I'm talking about the original bujjer kureits for the Khalsa, which explicitly banned Khalsas from any social contact with various groups like masands, Ram Raias (which was obviously a movement by then), Dhirmalis. I'm not talking about Ram Rai himself, rather the following he created (obviously with Moghul patronage).
Again, your whole 'kumba yaa mah lord' conception of Khalsa history is seriously flawed. What you posted below doesn't hold up to scrutiny.
It's true. What we need is a small governing group (5 would be an ideal number given our heritage). These shouldn't be the usual backward, semi-illiterate peasant types but highly educated, intelligent and independent thinking people, who aren't constrained by weak personalities that can easily be manipulated by outsiders.