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Sakhi - Maharaj gives marriage advice to Bibi Bhani

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Does anyone know the advice Maharaj gave to Bibi Bhani? 

Theres a sakhi where they said 3 bhabbai. Maharaj said to her to always live by 3 principles for a happy marriage with her Husband.

Bhabba bhalla ji

Bhabba bhana ji

Bhabba bhulli ji

 

Can anyone elaborate. I heard it at the gurdwara

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Bhulli Ji means of anything wrong happens in the house, always say it was my fault. Never blame or yell at your spouse.

Bhalla Ji means to always do good. Try to do as much seva as possible of the kids n spouse. Dont get mad or fight with ppl abt extra work, do it as seva.

Bhana Ji. Accept hukam. Dont try to change ppl to fit your perceptions and dont nag ppl to fulfill your goals. Like some men want their wives to always look pretty so always nagging their wives to do make up, and go blond. And some woman want thier husbands to be richer so they nag their husbands to work longer hours, go into politics and beg for promotions.

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