Rehat maryada

[Guest Jot]

I am a  amrithari 21 yr old sikh girl.I have taken amrit 6 years ago.Initially i was upto my sikh rehat doing path ,simran and all that.But when i came to college gradually i stopped doing nitnem and found myself surrounded by manmukh people.As I am amrithari so i need to keep my facial hair.But one day my friend teased me for my upper lip hair  i felt very offended that i end up removing them.So i did beadbi of my rom.I know I have commited a sin and i really wants to make things right.Do I need to have peshi in front of panj pyare? Will Guru Sahib forgive me?

[Guest Bhaenjee]

Bhaenjee yes you do need to go Pesh infront of Guru Granth Sahib Jee and Panj Piaarae. And yes Maaraaj will forgive you. Removing Kes is one of the 4 Bujjar Kuraits we need to protect ourselves from. Can I just ask if this 'friend' is not willing to accept you for who you are (baptised Sikh) can you really call her a friend? I went to Uni for four years and remained in Bana and Dhumalla and not once did I encounter any of my friends in making a comment about my appearance. When you mix with manmatee people you WILL get such remarks. Might I note all the friends I had were in uni for the same reason as I was - TO GET AN EDUCATION. I didnt care once if I had friends, or someone to spend time/study with between lectures. When people identify you are trying to "fit in" - by dressing like them, socialising like them etc they will edge their way into your inner core. Im surprised you did romaa(n) dee beadbee... - did you not explain to your "friend" that Sikhs do NOT cut their hair...come on we are Singhniya! Our mothers had their children chopped up and we give in to the first tiny hurdle.... WAKE UP! We will NOT die if we don't have a social circle whilst studying. If I was you I would have explained to this loud mouth girl about my religion if she still was acting stupid I would have broken ties with her. Soldier the f*** up. 

 

Regards, 

Bhaenjee

[Guest]

Yes pesh is required and yes guru sahib will forgive you.