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He sounds pretty cool lol

If you're gursikh Shouldn't you be happy he has so much faith?

 If you feel like he's not experiencing life enough and not having enough fun, then try and encourage him to go out with you more to dinners, theatres, exploring cities and travelling etc. part of being alive is discovering and enjoying his creation in life and enjoying life. 

 

Tell him him he can enjoy his life while still having and keeping his faith and that in fact, that's the best way to enjoy life.

 

 

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From reading your second post, your husband seems to take care of you and respect you a lot, and your problem is that he loves everyone equally? You've had too much of a simple and easy life, you have no idea what REAL problems are. You should be grateful. You are a sikh, so shouldn't your goal be to be with Vaheguru? How many times are you planning to come back into this world and marry another guy that you are hoping he'll love you like no other? lol That's Vaheguru- no one can match up that perfection. I can't believe the problems you have listed about your husband is that he doesn't use FACEBOOK!?- I am done with this. *walks out*

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People stop being judgemental.

We think if we were in her (OPs) position, we would appreciate her husband more and do alot of sangat and simran together. 

But thats not true. How many times have our parents or a gursikh or some kathavachak told us to do paath and we dont. Cuz its boring. I remember if some high avastha person comes to our house, he will want to tell us do paath, simran, but all we wanted to do was talk about when will Khalistan come, and wat ridhi sidhis we get. 

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bhenjee you are so lucky, you have a big gift - a gursikh. this is why we are here in this world... instead of complaining about a diamond, you should start to see the value of one

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