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Akalisingh788

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 wjkk wjkf  

I had a question, if you opened a Sehaj path can you read at different times of the day instead of same time 

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2 minutes ago, Akalisingh788 said:

Wjkk wjkf , I am a Sikh who is practicing rehit to take Amrit and I have kept my kesh, but there is a problem, my dad is proud that i have changed from being a guy with cut hair and eating meat but my mom doesn't like me keeping my rehit. You know the Baba ban gaya stuff and she pulls my hair and hits me and she wants me to cut my hair. What should I do 

wjkk wjkf-_-

Where are you from? If your from any western country, I assume you can contact someone to assist you with abuse problems. What do you mean by she hits you? It seems a bit silly to hit someone for following their religion.

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Just now, Jacfsing2 said:

Where are you from? If your from any western country, I assume you can contact someone to assist you with abuse problems. What do you mean by she hits you? It seems a bit silly to hit someone for following their religion.

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Just now, Akalisingh788 said:

You just changed your question right now, and now you are trying to hide it. (You changed it quickly though within 3 minutes).

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Just now, Akalisingh788 said:

I think you read my question wrong 

No, you changed the question just after I answered it. 

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5 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

No, you changed the question just after I answered it. 

Lol

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2 hours ago, Singh123456777 said:

Lol

This made me laugh 😂 too. Oh ok then 🤔

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4 hours ago, Singh123456777 said:

Lol

 

1 hour ago, simran345 said:

This made me laugh 😂 too. Oh ok then 🤔

If you read the original question, you could see I was trying to help him if he was actually getting abused. You can tell it was not me who wrote the question as he said, "wjkk wjkf" my history of using the Fateh is writing it out, (not saying he is wrong for his choice, but it's not me).

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Wjkk wjkf , I am a Sikh who is practicing rehit to take Amrit and I have kept my kesh, but there is a problem, my dad is proud that i have changed from being a guy with cut hair and eating meat but my mom doesn't like me keeping my rehit. You know the Baba ban gaya stuff and she pulls my hair and hits me and she wants me to cut my hair. What should I do 

You should tell your mum:

 ਕੋਈ ਨਾ ਬੇਬੇ, ਜੇ ਮੈਂ ਬਾਬਾ ਬਣ ਗੇਆ,  ਤੂੰ ਵੀ ਇਕ ਦਿਨ ਬੁਢੀ ਬਣ ਨੂੰ ਗੀ ! 

 

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22 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

You should tell your mum:

 ਕੋਈ ਨਾ ਬੇਬੇ, ਜੇ ਮੈਂ ਬਾਬਾ ਬਣ ਗੇਆ,  ਤੂੰ ਵੀ ਇਕ ਦਿਨ ਬੁਢੀ ਬਣ ਨੂੰ ਗੀ ! 

 

guaranteed chittaran di barish... pange na ley ...bechara chotta veer aggey dukhi aa. Seriously Chotte Veer ji , grow some .. Guru ji di beta bann ke , dushman nu vi jawaab dena pehga. Je Maa nahin samaj di tan ohnu sidda kehde Main Guru Gobind SIngh ji de betey di kurbanian bearrth nahin karana chounda , Main ohne di tan te Guru ji de beta bunn ke panth di sewa karna.

p.s. ANYONE puts their hand to your dastaar or kesh , you give them a tight slap 

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11 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

guaranteed chittaran di barish... pange na ley ...bechara chotta veer aggey dukhi aa. Seriously Chotte Veer ji , grow some .. Guru ji di beta bann ke , dushman nu vi jawaab dena pehga. Je Maa nahin samaj di tan ohnu sidda kehde Main Guru Gobind SIngh ji de betey di kurbanian bearrth nahin karana chounda , Main ohne di tan te Guru ji de beta bunn ke panth di sewa karna.

p.s. ANYONE puts their hand to your dastaar or kesh , you give them a tight slap 

I just thought getting slapped about by your moms is a normal experience for Panjabis? I must be too old school. 

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7 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I just thought getting slapped about by your moms is a normal experience for Panjabis? I must be too old school. 

 

maa naal ticharan karna sadda kamm , te jhoothian kaana ....Then I must be with you there ...gotta move with the times ajj kal bacche are too soft because they haven't had that experience growing up  so get bewildered like this lad when his mum comes up with utter BS like this .

My MUm used to say to us don't let anyone do beadbhi of your dastar or kesh otherwise you'll have me to worry about as well , don't look at their size or strength just don't accept it EVER, give a good slap so they won't dare again.  My Mum was a great motivator O:)

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38 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I just thought getting slapped about by your moms is a normal experience for Panjabis? I must be too old school. 

You're a dusty old relic from a by gone age. Back to your nursing home and backwards racism for you :p

 

 

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21 minutes ago, Kira said:

You're a dusty old relic from a by gone age. Back to your nursing home and backwards racism for you :p

 

 

New school fudus seem so clueless in this world. Like terrified, weak sheep surrounded by wolves - in over their fragile heads on all angles. lol 

 

; p 

 

 

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On 28 February 2017 at 2:10 AM, Akalisingh788 said:

 wjkk wjkf,

 I am a Sikh who is practicing rehit to take Amrit and I have kept my kesh, but there is a problem, my dad is proud that i have changed from being a guy with cut hair and eating meat but my mom doesn't like me keeping my rehit. You know the Baba ban gaya stuff and she pulls my hair and hits me and she wants me to cut my hair. What should I do 

 

Listen to this Kirtan and stop agitating.

 

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