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I did not last 24 hours before breaking amrit. Accidently took off my lashera. What I am I missing out on. How different wiuld my life be if i didnt mess up. Am i still amritdhari. I need correction and live in gta , and dont know when next amrit sanchar is.

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You only break Amrit from the 4 Kurehits, every thing else you can make your own punishment, (with doing Ardas and getting Hukamnama first).

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I live in Toronto and just asked my amritdhari parents. 

They said get in contact with the Panj Piyarey. If you don't have their contact info, my parents say you must go to any Gurudwara and ask the sevadaars there to (help you) get in touch with the Panj Piyarey. If for some reason you still can't get their info, I'll be happy to get you in contact with them, as my parents know a few. 

* Regarding 'how different your life would be if you didn't mess up' ..don't sweat it bro. God understands and you've already taken the right step, wanting to know what you should do. 

My parents said you should not feel intimidated because of this mistake. They also said new amrithdharis sometimes forget things like keeping kashera on. God is forgiving bro. 

(& I'll assume you meant kashera, not lashera lol) 

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Bajjar kurehits: 

hukka 

hajamat

halalo

haram

kurehits:

taking off kachera 

go to panj pyare and tell them what happened. If you don't you're going to feel guilty. Trust me. 

 

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You don't have to wait until next Amrit sanchar though bro.. Go to the Gurudwara tomorrow and talk to the sevadaars there. (Or whenever you're able to make it) 

Go to Dixie one, or Malton one, wherever, as soon as you have time. It doesn't matter about when Amrit sanchar is.. The sevadaars will help you get in touch with Panj Piyarey. 

Like I mentioned earlier.. If for some reason you still can't get in touch with Panj Piyarey, I'll be happy to get you in contact with them, as my parents know a few in the area. 

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17 hours ago, Guest Singh said:

Thanks but I dont know when next amrit sanchar is in gta area 

Just contact your panj

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On 02/08/2017 at 5:37 PM, Guest Singh said:

Quick question 

I did not last 24 hours before breaking amrit. Accidently took off my lashera. What I am I missing out on. How different wiuld my life be if i didnt mess up. Am i still amritdhari. I need correction and live in gta , and dont know when next amrit sanchar is.

Calm down. Nothing will happen.  You did it by accident so there was no intention to take it off anyway. Therfore it wont count as any sort of kurehit. Its just a minor thing. 

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Vaheguro ji ka khalsa Vaheguro ji ki fateh,

Dear veer ji calm down. We all do mistake. If someone drops his/her kanga or kirpan one should do one jap ji sahib and ardaas. Thats according to panj pyare. Some panj pyare tell us just to do ardaas.

HOWEVER if for any reason your Kashera gets off you cant just do ardaas. You need to contact 5 amritdhari singhs and get seva from them for taking off your Kashera. And they will do ardaas for you. Of course there is no need to be scared just do benti and tell them what happend:). I would suggest you to go to Gurdwara Jot Parkash, Malton or Rexdale. I am not from Canada.. i heared alot of good things from there. And keep your rehat dont be in any doubt bro. We are all human :)

 

Gurdwara Jot Parkash +1 905-790-1415

Gurdwara Malton +1 905-671-1662

Rexdale Gurdwara +1 416-746-6666

 

Dont explain the one the phone why your kashera fell off. Just say you need panj tyar amritdhari singh to talk infront of Guru sahib ji. Thats all.

For those who will bash me for my comments. This is maryada told by guru sahib. Just skip it and dont start a discussion. 

 

 

 

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On 8/3/2017 at 1:36 PM, OneBeing said:

Calm down. Nothing will happen.  You did it by accident so there was no intention to take it off anyway. Therfore it wont count as any sort of kurehit. Its just a minor thing. 

 

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On 8/3/2017 at 10:13 AM, Guest D_Gupt_Kaur said:

Go to Dixie one, or Malton one, wherever, as soon as you have time. It doesn't matter about when Amrit sanchar is.. The sevadaars will help you get in touch with Panj Piyarey. 

Like I mentioned earlier.. If for some reason you still can't get in touch with Panj Piyarey, I'll be happy to get you in contact with them, as my parents know a few in the area. 

While it's true that the Panj Piare don't have to assemble only for an Amrit Sanchar, it's misleading to say that the sevadaars will "get you in touch with Panj Piare." Five Singhs who did seva as Panj Piare on, say, April 14, 2017, are not still the Panj Piare on the 3rd of August. They are chosen for a seva, they are Panj Piare during the seva, and they cease to be afterwards. If they didn't cease to be, you wouldn't need to do individual sudhai (correction) of the five Singhs when they come in to do seva.

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2 hours ago, BhForce said:

While it's true that the Panj Piare don't have to assemble only for an Amrit Sanchar, it's misleading to say that the sevadaars will "get you in touch with Panj Piare." Five Singhs who did seva as Panj Piare on, say, April 14, 2017, are not still the Panj Piare on the 3rd of August. They are chosen for a seva, they are Panj Piare during the seva, and they cease to be afterwards. If they didn't cease to be, you wouldn't need to do individual sudhai (correction) of the five Singhs when they come in to do seva.

@BhForce 

Sorry ji, I don't recall saying it must be the same Panj Piyarey from Amrit Sanchar or vice versa. I'm just saying Guest_Singh should get in touch with Panj Piyarey, who will then tell him what to do. Gurdwara committees have details on who were in Panj Piyarey seva at that time anyway so I don't see what the issue is in asking the committee how to get in touch with them :/ 

If anyone has better suggestions, please help out Guest_Singh cuz I'm not antarjaami.. 

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9 hours ago, TaksalDaSingh9771 said:

 

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Oh, my bad. I've never heard of these rules until now.

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12 hours ago, OneBeing said:

Oh, my bad. I've never heard of these rules until now.

Sorry if I offended you ji

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21 hours ago, Guest D_Gupt_Kaur said:

@BhForce 

Sorry ji, I don't recall saying it must be the same Panj Piyarey from Amrit Sanchar or vice versa. I'm just saying Guest_Singh should get in touch with Panj Piyarey, who will then tell him what to do. Gurdwara committees have details on who were in Panj Piyarey seva at that time anyway so I don't see what the issue is in asking the committee how to get in touch with them :/ 

If anyone has better suggestions, please help out Guest_Singh cuz I'm not antarjaami.. 

Well, I hope I didn't come down too hard on you. I was just objecting to the terminology, because within the terminology is a doctrinal point. I was just saying that Singhs who happened to have done Panj Piyare seva last time are not still Panj Piyare. They are not Panj Piyare while walking around their supermarket. Nor are Panj Piyare while sitting on their sofa listening to you talking about losing your kakkar. They have to have sudhai (correction) and an ardass to take on and use the powers of Panj Piyare. So, it's fine to put a person in touch with a chardi-kala Singh, who can then call up 4 more, and then assemble, do ardas, and then become Panj Piyare, and do ardas for you.

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