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12 minutes ago, singh598 said:

Mister singh you are so right as I'm going through many mental problems such as cutting my kes and being married do a girl from India... Two major mistakes 

Dreams are just your unconscious thoughts manifesting in certain ways through symbolism and such things. It's not terribly important. If you're aware of the issues that are causing you problems during your waking hours, you can set about devising solutions to those problems. 

Did you cut your kes believing it would make you more desirable and attractive to your wife?

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28 minutes ago, singh598 said:

being married do a girl from India... 

Can anyone explain to me why this is a problem? I though most of us, (Sikhs), were Subcontinental or Punjabi(I'd be glad if we did enough Prachar to see this isn't true, but sadly it is), unless you cut your Kesh with the intent on marrying her which is one person with a condition?

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Just now, Jacfsing2 said:

Can anyone explain to me why this is a problem? I though most of us, (Sikhs), were Subcontinental or Punjabi(I'd be glad if we did enough Prachar to see this isn't true, but sadly it is), unless you cut your Kesh with the intent on marrying her which is one person with a condition?

Huge cultural, emotional, and general mental disparities that aren't conducive to a healthy and successful long-term relationship. Both camps have their plus points and downsides; this isn't an attack on contemporary resident Indians. It's not as black and white as suggesting they're constantly in the wrong and we're blameless. 

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1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

Lmao, like I said, petty and vindictive. Come at me, bro, I'm in the mood for a laugh or two. You got called out on your degeneracy, and you're now holding a grudge. That's a typically feminine trait. I'm not surprised.

Where have I suggested that my comment was some sort of vendetta against you ? its all in your head . I would have replied same way for someone else who made that hocus pocus comment.

Is the senile age getting to you ? Also I ain't your bro , you and me have a 50 yr age gap .

Also whats wrong in feminine trait ? Punjabi patriarchal (evil) attitudes still trump egalitarian sikh values , isn't it ? no wonder then that the kaum is in such a quagmire. 

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1 minute ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Where have I suggested that my comment was some sort of vendetta against you ? its all in your head . I would have replied same way for someone else who made that hocus pocus comment.

Is the senile age getting to you ? Also I ain't your bro , you and me have a 50 yr age gap .

Also whats wrong in feminine trait ? Punjabi patriarchal (evil) attitudes still trump egalitarian sikh values , isn't it ? no wonder then that the kaum is in such a quagmire. 

I'll make this clear: don't reply to me from now on. I don't wish to engage in your gutter discussions. 

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37 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

Huge cultural, emotional, and general mental disparities that aren't conducive to a healthy and successful long-term relationship. Both camps have their plus points and downsides; this isn't an attack on contemporary resident Indians. It's not as black and white as suggesting they're constantly in the wrong and we're blameless. 

What about the conservative, (as in Punjabi conservativism not Sikh, I'm not one of them), people that are born into one of those western nations? (Though I hear India has become an extremely liberal place, even more so than even the Diaspora-born Sikhs, in terms of loyalty to Sikhi). But even some Non-Sikhs can work with cross nationality marriages.

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1 minute ago, MisterrSingh said:

I'll make this clear: don't reply to me from now on. I don't wish to engage in your gutter discussions. 

mirch lagi uncle ji ? Don't think ppl will respect you just for your white beard when you personally attack people. 

Don't think I am dependent on you for salvaging me from my quagmire ! I am sure my family, my SGGS and my waheguru is enough for that. And if not, I have my karam and will expend it out crying or laughing.

Maybe you should look at your own views first : which are already we know as islamophobic (hatred for all muslims , not just islamist ones), homophobia and now MISOGYNY ! 

 

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10 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Maybe you should look at your own views first : which are already we know as islamophobic (hatred for all muslims , not just islamist ones), homophobia and now MISOGYNY ! 

I'm also a child-killing, devil-worshipping, anti-Semitic Nazi. 

 

14 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

What about the conservative, (as in Punjabi conservativism not Sikh, I'm not one of them), people that are born into one of those western nations? (Though I hear India has become an extremely liberal place, even more so than even the Diaspora-born Sikhs, in terms of loyalty to Sikhi). But even some Non-Sikhs can work with cross nationality marriages.

There's  a sea of difference between resident Punjabi conservatism and Western / Diaspora conservatism. The kind of conservative views that Punjabi traditionalists in our community hold would be deemed to be racist, etc., if whites held the same opinions. Think about what you post. Don't expect me to write a ream of text with various quantifiers. Read between the lines. Don't be so literal. 

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4 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

I'm also a child-killing, devil-worshipping, anti-Semitic Nazi. 

 

I am seriously feeling apologetic about what I said previously to you in my previous post . But I feel at times you are a bit *insensitive* . Sorry again uncle ji , not that I expect you to talk to me or help me in my issues. Sorry 

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