I Married a saint or what?

[jkvlondon]

3 hours ago, Guest jazzyP said:

You might be married to the wrong person.

saying such a negative and untrue thing to another is the antithesis of what Guru Pita ji taught ...be smart and stay silent. Bhainji  forgive his remark nothing happens without Guru ji's blessing .

[Guest Jacfsing2]

4 hours ago, Guest jazzyP said:

You might be married to the wrong person.

Not a Gurmat perspective!

[pinpott]

On 23 October 2016 at 6:13 PM, Guest jazzyP said:

You might be married to the wrong person.

Jealous or what? Not so sure how you got so many *likes* though.

[Guest Jacfsing2]

1 hour ago, pinpott said:

Jealous or what? Not so sure how you got so many *likes* though.

Daas is wondering that to, when did guests get the ability for people to like their content?

[pinpott]

8 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Daas is wondering that to, when did guests get the ability for people to like their content?

I don't really know the answer. It seems they like or agree with his or her comment. 

[Guest Jacfsing2]

1 hour ago, pinpott said:

I don't really know the answer. It seems they like or agree with his or her comment. 

Well from what Daas remembers we could never like what guests say; regardless on whether we agreed with them or not? Is this some new feature for the latest update?

[pinpott]

17 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Well from what Daas remembers we could never like what guests say; regardless on whether we agreed with them or not? Is this some new feature for the latest update?

I remember that too, hope, it's one off.

[simran345]

9 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Well from what Daas remembers we could never like what guests say; regardless on whether we agreed with them or not? Is this some new feature for the latest update?

No it's not a new update, some people probably just like the post, simple as that. 

They may have interpreted it as also, the lady's husband being married to the wrong person. It can also be interpreted as both not being on the same spiritual level. Thus the likes. 

[jkvlondon]

4 hours ago, simran345 said:

No it's not a new update, some people probably just like the post, simple as that. 

They may have interpreted it as also, the lady's husband being married to the wrong person. It can also be interpreted as both not being on the same spiritual level. Thus the likes. 

which is ulat of gurmat soch , because without Waheguru ji's hukham nothing can happen , sanjog comes from above not by chance

[sikhni777]

It is a westernized opinion I suppose, to just dismiss sanjog as having been a mistake. The person whom you got married to, the sacred ceremony in the Guradwara, and the years you have spent together - all of a sudden come to mean nothing just because you got a little feeling that you are different. 

It simply is not Gurmat. This is a representation of the views of the general community which we live in. A community in which marital misunderstandings and other small things get blown up in context and result in divorce or depressions. 

You married the wrong person, so what options do you have now? suffer in silence, its your fault, find someone else........... this is how evil and degradation creep into the society and you have single parents and 2nd and 3rd wives and husbands. We have forgotten that the God above has a plan for us and we have to stay in hukam and try to do the right thing even if it means we have to go through a rough patch. Everything in life is not hunky dorry. We still stick to our jobs when our boss is highly abusive and never conclude ---- I work for the wrong person!!!!!!!!!

(which in my opinion Op has had no rough patch at all - compare this to women who get beaten up, abused by alcoholic husbands, and they have still stuck to them)