marital relation

[ms514]

In short it's still not considered a Kurehit. 

[harsharan000]

On 12/6/2017 at 0:29 PM, Guest Original Poster said:

Thank you everyone for your replies. I appreciate everyones input. One commenter asked about me and my husband having had 'just s..e..x' - but thats just it - it was not just s...e.x.. - it is the type of s..e..x we had - specifically AS and I gave him OS. We are both willing to go Pesh - if we have done wrong then we have done wrong. we will own up and next time try to control ourselves a bit more.

1. Will Waheguru forgive me as a mum for taking part in such actions whilst carrying our baby?

2. Will Waheguru forgive us for carrying out such actions?

3. How should we word these actipns to the Panj Pyare?

 

Thank you all.

1) If we are bhoolanhaar, then He, is also Sadbhakshanhaar

2) Yes He will surely forgive, but that does not mean, after Him forgiving us, we cheat on him, and keep on repeating our mistakes again and again.

3) Talk to them straight forwardlywith humility and honesty, just as adults should do.

 

Do sincere Ardaas to Wahiguru, to give you strength,so that you may not blacken your faces again by falling shamelessly into kaam. 

You are seeing the effects by yourselves, of falling prey to kaam vaasnas, it made you fall, and now it is creating a heavy sense of guilty within you and restlesness.

Marriage does not mean, getting free license to give total freedom to kaam.

Marriage means, to have a control our kaam vaasnas, which otherwise is quite a difficult task, and means also deep respect and love for our spouse, otherwise what is the difference between us and the animals, then also, after being human beings, we are sikhs too.

So keeping Guru Jee in mind at all times, we should fulfill our relations with all, including spouses, and not degrading ourselves to those of subhuman species of lower levels of consciousness.

God bless you.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

[Guest Sikh]

You dont need to pesh.

Pesh for following:

 

1.eating meat egg fish

2. Taking intoxicants

3. Cutting any hair

4. Sexual relations with someone not your spouse.

 

There is nothing wrong with any consensual sexual relations with your spouse.

[Guest Hello]

Thank you so much. you guys are great. We will go pesh at next Amrit sanchar