karms, good or wicked, accompany us in this life and we behave according to these past karms. That's why we have to pray for them, for their spiritual well being, so they can be set free from them.

 

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On 10/08/2017 at 5:42 PM, kangw said:

'Things that my mom says to me keep coming true!!!

Whenever she says "I hope you get sick and become unwell" it comes true like an hour later and i get health problems all of a sudden. Problems that i havnt had for months come back again... what the hell???

Its getting really scary man! She said once "i hope you get a panic attack" and it happened 😲😨😢

So yeah...is it just me and im just acting dumb orrr is this real???

Unless its just my own mental psychological problem turning into physical health effects.'

My reply:

Have you told her this? I think your mom should stop saying these things to you especially when she knows everything she says comes true. She should really replace every imprecation of hers' with a blessing, such as, may you win the lottery, marry a good woman when you grow up and give her a few grandchildren when the time is right. May you turn inwards and follow sikhi and Guru Sahib. There are so many nice things one can say to others and what a shame no one says them. Don't be scared man! Do you normally have panic attacks when faced with difficult situations? She should help you with this instead of making it worse. We shouldn't say bad things to anyone let alone to little children.  You can always repeat the naam as soon as she starts to purify your mind and your surroundings till its all over. Naam repetition works as protection so try saying Vaheguru, Vaheguru, Vaheguru mentally till she has finished cursing you.:waheguru::waheguru::waheguru: Then go to your room and continue with the naam jap, simran, till you have regained your composure. Remain composed and collected at all times and don't be scared. You just have to feel sorry for these souls and pray for them beause they are wounded souls due to their wicked past karms, that's all. When we take a new form our past karms, good or wicked, accompany us in this life and we behave according to these past karms. That's why we have to pray for them, for their spiritual well being, so they can be set free from them.

 

maybe OP shouldn't be a lazy son , Singhs are supposed to be active , go getters ....

if the Mum is a bhagtan maybe she is getting to the point that she needs to especially guard her words carefully, no khorde bachans and certainly not wishing lottery wins/hardly kirt di kamai.

maa pio di sewa is a good thing , they did your sewa and are still doing it by looking after you , at least acknowledge a debt of love. Everyone is human even the oldies, so be understanding that the frustration may have got to her and she spoke harshly but I don't think your Mum is evil and trying to hurt you.

Kang veer the only person I know who did shubh bachan when frustrated was my Nani ji ...nobody else it's a lost skill that needs reviving

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4 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

maybe OP shouldn't be a lazy son , Singhs are supposed to be active , go getters ....

if the Mum is a bhagtan maybe she is getting to the point that she needs to especially guard her words carefully, no khorde bachans and certainly not wishing lottery wins/hardly kirt di kamai.

maa pio di sewa is a good thing , they did your sewa and are still doing it by looking after you , at least acknowledge a debt of love. Everyone is human even the oldies, so be understanding that the frustration may have got to her and she spoke harshly but I don't think your Mum is evil and trying to hurt you.

Kang veer the only person I know who did shubh bachan when frustrated was my Nani ji ...nobody else it's a lost skill that needs reviving

I guess im lazy then. Oh well, dunno how to un-lazy myself.

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2 hours ago, OneBeing said:

I guess im lazy then. Oh well, dunno how to un-lazy myself.

maybe do the dishes without having to be asked , you live in the home , if you  do stuff to help maintain it's tidy state your folks would be very appreciative . A few moments of work which would make your atmosphere so much better all the time . 

I know it's hard to change but what helps/ed me was to think I was doing sewa of Guru ji who looks after me through my folks. That Guru ji sent us here to adjust the universe balance to the positive: make it caring, loving, just, full of chardikala because there is already too many being negative, sinful and ungrateful

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