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How to remeber Gurbani ?

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waheguru jee ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh.

I'm new to sikhi, can anyone give advice on how to learn Gurbani, really want to learn japi ji sahib as a starter, I tried asking some locals on how to learn Gurbani, they turn around and told me 'people that are stuck in the 5 vikaars, that are manmukhs, can't remember gurbani', which wasn't really helpful.

Any Unique tips would be helpful Sangat jee.

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The more you recite Gurbani the more you will automatically remember it. Its your mind that does the recalling. Gurbani is meant to save you from the 5 vikaars, how is that possible if you dont recite it continuously ? 

Whoever gave you that advice did not give you the correct guidance. 

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