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does sikhi permit use of contraception with own wife

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On 20 February 2017 at 2:47 PM, Guest Kadeykadey said:

And you should be the last one to be preaching over here!  There is no evidence of homos either during that time!  What a hypocrite. Heteros had too many kids 'cos all they had in those days was bedroom entertainment and nothing else.  Bollywood and television entertainment were not invented till recently to keep their pathetically lazy and useless minds occupied. Let's face it, how many people in those days could read or write with Punjabi blood running in their veins? They never could read newspapers, novels, medical journals or even a simple comic in those days, could they? Their unoccupied minds ran wild, created havoc at every moment of their lives.  Contraception  became extremely important to stop producing unwanted army of hooligans meaning unruly, unwanted kids!  Some kids never even went to school if they were born in a pennd. All sex is lust therefore should only be used in an emergency like when couples want to have a child to increase the size of their family. Honestly you are such a hypocrite. 


I wonder how you managed to score 5 likes.........yours must be the most popular post haha! I also enjoyed reading it, it made me laugh soooooooooo much.  Good on ya to make ppls laugh.

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On 05/03/2017 at 11:55 PM, singhbj singh said:

According to Gurbani, anybody can attain liberation whether Grehasti or Bairaagi.

Being Grehasti obviously means people can, had & are having sex !

Adharam is extra marital sex.

If one takes path of a Bairaagi then he should remain detached.

Now most wannabes remain engrossed in Moh & Maya, making them Abhaagis or namesake Bairaagis.

Ang 550 Line 15 Raag Bihaagrhaa: Guru Amar Das

ਦਰਵੇਸੀ ਕੋ ਜਾਣਸੀ ਵਿਰਲਾ ਕੋ ਦਰਵੇਸੁ ॥

Dharavaesee Ko Jaanasee Viralaa Ko Dharavaes ||

दरवेसी को जाणसी विरला को दरवेसु ॥

How rare is the dervish, the Saintly renunciate, who understands renunciation.


ਜੇ ਘਰਿ ਘਰਿ ਹੰਢੈ ਮੰਗਦਾ ਧਿਗੁ ਜੀਵਣੁ ਧਿਗੁ ਵੇਸੁ ॥

Jae Ghar Ghar Handtai Mangadhaa Dhhig Jeevan Dhhig Vaes ||

जे घरि घरि हंढै मंगदा धिगु जीवणु धिगु वेसु ॥

Cursed is the life, and cursed are the clothes, of one who wanders around, begging from door to door.

15 ਬਿਹਾਗੜੇ ਕੀ ਵਾਰ: (ਮ: ੩) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੫੫੦ ਪੰ. ੧੫ 
Raag Bihaagrhaa Guru Amar Das 


There is no shame in accepting Grehasti Jeevan, Baba Baljit Singh Daduwal did it by marrying late.

This is grehasti Jeevan:

ਇਕਿ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਕੁਟੰਬ ਮਹਿ ਸਦਾ ਉਦਾਸੀ ॥ ਸਬਦਿ ਮੁਏ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮਿ ਨਿਵਾਸੀ ॥ ਅਨਦਿਨੁ ਸਦਾ ਰਹਹਿ ਰੰਗਿ ਰਾਤੇ ਭੈ ਭਾਇ ਭਗਤਿ ਚਿਤੁ ਲਾਈ ਹੇ ॥੭॥ Ang 1046

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4 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

This is grehasti Jeevan:

ਇਕਿ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਕੁਟੰਬ ਮਹਿ ਸਦਾ ਉਦਾਸੀ ॥ ਸਬਦਿ ਮੁਏ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮਿ ਨਿਵਾਸੀ ॥ ਅਨਦਿਨੁ ਸਦਾ ਰਹਹਿ ਰੰਗਿ ਰਾਤੇ ਭੈ ਭਾਇ ਭਗਤਿ ਚਿਤੁ ਲਾਈ ਹੇ ॥੭॥ Ang 1046

Grehasti means married life ?

Are you saying get married & refrain from sex 

or not marry n stay with parents ?

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