Wanting to marry a muslim

[simran1234]

Hello,

I am not sure if my previous post was successful but my name is Simran and I have fallen in love with a muslim man. I want to marry him but I'm unsure of the reaction I will receive when introducing a muslim man to my family. He is 24 and I am 23. I would really appreciate your views on an interfaith marriage, more specifically a sikh-muslim marriage, and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Simran.

[jkvlondon]

2 minutes ago, simran1234 said:

Hello,

I am not sure if my previous post was successful but my name is Simran and I have fallen in love with a muslim man. I want to marry him but I'm unsure of the reaction I will receive when introducing a muslim man to my family. He is 24 and I am 23. I would really appreciate your views on an interfaith marriage, more specifically a sikh-muslim marriage, and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Simran.

little sis ,

why do you want to get married into a faith that will restrict yur rights as a human being and a mother ? You do know that you will have zero say in the faith of your children they WILL be muslims . How much do you know about  your own faith to be so quick to abandon its freedoms? 

[Guest Guest]

Just be careful if he wants to take you back to his home country.  He might just sell you and leave you there. It's happened before.

[Guest Profit]

Do u approve of the right for a Muslim to rape a kaffir?

If you do not wish to be raped during marriage then you should know what to do.

If you feel Prophet Muhammad was wrong to have sex with his wife Aisha when she was 9 years old then use your common sense (like any good troll would do).

 

 

[Guest Jacfsing2]

Do you anything about Sikhi or Islam? If you knew either this decision wouldn't be happening.

[sikhni777]

38 minutes ago, simran1234 said:

Hello,

I am not sure if my previous post was successful but my name is Simran and I have fallen in love with a muslim man. I want to marry him but I'm unsure of the reaction I will receive when introducing a muslim man to my family. He is 24 and I am 23. I would really appreciate your views on an interfaith marriage, more specifically a sikh-muslim marriage, and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Simran.

Does this not seem like a trap to you. Who would use the word simran and then register just today to ask a question of what would happen if I married a muslim guy? Especially after all the debate going on regarding interfaith marriages ?

Who would open an account 43 minutes ago to specifically ask this question on a Sikh website and we go falling all over it like bees........

[YOYO29]

Hahaha I think its the same auzer

Bro why u so obsessed with Sikhs?

[simran345]

1 hour ago, simran1234 said:

Hello,

I am not sure if my previous post was successful but my name is Simran and I have fallen in love with a muslim man. I want to marry him but I'm unsure of the reaction I will receive when introducing a muslim man to my family. He is 24 and I am 23. I would really appreciate your views on an interfaith marriage, more specifically a sikh-muslim marriage, and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Simran.

Just seen this now, would like to clarify it isn't me. 

@Simran1234, get yourself another username, as people will think it's me, and I don't agree with interfaith marriages at the Gurdwara,  thanks. 

[Guest Jacfsing2]

7 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Just seen this now, would like to clarify it isn't me. 

@Simran1234, get yourself another username, as people will think it's me, and I don't agree with interfaith marriages at the Gurdwara,  thanks. 

Nobody was going to expect it was you; (they didn't even use the same word-choice, or other stuff as you would have).

[Guest Reet]

Dear Simran

just Like the brothers and sisters in this forum, expect to be opposed heavily from all sides. Your family may even want to disown you. 

I know sister that this decision is tough but I request you to be sure about this guy. And I would have given you the same advise even if he was a Sikh man and your family was against love marriage. Please be 100% sure that his family and him would treat you with love and dignity and are willing to accept you wholeheartedly. If there is even a .00005 % doubt in your mind, then expect your doubts to be multiplied a trillion times after marriage. We, the women, tend to ignore little things when we fall in love, thinking that he will change OR I will request him to change this and that after marriage. Nope. It doesn't happen. Ever. 

So.. you still have time sister. Think about this long and hard. I tried to be completely unbiased about him being a Muslim while writing this post. Would you be able to forget your parents and family completely and be willing to settle with this man? Would he treat you right when you don't have your parents' support & when they boycott you? Best of luck in whatever you do.