Plenty of women don't like this bani because they simply do not understand it. Feminism has changed the western (industrialized) democracies beyond recognition, are you implying the same is happening in the sikh communities? Are sikh women going down the same destructive route as far as sexual exploitation of women is concerned? If so, why are they not learning from western women to see the dangers? Remember, men are too 'terrified' to read this wonderful piece of work, how can you say they need to read it too? It is definitely very subtle in many places but also very direct in others.
I am blaming false squeamishness on victorian attitudes ...because if they can do all that and even act besharam and hide it in front of Jaanijaan Guru Pita ji then of course it is human nature but That "hit is not SIKH behaviour or culture so please refrain from calling indulgers Sikh because they for sure are not following Guru ji in any meaningful way