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"Necessity is the mother of invention"
 
proverb
when the need for something becomes essential, you are forced to find ways of getting or achieving it.
 
Dating is supposedly a taboo for Sikhs but as money takes priority over moral values n parents no longer bothered who can say it's wrong.
 
I wonder why there's no mention of minimum & maximum age for marriage in Rehat Maryada ?
 
None of the religious leaders were genuine & bold enough to add this much needed diktat "marrying age" in Sikh Code of Conduct.
 
 
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On 13/05/2017 at 0:54 AM, Guest kkaur said:

Imagine, using a dating site to get to know a potential partner, instead of sleeping with them. Imagine a world where people aren't so judgemental like you.  And yes I have an account on a matrimonial site, and no I don't date. But glad to know what kind of Sikh "boy" I should avoid.

Tony isnt saying anything wrong it seems people like you want to justify anti-sikh antics. Your probably one of those unsuitable sikh girls that no sikh guy wants long term and is left in trash dung heap for just casual daters to use and abuse.

Unsuitable girls are plenty on dating sites however wifey types are very few indeed

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