implementation of dharmic concept

[jasdeepsingh2k125]

sangat jee wjkk wjkf

I wanted to have a discussion about application of dharmic concepts like dya and helpfulness with sangat...

sometimes in the real world if one is quite helpful and soft-spoken with peers , people tend to take advantage of you , I mean sometimes they use you and they know that you will not refuse them so they try to exploit you as much as possible...

so in situations like these what should be done?

should you be an <banned word filter activated> to them and they don't exploit you but because of being <banned word filter activated> you are not following Sikhism,but on other hand if you are nice people waste your time and energy

much appreciated

[kangw]

In situations like these, you put your thinking cap on and analyse what is best. You will soon be faced with heart Vs head and Bob's your uncle or et voila!

[simran345]

1 hour ago, jasdeepsingh2k125 said:

sangat jee wjkk wjkf

I wanted to have a discussion about application of dharmic concepts like dya and helpfulness with sangat...

sometimes in the real world if one is quite helpful and soft-spoken with peers , people tend to take advantage of you , I mean sometimes they use you and they know that you will not refuse them so they try to exploit you as much as possible...

so in situations like these what should be done?

should you be an <banned word filter activated> to them and they don't exploit you but because of being <banned word filter activated> you are not following Sikhism,but on other hand if you are nice people waste your time and energy

much appreciated

Learn to say no, if you can't cope or do what somebody asks you to. 

Sometimes,  you just got to think about yourself.

Help as within your limits, and if you are not able to, defend yourself if you feel your soul is being trodden on and politely say NO. 

[singhbj singh]

3 hours ago, jasdeepsingh2k125 said:

sangat jee wjkk wjkf

I wanted to have a discussion about application of dharmic concepts like dya and helpfulness with sangat...

sometimes in the real world if one is quite helpful and soft-spoken with peers , people tend to take advantage of you , I mean sometimes they use you and they know that you will not refuse them so they try to exploit you as much as possible...

so in situations like these what should be done?

should you be an <banned word filter activated> to them and they don't exploit you but because of being <banned word filter activated> you are not following Sikhism,but on other hand if you are nice people waste your time and energy

much appreciated

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

There's a difference between one whose compassionate by nature and one who tries to be !

Later will get fed up if he doesn't get reward for performing good deeds.

Faction system is popular coz they give recognition for work done !

It is okay for Sansari's to seek such whereas a true Dayavaan will go on doing examplary work without caring for honour & prize.