Jacfsing2 tips to deal with Kaam, (Note: not win, just deal with it!)

[MisterrSingh]

12 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

I may post more tomorrow. 

Kaam master? ?, I am nowhere near winning, as long as I'm not Jeevan Mukt, that is. I'll be glad if this fight ends in this lifetime, my only goal is to assist people,(and myself through my own research and experience), not take them for some victory.

[Kira]

You should try castration..sure fire way to deal with masturbation.

[KhalistanYouth]

may the forc- may the kaam master be with you?  wait no..

[KhalistanYouth]

37 minutes ago, Kira said:

You should try castration..sure fire way to deal with masturbation.

Protip: get kids first

[KhalistanYouth]

young padawan.

if you think of beating your meat, all you have to do is do something else, maybe get into a habit of reading books or start watching movies more often, think of something nasty, play games?

 

[kalyugi]

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[Guest AjeetSinghPunjabi]

Why we have kaam ?

 

Human biology , simple answer.

Its not in your head. It starts from your nuts. 

This is precisely the reason why some spiritual seekers in India would go to such an extent to attain samadhi and freedom from kaam that they would castrate themselves ! That became a spiritual order by itself.

Thats why khusre in south india are still refererred to as "jogappa" (jogi). 

 

Ok , now personal observations on effects of Kaam on people (Amritdhari yes ) around me.

One of them left amrit after initial years of "josh" and we came to knew he made her cousin's wife elope with him. 

Another one who almost looks like a khaarku , a 6 feet tall wide chested singh who wears a big dumalla and 1 feet long kirpan is in jail because he made some sexual remarks on a teen girl whose parents complained it to police . He was founder of his own thriving and growing coaching classes for school kids and the teen girl was one of his students. Also, recently he would speak in a very egoistic manner.

 

So , Bros it makes one thing clear : Just taking Khande di paahul (I won't use the world "amrit") is not going to make us free from 5 torments of kaam krodh lobh moh ahankaar. Although it could give you a feeling of entitlement and a "holier than thou" attitude as is often seen unfortunately in people who took "khande baate di paahul" but not "amrit" 

Nobody said it would be easy. Guru Gobind Singh ji didn't say it will be easy. Taking khande baate di paahul is a way , a start of journey which will help you reach till amrit and thats when you become free from kaam krodh lob moh ahankaar.

Most our our people mistakenly feel Khande baate di paahul means they've have now got token of a seat in sachkhand lol . 

[Guest AjeetSinghPunjabi]

I have wondered at times , 

If challenge is to subdue kaam (?) , then what if one took some medicines that produce same effect.

Would that be cheating in a spiritual context ? or would spiritual benefits of eradicating kaam would still be received by such a person ?