Doesn't listen to ardaas

[Guest anon]

God as never listened to any ardaas my mum has made 

Mum had asked for a great Mother-in-law, one that she would treat as her own mother, but it doesn't happen instead the mother in law treats her badly

Mum had asked for a son to look after the house after they die and to help us as a brother, but that didn't happen either

Asked for he Brother to have a son since they are in india to help out with the family, doesn't help instead God takes away her brother from her leaving two daughters behind one 9 years old and the other 7 years old

Mum wants her family in India to live a comfortable life after her brother dying but instead the family is getting poorer by the day and she has started to work  a lot while taking care of a family of 6

Mum had asked for the younger brother to come to the uk but the visa has been denied many times 

God never listens to any of our prayers, making us have trust issues

 

[sikhni777]

You have forgotten that you have to accept God's hukam. He is not your servant that you demand things of him and they will just come. 

Real sukh comes from naam jap. Asking for worldly things is a folly.

You have to earn everything with good karam. The rules of the universe dtate you reap what you sow.

 You want a good mother in law you be one first. It is a sin to call someone bad. Hum nahi changhe burha nahi koi.

As the Christians too say... seeki first the Kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you. Seek to learn about how God works first before placing demands. You have to look at your blessings too and notjust losses. D

Don't bblame God for not giving you yhings. You simply don't have the karams which earn these blessings. 

Stay united with him because all blessings come from him. He created us and he is more concerned about us because he is responsible for feeding us and looking after us.

Das bhastu le pache paave. Ik bast karan bhikhot gavave. Ek bhi na dheh das bhi hir lae to murakh ko kaha kare. 

He gives us ten things and we loose one snd get sad over it. What if he took all ten and never gave us even one.. what would we do ?

We have to look at our blessings and still thank him for what we have. We are not able to see what he has given us unless he himself shows it to us.

Daily food, jobs, children good health, good parents and a home to stay in are all blessings from him. Have you ever taken the time to thank him for all those?

[Guest Supermarket]

Sometimes we have to have paitence . God knows best for us and we do get things we pray for, sometimes only when the time is right. It might be that in this life it isnt meant to be but youl be born again to get what you want.

 

Its best to ask for vaheguru himself, his naam and his love which is eternal and once you have that then nothing else will be needed.

 

Although all the above is easier said we have to all work to that level. 

 

Ardas isnt reading out a shopping list of everything you want and sticking 50p in the golak ....then complaining nothings happened it aint a magic trick.

 Lol.

Do paath, go gurdwara and with full love and focus do seva, imorove lifestyle like being kind, living a truthful life, helping others. Then when God is pleased and when he so wishes he will bess you. Then one doesnt need to even ask, Vaheguru knows all our needs and wants

[Akalifauj]

On ‎20‎/‎12‎/‎2016 at 11:06 AM, Guest anon said:

God as never listened to any ardaas my mum has made 

Mum had asked for a great Mother-in-law, one that she would treat as her own mother, but it doesn't happen instead the mother in law treats her badly

Mum had asked for a son to look after the house after they die and to help us as a brother, but that didn't happen either

Asked for he Brother to have a son since they are in india to help out with the family, doesn't help instead God takes away her brother from her leaving two daughters behind one 9 years old and the other 7 years old

Mum wants her family in India to live a comfortable life after her brother dying but instead the family is getting poorer by the day and she has started to work  a lot while taking care of a family of 6

Mum had asked for the younger brother to come to the uk but the visa has been denied many times 

God never listens to any of our prayers, making us have trust issues

 

Have you guys listened to his instructions?  Do paath and listen carefully to what Guru Sahib is saying.  Start applying the teachings and Guru Sahib will do his kirpa on you.  Don't go to so called sants, babas, Brahmins, pandits, or practice any type of black magic, fasting, wearing certain things around the neck on wrist or fingers, etc.  Don't worship at certain babas place or anything.  Your only protector is Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji and no one else, no matter how much someone says, so and so has a high avastha, don't go to him.  All are frauds only Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji is the true giver.  Do paath of Sukhmani Sahib and afterwards do ardas with a clean heart.  Incorporate a shabad in your ardas.  Repeat the shabad with attention when your mind is doubting Guru Sahib and feels the need to utter the true words of the Guru. 

[singhbj singh]

How to fulfill ones desires??

http://www.tapoban.org/webforum/read.php?1,4552

[harsharan000]

On 20/12/2016 at 7:06 PM, Guest anon said:

God as never listened to any ardaas my mum has made 

Mum had asked for a great Mother-in-law, one that she would treat as her own mother, but it doesn't happen instead the mother in law treats her badly

Mum had asked for a son to look after the house after they die and to help us as a brother, but that didn't happen either

Asked for he Brother to have a son since they are in india to help out with the family, doesn't help instead God takes away her brother from her leaving two daughters behind one 9 years old and the other 7 years old

Mum wants her family in India to live a comfortable life after her brother dying but instead the family is getting poorer by the day and she has started to work  a lot while taking care of a family of 6

Mum had asked for the younger brother to come to the uk but the visa has been denied many times 

God never listens to any of our prayers, making us have trust issues

 

Guest Anon Jee,

we must bear in mind that karam is a reality,which we almost never are consciouss about. Things do not happen casually. Maybe, we do not have that level of consciousness to see how the creation moves perfectly according to the laws of Nature.

Evry relation we have in this world, every interaction we have others, or even the smallest of the events of our own lives, are due to each one´s pre-tailored destiny, that also, due to our own past karmas. No life can exist without "karam".  If there is life, surely it is due to past karam.

Telling Wahiguru to do this or that, is not like having prepared food, and then while eating, we find that salt or sugar is missing, then we go and add the needed, and resume eating our meals according to our taste.

We are imperfect that is why we do not see the reality, and how creation works and moves accordingly and perfectly in communion with the laws of Nature. He is perfect and dayalu, why would He want ever want anything bad for us?

The Bani says: aapay bheejeh, apaay khaae.

Gurmat advises us to stay in His Bhaana, and if ever we have to do Ardaas, it should not be for any material things, but for that to love Him only, and get the strength from Him, to face our lives with dignity, so that our faith never shakes and puts us down.

The Shabad Keertan below, is an inspiration for us, as per what to ask in ardaas to Wahiguru Akal Purukh.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

[Guest begger]

God definately knows and listens to all, including ardaas. It's just that it is upto him to say yes or no. Sometimes the answer is yes but with some delay. For some the answer is "no" alot of the time. This is becase we all have different relationships with Vaheguru. Vaheguru also judges according to our past karam from countless lifetimes. So it's very complex. We cannot ever understand the way Vaheguru sees or judges things. Our job is to just keep hoping that he will show some mercy to us.

 

We are mere worms, we are truly powerless. We can only beg Vaheguru, it's upto him to accept our ardaas. The more pyaar we develop with Vaheguru the greater the chances of him saying "yes" to our ardaas. But it's still upto him.

 

We can only keep begging, there's nothing else we can do.

[simran345]

20 hours ago, Guest begger said:

God definately knows and listens to all, including ardaas. It's just that it is upto him to say yes or no. Sometimes the answer is yes but with some delay. For some the answer is "no" alot of the time. This is becase we all have different relationships with Vaheguru. Vaheguru also judges according to our past karam from countless lifetimes. So it's very complex. We cannot ever understand the way Vaheguru sees or judges things. Our job is to just keep hoping that he will show some mercy to us.

 

We are mere worms, we are truly powerless. We can only beg Vaheguru, it's upto him to accept our ardaas. The more pyaar we develop with Vaheguru the greater the chances of him saying "yes" to our ardaas. But it's still upto him.

 

We can only keep begging, there's nothing else we can do.

Nice post. 

[Guest Jagsaw_Singh]

"God as never listened to any ardaas my mum has made.................. Mum had asked for a great Mother-in-law, ............... Mum had asked for a son ................... Asked for he Brother to have a son...................... Mum wants her family in India to live a comfortable life ......................... Mum had asked for the younger brother to come to the uk ........... God never listens to any of our prayers, making us have trust issues "

You have legs when so much of the world doesn't. You have arms when so much of the world dosen't. You have food when so much of the world doesn't. You have freedom when so much of the world dosen't. You can see when so much of the world doesn't. You have a roof over your head when so much of the world doesn't. At the end of the day HE has given us so much already that HE should, by rights, take some things away from us. He has given us too much. Thats why I strongly dislike the idea of asking for anything in ardas and absolutely detest the parcharaks that recruit amritdharis on the back of the promise of 'their desires coming true through prayer'. The truth of the matter is that the Sikh Ardas on its own has all the answers we need and the ability to provide everything we could possibly want. Its just that we as a people are not intelligent enough to understand that fact. The official Sikh Ardaas provides us with instruction of how to live and eat healthy,,,,,remain positive etc. By actually listening to the actual ardas we are provided with the tools to concentrate well in studies....have a healthy body....combat depression by releasing natural serotonin etc. The fact is you or your mother were asking for more when he had already given you more than most people on earth have. The laws of natural justice then took effect.