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On 11/08/2017 at 10:40 AM, jkvlondon said:

shiny

Can be shinier. She should also get some rishta pics from him. But make sure they're from a professional Studio, because they're the only ones that specialise in marriage quality poses. Such as; side pose with hand on chin, triangle pose ??‍♂️, might get lucky if they do this one ??‍♂️.  But the best one is ??‍♂️.

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16 hours ago, simran345 said:

No, you done it wrong. First get some leaves, fresh from the garden,(or any garden). Circle around the frame first 20 times, then frame. 

Simran Penji I am ashamed of you! how could you forget the good old black dot behind the ear!!!! shame ! 

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Just joking :D 

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While its tempting to lash out at her as irresponsible nd shallow, or ridicule her as i m seeing in the posts above, i can somehow also relate to wat she's going through 

Lets face it, most of our saabat surat guys are hairy. Even those who tend to trim their beards to be more visually appealing, are still lagging behind monay hindu/muslim boys, who on the "visually appealing" scale tend to trump sikh guys. 

And since op is in full joban of her youth, it is but natural that she will fall for the handsome dude rather than some baaba looking material for marriage 

I myself rarely feel attracted to sardar men. Its always the monay groomed guys that ace when it comes to sexuality nd romanticism. 

I m not saying sardars aren't good looking. They can be, but tbh the way current definition of looks is defined in bollywood nd India in general, our men tend to get the shorter end of the stick. 

One can argue we should avoid moh maya because ultimately every handsome dude will get ugly with age. Its guaranteed but i doubt op can avoid maya so easily 

This posts is not an anecdote i feel. It raises several questions we as community need to address. 

This is my take on this post. Best of luck op

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21 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

and his complexion is shiny like a perfectly seasoned tawa.Just be aware that all the violence against women and flippant misogyny springs from UP's wonderful soil , just check all Indian news over the past decade.

Surprisingly, the forum's very own neo-liberals haven't arrived on this thread yet. Their noses blocked or something? 

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