Where to draw the Open line ?

[singhbj singh]

5 minutes ago, monatosingh said:

Singh, let's not start blaming the poor bibi. This was quite unlikely to happen but since it was next to a bar or pub it was most likely to happen.

Why not ?

"Prevention is better then cure"

 

[Ranjeet01]

Ramgharia gurdwara in Slough had to close their toilets due to some junkies shooting up in there.

There is a certain amount of risk you are going to have with being open to all.

Just need the some level of vigilance but this is going to be based on the location of gurdwarae.

 

[Guest]

We don't always have to aim at the Gurdwara, there should be more self-defence classes for Bibi's.

15 minutes ago, singhbj singh said:

Why not ?

"Prevention is better then cure"

 

 

The way you said it was as if this was all Bibi's fault. I think it was because of the position the Gurdwara is currently in.

[singhbj singh]

6 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Ramgharia gurdwara in Slough had to close their toilets due to some junkies shooting up in there.

There is a certain amount of risk you are going to have with being open to all.

Just need the some level of vigilance but this is going to be based on the location of gurdwarae.

 

"Better to be Safe then Sorry"

[singhbj singh]

10 minutes ago, monatosingh said:

We don't always have to aim at the Gurdwara, there should be more self-defence classes for Bibi's.

The way you said it was as if this was all Bibi's fault. I think it was because of the position the Gurdwara is currently in.

Gurdwara or any other place, Bibi's should not venture out alone at night.

Firstly one should avoid going out late if not then go in a group or with family.

 

[Guest]

31 minutes ago, singhbj singh said:

Gurdwara or any other place, Bibi's should not venture out alone at night.

Firstly one should avoid going out late if not then go in a group or with family.

 

I agree, one should not hang out at night, but that doesn't mean they should not go to the Gurdwara. She could of been doing seva.

[singhbj singh]

13 minutes ago, monatosingh said:

I agree, one should not hang out at night, but that doesn't mean they should not go to the Gurdwara. She could of been doing seva.

I'm not in favour of Bibi's going alone n doing Seva at night.

Why can't they do Seva during the day ?

 

[Guest]

Just now, singhbj singh said:

I'm not in favour of Bibi's going alone n doing Seva at night.

Why can't they do Seva during the day ?

 

 

Seva in the night, Seva in the day. It is the same thing. We are still to be blessed by doing Seva.

 

[singhbj singh]

3 minutes ago, monatosingh said:

Seva in the night, Seva in the day. It is the same thing. We are still to be blessed by doing Seva.

 

Bai ji,

Do you think this incident has enhanced Bibi's n her family's reputation ?

[Guest]

Just now, singhbj singh said:

Bai ji,

Do you think this incident has enhanced Bibi's n her family's reputation ?

 

Look, I don't want to blame this over the Bibi.

I agree, she should not have gone late at night but it is also because of how close the pub/bar is to the Gurdwara.