Is being gay wrong in sikhi

[Guest Jacfsing2]

1 hour ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

You 20 year old buffoon ! Your education was a waste. It doesn't matter if you studied in a top school in western hemisphere, you're still the same punjabi trash of backwaters . 

If you're not a fa*ggot , stop speaking abt them and why and how they're . Go and patao a girl , marry her and get settled . I don't hate women . I have many female friends . Its just that I can never feel lusty towards women , I just don't have any feelings . And rather I have feelings for men the same way perhaps women feel for men. I am not even a porn fan , and don't watch it much . Honestly you're just trolling here . Gay is related to attraction, not sex or porn . grow up kid 

Read everything I said, instead of picking and choosing what to comment on. And how would someone know they had lust for men?

[Guest]

Just now, Jacfsing2 said:

And how would someone know they had lust for men?

like how you know you lust women ? honestly use your brain man . you know who you're . The other person knws who he is

[Guest Jacfsing2]

4 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

like how you know you lust women ? honestly use your brain man . you know who you're . The other person knws who he is

Reasonable people don't lust over any one. Just because someone is straight doesn't mean they don't have secret fetishes either. In the same homosexuality has been a fetish as well. Many Roman kings and queens before the rise of the Christian faith were openly into this fetish, as well as others.

[sikhni777]

Being gay is according to me- finding yourself in a body which does not agree with your mind. i.e a girls mind in a mans body. 

The gay person struggles to come to terms with it as they realise they are different at the age when sexual fantasies about the opposite sex start. Of course when you realise yours is happening not the conventional way... you get anxious, self cconscious and disturbed too. It is not a disease or a condition whichcan be cured. Everybody around disapproves when you try to speak about it. This leaves you with a void... which naturally finds itself filling up when you meet someone just like yourself.  The chances of these maybe slim because only 8 % of the population have a gay tendency.  

Sikhi is all about leading a righteous life.  Such behaviour might just trap you in your karma further. All the emotions that you go through alone might not be helping self esteem either.  Therefore it is important to exercise self control and meditation in order to raise yourself higher. What this human birth is for should be considered very seriously.  It is reading gurbani.  Aayo sunan paran ko bani.