I feel like I am standing at crossroads of life. A burden on my heart haunts me ..

[singhbj singh]

9 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

What will help you suppress your heterosexual tendencies?

 

ਅਨਦੁ ਕਰਹੁ ਮਿਲਿ ਸੁੰਦਰ ਨਾਰੀ ॥

 

Ang 806 Line 13 Raag Bilaaval: Guru Arjan Dev

[S4NGH]

4 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

 

ਅਨਦੁ ਕਰਹੁ ਮਿਲਿ ਸੁੰਦਰ ਨਾਰੀ ॥

 

Ang 806 Line 13 Raag Bilaaval: Guru Arjan Dev

I suppose that applies to heterosexual women too?

[Akalifauj]

On ‎01‎/‎02‎/‎2017 at 9:54 PM, singhbj singh said:

 

ਅਨਦੁ ਕਰਹੁ ਮਿਲਿ ਸੁੰਦਰ ਨਾਰੀ ॥

 

Ang 806 Line 13 Raag Bilaaval: Guru Arjan Dev

Do you remember the last time you tried this game and how it ended with you screaming and throwing a fit.  Save yourself the embarrassment and stop using Gurbani as a tool to indulge in your heterosexual lustful act.

Since you started, I have to deliver you the message, otherwise some may take your seriously and believe what you said.  Poster singhbj singh wants to mistranslate Gurbani for his lustful acts, but lets see what role poster singhbj singh will be playing in this act, which singhbj is begging for.   Throughout Gurbani, Vaheguru is the man and the person trying to reach him is the bride.  Vaheguru ravishes the bride, this concept comes many times in Gurbani.  By ravish, it means to take over the mind and instill Gurmat values in the person.  Yet poster singhbj singh wants to take the Gurbani line in a different direction.  I directly asked him, how he suppresses his heterosexual tendencies and he responds by quoting the above Gurbani line.  He wants to say Gurbani is being literal between him and a woman.  Poster singhbj singh wants to interpret as he is the ravisher in this case.  This can't be further from the truth because the Shabad starts by saying the Guru gave the satisfication to the women(soul).  In this shabad, if we were to take singhbj singh mistranslation, The Guru is the man and the woman is him, poster singhbj singh.   So how heterosexual do you feel right now there, Mr. singhbj singh???  Is your face getting flush with blood.  Feeling a little awkward maybe bent out of shape!!!  I will stop here because I don't want to get too graphic.  

And don't try to back track, I asked you a direct question, What will help you suppress your heterosexual tendencies? This explicitly asked how do you get rid of lust.  And you shamlessly provided the above Gurbani line out of context.

You may have thought distorting Gurbani was a fun way to have a laugh, but when you leave this earth, the Singhs will make sure to teach you a lesson of who is the man and woman.        

[S4NGH]

2 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

Do you remember the last time you tried this game and how it ended with you screaming and throwing a fit.  Save yourself the embarrassment and stop using Gurbani as a tool to indulge in your heterosexual lustful act.

Since you started, I have to deliver you the message, otherwise some may take your seriously and believe what you said.  Poster singhbj singh wants to mistranslate Gurbani for his lustful acts, but lets see what role poster singhbj singh will be playing in this act, which singhbj is begging for.   Throughout Gurbani, Vaheguru is the man and the person trying to reach him is the bride.  Vaheguru ravishes the bride, this concept comes many times in Gurbani.  By ravish, it means to take over the mind and instill Gurmat values in the person.  Yet poster singhbj singh wants to take the Gurbani line in a different direction.  I directly asked him, how he suppresses his heterosexual tendencies and he responds by quoting the above Gurbani line.  He wants to say Gurbani is being literal between him and a woman.  Poster singhbj singh wants to interpret as he is the ravisher in this case.  This can't be further from the truth because the Shabad starts by saying the Guru gave the satisfication to the women(soul).  In this shabad, if we were to take singhbj singh mistranslation, The Guru is the man and the woman is him, poster singhbj singh.   So how heterosexual do you feel right now there, Mr. singhbj singh???  Is your face getting flush with blood.  Feeling a little awkward maybe bent out of shape!!!  I will stop here because I don't want to get too graphic.  

And don't try to back track, I asked you a direct question, What will help you suppress your heterosexual tendencies? This explicitly asked how do you get rid of lust.  And you shamlessly provided the above Gurbani line out of context.

You may have thought distorting Gurbani was a fun way to have a laugh, but when you leave this earth, the Singhs will make sure to teach you a lesson of who is the man and woman.        

Thank you! ^^

[Guest]

People have way too much confusion about what causes someone to be gay ! 

No , late marriages doesn't cause it ! this is a ridiculous notion . 

I am gay. I have never felt any kind of attraction to women , in a lustful way atleast . When I sometimes read gurbani and somewhere in baani it comes along lines of "par istree" (someone else's woman) referring to avoiding of lust, I am a little surprised because while other men may relate to it , I cannot ! I don't feel anything towards women. I never have , and no its not because I had bad experience with a woman in past. I have never had any attraction to any girls in my teenage either. I am blind when it comes to romantic/sexual feelings towards women..

Even before I entered puberty, I always used to feel shy and attraction towards handsome, masculine men , albeit in a non-sexual way.

Secondly, gays are everywhere . Its no more prevalent in west than its in india . Gays are everywhere. Its just that in west, they have begun to come out in open recently due to increase in awareness and civil rights, which itself arose as a response to extreme gay-hatred in west just till a few decades back. 

Gays and Khusre (transgenders ) are totally different !

Gays are just someone who feel attracted towards people of same gender. Bisexuals feel varying degrees of attraction to both genders.

Khusre or transgender are people who feel like their physical gender is not congruent with the gender they feel to be .

So , for instance someone could be physically male but always felt like they're a woman stuck inside a man's body. Such a person could transition via Sex reassignment surgery into being a female. Then she would be known as "trans-woman" .

I have never felt I am stuck in wrong body. I like wearing mens clothes and I identify as a man, so what if I am only romantically and sexually attracted to men?! it doesn't make me less of a man. Most gay men are offended if you categorize them as khusra or hijda.