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singh598    381
9 hours ago, scali said:

First of all death is an illusion. Energy doesn't die. We are eternal beings. Just changing forms. For those familiar with NDE (near death experience) studies it's clear there is no judgement but a life review where one experiences the effect of their actions as the other person. Strange enough none of the documented western cases see Dharamraj. Makes me wonder does ones belief has something to do with it as ones belief creates ones reality even after so called death(illusion)

Your explanation contradicts Gurbani...obviously non of us are experts in what happens afterlife bit I know Satguru Granth Sahib is and Gurbani has given many teachings on the afterlife

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Akalifauj    791
10 hours ago, scali said:

First of all death is an illusion. Energy doesn't die. We are eternal beings. Just changing forms. For those familiar with NDE (near death experience) studies it's clear there is no judgement but a life review where one experiences the effect of their actions as the other person. Strange enough none of the documented western cases see Dharamraj. Makes me wonder does ones belief has something to do with it as ones belief creates ones reality even after so called death(illusion)

If your view is true, apply it to Vaheguru.  Western cases did not obtain Naam as Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji in Bachittar Natak says.  So is Naam and Vaheguru only a belief created by Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji reality?  Your theory's core is polluted.

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Akalifauj    791
8 hours ago, pardesanbibbi2 said:

@ OneBeing Please watch these short videos, they might be of some help.

 

 

 

Gurbani holds the truth.  When we have the true Guru in front of us, only a fool would go searching else where for answers.  You try to give off the impression of being a grounded individual but you have not even understood the basic concept of Gurparsad in Mool Mantar.  You want to stick your head in dirty holes, by all means go right ahead.  But Sikhs of the Guru go directly to their Guru.  You posted a video of Anand Sahib.  You are only attached to the musical instruments and the voice singing.  You have not listened to the shabad.  The Shabad Guru in Anand Sahib says, come Sikhs of the Guru and sing this Bani with me (with the Guru).  Others may say God is this, God is that but they are all false.  In the Sikh community the devil doesn't have horns and sharp teeth and nails.  Instead the devil wears white robes and white turbans as they worship stone idols and hold their yoga postures.  

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Kira    1,246
11 hours ago, scali said:

First of all death is an illusion. Energy doesn't die. We are eternal beings. Just changing forms. For those familiar with NDE (near death experience) studies it's clear there is no judgement but a life review where one experiences the effect of their actions as the other person. Strange enough none of the documented western cases see Dharamraj. Makes me wonder does ones belief has something to do with it as ones belief creates ones reality even after so called death(illusion)

yes "near death" there has been records in the west of a Judge (or some other sort of figure) aiding in bringing people back to earth.

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scali    198

All I am saying is there is only one in many forms. And a one thing will not judge itself. It's free will given to itself by itself to create any experience which is the true definition of unconditional love.  What the point of creation and then judge, punish, condemn it. Even the author of Bandginama Raghbir Singh says Gurbani uses some things as a bugbear to steer people in correct direction. There is only ONE.....

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Destruction    155

Accept it,one truth in life that we all will perish , all our loved ones ,friends all will face death. Accept it and try to jorrrr with satguru only peace you will find on earth, unless you own 100acre land away from cars and planes.

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luckysingh99    1,145

Embrace it. Death is beautiful. Death is the birth to newer Truth.

Do kamayee, get naam and prepare for the satch

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scali    198
15 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

If your view is true, apply it to Vaheguru.  Western cases did not obtain Naam as Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji in Bachittar Natak says.  So is Naam and Vaheguru only a belief created by Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji reality?  Your theory's core is polluted.

GOD precedes everything just as it says in Sukhmani Sahib. Naam and Vaheguru is the only reality rest is an illusion, WE make it all up. All conclusions in an illusion is still an illusion. The are all subjective(opinions) mind based. Death is an integration birth is disintegration( body, mind and spirit). If you want to be judged upon death it will be created for you since that realm is thought reponsive manifesations are instantaneous. The idea is to gradually evolve us into self responsibility just as one big self (ONEness)  not to get you back which is a very human concept.

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joker    18

when you're scared of living but afraid to die. I get scared of giving and I must find the faith to beat it.

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harsharan000    2,068
On 5/8/2017 at 11:02 AM, OneBeing said:

So I'm scared of whats gonna happen to me after death.

Who knows, the Dharam Raja could decide to chuck me into a pot full of boiling hot oil for 100 million years or something 😢😢😢

And i dont wanna die cuz i dont wanna become a pig or something in my next life.  And i dont wanna have a caraplier life than i have right now 😢😢😢

What if i dont get to be a sikh and have to be born in a non gursikh family 😢😢😢😣

Im trying hard to do path, simran etc. But who knows what the Dharam raja is gonna do, its really harsh up there. I dont really care about mukhti or whatever, its not a goal lf mine cuz obviously its not gonna happen. 

OneBeing Jee,

today I was going through the Anmol Bani, where I came through the following passage, which I feel that it  can dispel your fears, for it is not a man made message, but rather directly from Guru Jee.

So pay attention carefully, and try to follow it implicitly, there is nothing to loose, but gain Him Himself through His kirpa.

Raag Bilaval, Third Patshahee Sree Guru Amar Das Maharaj.

Here it goes:

ਜਿਸ ਦਾ ਸਾਹਿਬੁ ਡਾਢਾ ਹੋਇ

Jis Dha Sahib Ddadta Hoe ||

One who belongs to the All-powerful Lord and Master

 

ਤਿਸ ਨੋ ਮਾਰਿ ਨ ਸਾਕੈ ਕੋਇ

This No Mar N Sakai Koe ||

No one can destroy him.

 

ਸਾਹਿਬ ਕੀ ਸੇਵਕੁ ਰਹੈ ਸਰਣਾਈ

Sahib Kee Saevak Rehai Saranaee ||

The Lord's servant remains under His protection;

 

ਆਪੇ ਬਖਸੇ ਦੇ ਵਡਿਆਈ

Apae Bakhasae Dhae Vaddiaee ||

The Lord Himself forgives him, and blesses him with glorious greatness.

 

ਤਿਸ ਤੇ ਊਪਰਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਕੋਇ

This Thae Oopar Nahee Koe ||

There is none higher than Him.

 

ਕਉਣੁ ਡਰੈ ਡਰੁ ਕਿਸ ਕਾ ਹੋਇ ॥੪॥

Koun Ddarai Ddar Kis Ka Hoe ||4||

Why should he be afraid? What should he ever fear? ||4||

 

ਗੁਰਮਤੀ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਵਸੈ ਸਰੀਰ ॥

Guramathee Santh Vasai Sareer ||

Through the Guru's Teachings, peace and tranquility abide within the body.

 

The key here is to become a sewak of  Wahiguru Akal Purukh, by doing His selfless sewa, which is none other than His chintan, His Mahima, His ustatee, His simran.

The Bani says, that alone sewa is accepted in His court, that one, which pleases Him.

So which one  pleases Him and is the highest?

Again the Bani says: Sarab dharm meh sresht dharm Har ka Naam jap nirmal karma.

 

Sat Sree Akal.

 

 

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On 05/08/2017 at 5:02 PM, OneBeing said:

So I'm scared of whats gonna happen to me after death.

Who knows, the Dharam Raja could decide to chuck me into a pot full of boiling hot oil for 100 million years or something 😢😢😢

And i dont wanna die cuz i dont wanna become a pig or something in my next life.  And i dont wanna have a caraplier life than i have right now 😢😢😢

What if i dont get to be a sikh and have to be born in a non gursikh family 😢😢😢😣

Im trying hard to do path, simran etc. But who knows what the Dharam raja is gonna do, its really harsh up there. I dont really care about mukhti or whatever, its not a goal lf mine cuz obviously its not gonna happen. 

Good. Use it to your advantage. I wish I still had the same fear of death I used to have. Motivated me to do something with my life and progress in Sikhi. 

Be grateful you've been blessed with this. Many pass their lives without even thinking of Death..

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Akalifauj    791
On 06/08/2017 at 10:35 AM, scali said:

GOD precedes everything just as it says in Sukhmani Sahib. Naam and Vaheguru is the only reality rest is an illusion, WE make it all up. All conclusions in an illusion is still an illusion. The are all subjective(opinions) mind based. Death is an integration birth is disintegration( body, mind and spirit). If you want to be judged upon death it will be created for you since that realm is thought reponsive manifesations are instantaneous. The idea is to gradually evolve us into self responsibility just as one big self (ONEness)  not to get you back which is a very human concept.

You are very selective when it comes to Gurbani.  Gurbani says God exist and so does Naam and so does heaven and hell.  Yet you refuse to accept the last two exist from Gurbani evidence.  Gurbani says heaven and hell exist.  Heaven and hell are temporary reality as long as creation exist.  Gurbani says from one the world came into existence and humans were placed in creation.  Suffering of heaven and hell are real as suffering from a lost loved one.  You have been watching some videos of hippies wearing white and all high on acid.  I recommend you read Gurbani with both eyes open the whole way throughout Sukhmani sahib.  You can't close them when you don't like what is being said.

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scali    198

It seem like you are the type who keeps getting reincarnated again and again as a fanatic Muslim, Christian, Hindu or Jew and make the same claim everytime that your path is right one. Maybe you have a need to judge or be judged so I guess may take the scenic hell route where entites can't wait to spit their venom back at you like you do on this fourm.

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