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i want to pledge 40 days sukhmani sahib but not able to bring myself to it

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Kira    1,250
16 minutes ago, Preeet said:

That is no Gursikh who told you that. Im sure there are people who have been blessed with Sri Amrit and are new to doing nitnem sahib ji, so it would be pakhandi to say to not do them if they seem like a chore to a person (because they are not a chore) who is new to it. 

Yes because you with your Devta Poojas and Sant Nindya are the ideal Gursikh? The person happens to be a taksali, he's spent months learning under scholars and gursikhs, what are your credentials? learning from yourself?  please read what I said properly. OP has already stated he struggles to do 1 whole one in a sitting, so like a person with a brain I suggest he shouldn't take the pledge and do as many as he can. Newly amritdhari people, who are illiterate listen to the Paath, that's an entirely different direction and an extremely special exception, so please don't even go down there. What exactly is your problem? 

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simran345    2,459

Ajeet paji, another tool you could use, is to think Guruji is sitting in front of you and recite to them. That way, you will get more contentment. And God does hear you anyways, it's just that we may forget sometimes or think they don't. 

Also thank you for the pangtis you pasted, as one of them were said to me by a mahapursh I visited, but I just couldn't remember afterwards what the whole pangti was as I only heard the first bit. I've been looking for it for ages. So thank you ji  🙏🏻

 

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Kira    1,250
31 minutes ago, Preeet said:

"scholars and gursikhs', what a vague term, you are not even naming who has told you that false info. 

He studied with the Damdami Taksal, he said if someone struggles to to bani they shouldn't undertake that pledge, but do AS much as they can. 

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My credentials is the Sri Guru Sahib ji, thank you very much! 

Yes because Guru Sahib told us to call Sants and Mahapurkhs liars like you do, he also told us to go and grovel at the feet of Hindu Dieties like you do. The sheer stupidity of that statement only further proves that you're so lost in your own ego that other people being right over you is something you'll never accept.

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They struggle with one sitting, instead of asking him to do an ardas from the bottom of his heart you tell him to give up the pledge altogether. Makes no sense for a Sikh to discourage someone from gurbani sahib ji because they seemingly cannot take the pledge, even though the op WANTS to take up the pledge.

You nimrod, please read what I wrote. I told him to not take the pledge since he struggles it and if he does to get someone to help him stay in line with the routine, he admitted he struggled with it and so like everyone else (apart from you who came in here just to attack me) I told him to take it bit by bit, not a single Mahapurkh I know just woke up one day and decided to do all the banis from the start, they all took it bit by bit and went from there, that's why they reached those high places. I never once discouraged him to not read Gurbani, dont put words in my mouth.

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t all comes down to if they want to take part in this, and if they dont want to then that is fine too, but it is incoherent to tell someone to not take these 'pledges' (and blame the pledge) when our own sri guru sahib ji has made us pledge nitnem sahib. 

and once again you drive right back there. As I pointed out Nitnem is a completely different story, this is Sukhmani Sahib we're talking about. Listening to it is only an option if the person is illiterate so please. Once again bring in some sources from Mahapurkhs or Scholars, I know the thought that someone might have a higher intelligence than you is something you can never accept but trust me. They exist.

 

Anyways I don't really have the time of patience for all this. I came here to answer OP's question, you came here to attack me. If you decide to respond to this, congratulations all you've done is proven my point you revel in simply confusing people and are a self absorbed, haughty individual. Not even lying here as everything you spew on here is stuff that you think is right because you want it to be. Never once do you quote an outside source because for you they are nothing more than people beneath you. Anyways enjoy dragging this out and derailing OP's thread. I've given him my advice (which seems to be correlating with everyone elses here) and you've given him your daily dose of useless bickering/garbage.

 

 

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38 minutes ago, Preeet said:

"scholars and gursikhs', what a vague term, you are not even naming who has told you that false info. My credentials is the Sri Guru Sahib ji, thank you very much! They struggle with one sitting, instead of asking him to do an ardas from the bottom of his heart you tell him to give up the pledge altogether. Makes no sense for a Sikh to discourage someone from gurbani sahib ji because they seemingly cannot take the pledge, even though the op WANTS to take up the pledge. Anyone can easily take part in this pledge if it meant that theyd receive a catastrophe in their life if they didnt, but since the mind is lazy they think up of odd excuses. As I would recommend to anyone new to gurbani sahib, they can listen to it while read along for sometime and then proceed to reciting it out loud if they really cared. It all comes down to if they want to take part in this, and if they dont want to then that is fine too, but it is incoherent to tell someone to not take these 'pledges' (and blame the pledge) when our own sri guru sahib ji has made us pledge nitnem sahib. 

I genuinely have a similar view to you, that if we make a promise we should be expected to keep it; however, without first building Prem for Guru Sahib it is merely some checklist. I'd rather they take the slow route and grow rather than take the fast route and stay in one place; eventually, I'd hope they can keep their promises and much more.

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11 hours ago, silverSingh said:

 

You will have to choose from your options. All "options" contain Wahegurru G's Jyot within them. Truthfulness is the BEST option.

Sorry to say that this is the most confusing option and yet with the most likes.

How do you define truthfulness? If i pick other options do they load to a deeper muck? It is clear that goddie doesn't like adultery but since he never created privilege of marriage for me, do laws of adultery apply to me. Its like saying god will judge a poor for not giving in charity. 

Are you suggesting that i should strangulate the part of my mind which desires of any worldly happiness ? Sorry for too much logic 

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Please do not fight amidst yourselves. Its the last thing i would want to see. Both views are correct. Those who said i should take daily baani as chore are speaking from a rehit point. Their point is valid. 

Those saying i should do it slow are speaking from prem point. Their point is valid too. So no need to fight please. 

In a gursikhs life both rehit(discipline) and prem for baani is complementary to each other 🙂

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Kira    1,250
2 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Sorry to say that this is the most confusing option and yet with the most likes.

How do you define truthfulness? If i pick other options do they load to a deeper muck? 

Are you suggesting that i should strangulate the part of my mind which desires of any worldly happiness ?

People will go for the one that sounds the most flowery. This might help you a bit, read it, its in english but its really good and well written (its got some Sakhi from the life of Baba Nand Singh Ji. People will tell you to only ask for this or asking for that is bad. Just ask, as long as you ask with a pure mind, i.e both mind and speech are in sync, God will listen.

 

http://nanaksargurdwara.com/stages-ardaas 

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3 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Please do not fight amidst yourselves. Its the last thing i would want to see. Both views are correct. Those who said i should take daily baani as chore are speaking from a rehit point. Their point is valid. 

Those saying i should do it slow are speaking from prem point. Their point is valid too. So no need to fight please. 🙂

They love each really ... kade kade bhain bhra vich hunda kardka 

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Kira    1,250
1 minute ago, jkvlondon said:

They love each really ... kade kade bhain bhra vich hunda kardka 

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simran345    2,459
6 hours ago, Kira said:

People will go for the one that sounds the most flowery. This might help you a bit, read it, its in english but its really good and well written (its got some Sakhi from the life of Baba Nand Singh Ji. People will tell you to only ask for this or asking for that is bad. Just ask, as long as you ask with a pure mind, i.e both mind and speech are in sync, God will listen.

 

http://nanaksargurdwara.com/stages-ardaas 

Kira paji, that article is not opening for me.  There's a grey box instead, as same with other articles from that list 🤔

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57 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Kira paji, that article is not opening for me.  There's a grey box instead, as same with other articles from that list 🤔

Are you using mobile or computer version?

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simran345    2,459
29 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Are you using mobile or computer version?

Mobile paji. 

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44 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Mobile paji. 

The link won't work on mobile, but anyone using mobile can read the same information from these:

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simran345    2,459
2 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

The link won't work on mobile, but anyone using mobile can read the same information from these:

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Thank you Jacfsingh2 paji for ur time and effort to do this. Very much appreciated. 🌼

 

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