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For some reason I don't like Christians and I know Sikh talks about loving everyone but i really don't like Christians and its is annoying me that I don't like them, maybe because most of the population is Christian and people I used to look up to are Christian 

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On 20/03/2017 at 10:15 PM, Guest Gupt said:

For some reason I don't like Christians and I know Sikh talks about loving everyone but i really don't like Christians and its is annoying me that I don't like them, maybe because most of the population is Christian and people I used to look up to are Christian 

did you have a bad experience with some ? because this level of hate indicates emotional energy sustaining the whole thing. Just like anger ,hate needs to be stoked to maintain it .

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On 3/20/2017 at 6:15 PM, Guest Gupt said:

For some reason I don't like Christians and I know Sikh talks about loving everyone but i really don't like Christians and its is annoying me that I don't like them, maybe because most of the population is Christian and people I used to look up to are Christian 

Do you have any logical reaaon to hate them? I'm pretty vocal on the fact that Sikhi is the only true religion, and Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji as the only way to Vaheguru. Despite that, I still occasionally say that there could be good Christians. Just focus on either benefiting society or being silent, humanity needs recovery not judgement: (either you go out of your way to do Prachar or stay silent on the issue, cause hate isn't really productive).

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11 hours ago, Guest gut said:

I suppose I felt feel that hate because my friend is a christian and doesn't respect my religion and is making me question my beliefs. 

That's not a logical reason "no way no way no way no way no way" (when this was written it was not me, the repeated "no way", but rather my terrible spell-check I kept it with the automatic spell-check for emphasis); you break contact with that one individual; not with an entire faith. Also I'm sorry to tell you that's not a friend; that's some peer pressure guy. You break relations with that person, not some entire population; of maybe some good people. Friends don't pressure each other to convert; but you are probably also in the wrong for not standing firm and telling him not to try to convert you.

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2 hours ago, Guest Gut said:

yeah When they said I would go to hell I just said cool. But I am doubting my religion now and it's annoying me

If you need to recover doubt from your religion, then you should study your own faith more, not make others feel bad about their faith.

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You cannot generalise a whole religion/faith/community by interaction with one person. You would not like if Sikhs were judged in this way!! Hate is a very strong word to be used on any religious forum.  You could disagree with an individuals belief but you should feel grateful that you do not share such hateful beliefs as condemming your peers to hell. I have received such comments from people in the past but I dont take it to heart or feel hate for others with ignorance. Only spread love and light towards others amd stay strong in yourself

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