i want to pledge 40 days sukhmani sahib but not able to bring myself to it

[Kira]

2 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Sorry to say that this is the most confusing option and yet with the most likes.

How do you define truthfulness? If i pick other options do they load to a deeper muck? 

Are you suggesting that i should strangulate the part of my mind which desires of any worldly happiness ?

People will go for the one that sounds the most flowery. This might help you a bit, read it, its in english but its really good and well written (its got some Sakhi from the life of Baba Nand Singh Ji. People will tell you to only ask for this or asking for that is bad. Just ask, as long as you ask with a pure mind, i.e both mind and speech are in sync, God will listen.

 

http://nanaksargurdwara.com/stages-ardaas 

[jkvlondon]

3 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Please do not fight amidst yourselves. Its the last thing i would want to see. Both views are correct. Those who said i should take daily baani as chore are speaking from a rehit point. Their point is valid. 

Those saying i should do it slow are speaking from prem point. Their point is valid too. So no need to fight please. ?

They love each really ... kade kade bhain bhra vich hunda kardka 

[Kira]

1 minute ago, jkvlondon said:

They love each really ... kade kade bhain bhra vich hunda kardka 

[sikhni777]

47 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

How do you define truthfulness? If i pick other options do they load to a deeper muck? It is clear that goddie doesn't like adultery but since he never created privilege of marriage for me, do laws of adultery apply to me. Its like saying god will judge a poor for not giving in charity. 

Satnaam - his name is truth. Everything else is false only the name of the creator is true. So what does this mean....

For you it means this - this body is false, all your desires are false, all your feelings are false, all your thoughts are false. 

So what is true - the truth is God did not create the soul as male or female. God created everyone with a purpose. The main purpose was naam simran. When this body will pass away - nothing will be left but you a little soul - without a body. Who will guide you then ? His name will. However if you are still stuck in thoughts of shall I get married or not ? shall I have sex or not ? Shall i have children or not ? 

Well those thoughts are what will be left with you when you leave your body. When will that be ? It could be any time. No one knows how much time we have left. Would you like to come back and still have to live on this earth with all its problems starring you at the face?

Whatever your past sins - naam is powerful enough to burn them. However you need to turn to naam first. Slowly in time - naam will bear fruit. Thoughts of your sexuality, marriage etc will start to evaporate and you will realise that you are a soul sent here with a mission. Perhaps you will realise your sexuality to be a blessing for you. Naam brings brings blessings to all - however you need to get down to practising it first. 

It is fine to just do a few asatpadies of Sukhmani sahib as a starter. Speed comes with time. Devote half an hour or an hour everyday at the same time. if you workout - you can listen to the kirtan version of sukhmani. You can decide alternatively to read each astpadi like 5 times instead. This means you are repeating it and will find it easier as time goes by. In a month you will have read each astpadi 5 times... this means your confidence in reading the bani will increase too. 

[simran345]

6 hours ago, Kira said:

People will go for the one that sounds the most flowery. This might help you a bit, read it, its in english but its really good and well written (its got some Sakhi from the life of Baba Nand Singh Ji. People will tell you to only ask for this or asking for that is bad. Just ask, as long as you ask with a pure mind, i.e both mind and speech are in sync, God will listen.

 

http://nanaksargurdwara.com/stages-ardaas 

Kira paji, that article is not opening for me.  There's a grey box instead, as same with other articles from that list ?

[Guest Jacfsing2]

57 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Kira paji, that article is not opening for me.  There's a grey box instead, as same with other articles from that list ?

Are you using mobile or computer version?

[simran345]

29 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Are you using mobile or computer version?

Mobile paji. 

[Guest Jacfsing2]

44 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Mobile paji. 

The link won't work on mobile, but anyone using mobile can read the same information from these:

[simran345]

2 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

The link won't work on mobile, but anyone using mobile can read the same information from these:

Thank you Jacfsingh2 paji for ur time and effort to do this. Very much appreciated. ?

 

[muscleman]

17 hours ago, sikhni777 said:

Satnaam - his name is truth. Everything else is false only the name of the creator is true. So what does this mean....

For you it means this - this body is false, all your desires are false, all your feelings are false, all your thoughts are false. 

So what is true - the truth is God did not create the soul as male or female. God created everyone with a purpose. The main purpose was naam simran. When this body will pass away - nothing will be left but you a little soul - without a body. Who will guide you then ? His name will. However if you are still stuck in thoughts of shall I get married or not ? shall I have sex or not ? Shall i have children or not ? 

Well those thoughts are what will be left with you when you leave your body. When will that be ? It could be any time. No one knows how much time we have left. Would you like to come back and still have to live on this earth with all its problems starring you at the face?

Whatever your past sins - naam is powerful enough to burn them. However you need to turn to naam first. Slowly in time - naam will bear fruit. Thoughts of your sexuality, marriage etc will start to evaporate and you will realise that you are a soul sent here with a mission. Perhaps you will realise your sexuality to be a blessing for you. Naam brings brings blessings to all - however you need to get down to practising it first. 

It is fine to just do a few asatpadies of Sukhmani sahib as a starter. Speed comes with time. Devote half an hour or an hour everyday at the same time. if you workout - you can listen to the kirtan version of sukhmani. You can decide alternatively to read each astpadi like 5 times instead. This means you are repeating it and will find it easier as time goes by. In a month you will have read each astpadi 5 times... this means your confidence in reading the bani will increase too. 

An epic post!