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6 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I bet you the local Pakistanis are saying: "Singh de baraan buj gaye."

That's too much, old man killing the bibi with a hammer. I bet you it was over some minor crap too. 

Who knows what happened, moral is Bibi's should never talk back to elders n men folk.

If they do then better hide all the bats :p

Groups opposing Interfaith marriages can publicise this incident O:)

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sounds like the typical when the cat's  away the bibi will be a gobshite to the maa pio ... I had the reverse when the hubby's away the in-laws will be 'oh sooo lovely' BTW they probably heard a few karariya te sach shabads in return . Sikh bibis need not be cowed by nasty peeps

I'm sorry but how is she still a musli , I'm surprised her maa pio didn't get the fatwa issued ... that is pretty standard across the board reaction in islamic circles moderate or not .

she must have said some rank stuff to rile such an old budda ... normally that generation tend put mitti on quarrels for the sake of peace.

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6 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

How is this being turned into an amusing article.  A woman lost her life over an argument.  If this old man felt disrespected, he should have disciplined his son a long time ago.  The prisoners will make sure justice is served to him.

Ang 433 Line 13 Raag Asa: Guru Nanak Dev
 

ਦਦੈ ਦੋਸੁ ਨ ਦੇਊ ਕਿਸੈ ਦੋਸੁ ਕਰੰਮਾ ਆਪਣਿਆ ॥

Dhadhai Dhos N Dhaeoo Kisai Dhos Karanmaa Aapaniaa ||

ददै दोसु न देऊ किसै दोसु करमा आपणिआ ॥

Dadda: Do not blame anyone else; blame instead your own actions.

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2 hours ago, 13Mirch said:

Why always blame the women? Given Punjab's cultural tendency to vilify and malign womenhood, this comment smacks of misogyny. Given that she was a Muslim, but unless a full and neutral perspective can be established on this incident (without the religious bias) we should withhold all such comments.  

Nobody's blaming women just giving good advice.

They must understand the psyche of pendu punjabi men.

Women in rural India are supposed to be obedient & soft spoken in husbands family home. It is a part of their culture.

That's why it's better to move out of family home, especially when you come from illiterate, rural, conservative, emigrant background.

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8 minutes ago, singhbj singh said:

Nobody's blaming women just giving good advice.

They must understand the psyche of pendu punjabi men.

Women in rural India are supposed to be obedient & soft spoken in husbands family home. It is a part of their culture.

That's why it's better to move out of family home, especially when you come from illiterate, rural, conservative, emigrant background.

Maybe pendu Punjabi people as you say need educating and also need to learn respect. 

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38 minutes ago, singhbj singh said:

Nobody's blaming women just giving good advice.

They must understand the psyche of pendu punjabi men.

Women in rural India are supposed to be obedient & soft spoken in husbands family home. It is a part of their culture.

That's why it's better to move out of family home, especially when you come from illiterate, rural, conservative, emigrant background.

And of course pendu Punjabi women are so docile and subservient. 

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