Sikh couple in X rated video advice needed

[Singhni MiriPiri]

18 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Because we live in a society defined by the Abrahamic framework  (ie Xtianity and Islam) where numbers matter.

It's not going to do much help if they do not represent Guru Gobind Singh Jee inwardly and outwardly. One sikh is equal to 125,000. We do not need numbers like other religions do.  

[Sikhofhope]

Veer ji, may I ask how you even came to the conclusion that a gursukh couple have been engaging in kaam? You should be more careful what you type in the Internet next time if this is the case vise versa! We live in the time of kaalyug and with that said there are disastrous qualities that come with it which are even the things that are present in the world today and shaped it into something bad. I suggest you calmly present your views to them in the email with no hate towards them and in a non egoistic manner. And you should tell them to try and visit the gurdwara more often and speak to the panj pyaare to clean things up and to repent. 

All you can do for them now is pray for them to stop and that's that 

WJKK WJKF 

[Guest shoked]

if you are talking about the screenshot which gone viral on facebook then here are some info:

The man leaked them on the net and forced the girl for the act. The man is married and living italy. He went underground because singhs are searching for him. As far as I know the bibi got her punishment.

To all the fun people here: do you find it funny that our sister is naked in the internet? 

before laughing try atleast to get some info. 

 

[Guest Jagsaw_Singh]

On 01/09/2016 at 0:09 PM, Guest shoked said:

The man leaked them on the net and forced the girl for the act.

How did he "force" her ?     What special mind powers does he have whereby he can "force" a girl to appear to enjoy what she's doing on camera ?

On 01/09/2016 at 0:09 PM, Guest shoked said:

The man is married and living italy.

How did this girl manage to get "forced" into having affairs with married men ?

 

On 01/09/2016 at 0:09 PM, Guest shoked said:

forced the girl for the act.

I don't know if others have noticed this but every single time a Sikh girl has ever been caught doing something immoral.....be it sharing herself with Muslim men in Luton...taking drugs....getting drunk....or making porn videos they ALWAYS have a ready-made excuse of being 'forced' to do it. Apparently, it is NEVER the girl's own doing.  All I can say is, in the words of Elvis: "there's a whole lotta forcing going on"

On 01/09/2016 at 0:09 PM, Guest shoked said:

before laughing try atleast to get some info. 

What you posted, my friend, hardly falls within the ambit of the definition of "info". What your posts demonstrates is an inherent weakness in our culture....a 4 step process used time and again:

1) Girl gets caught doing something wrong

2) Girl has her ready-made excuse ready and blames a boy

3) Gullibile community, as always, swallow the excuse

4) Girl, and other girls, carry on doing those things and, each time they are caught, the above process is repeated again and again.

[jkvlondon]

On 03/09/2016 at 0:05 PM, Guest Jagsaw_Singh said:

How did he "force" her ?     What special mind powers does he have whereby he can "force" a girl to appear to enjoy what she's doing on camera ?

How did this girl manage to get "forced" into having affairs with married men ?

 

I don't know if others have noticed this but every single time a Sikh girl has ever been caught doing something immoral.....be it sharing herself with Muslim men in Luton...taking drugs....getting drunk....or making porn videos they ALWAYS have a ready-made excuse of being 'forced' to do it. Apparently, it is NEVER the girl's own doing.  All I can say is, in the words of Elvis: "there's a whole lotta forcing going on"

What you posted, my friend, hardly falls within the ambit of the definition of "info". What your posts demonstrates is an inherent weakness in our culture....a 4 step process used time and again:

1) Girl gets caught doing something wrong

2) Girl has her ready-made excuse ready and blames a boy

3) Gullibile community, as always, swallow the excuse

4) Girl, and other girls, carry on doing those things and, each time they are caught, the above process is repeated again and again.

maybe you don't know how pimping starts ...first he's a love interest who treats her like the queen she always believed she was meant to be then after a while of lavishing attention and gifts he introduces her to first john then it's a slippery slope leading to the cliff , often enforced through violence and blackmail  if the stockholm syndrome doesn't take.

[Singhni MiriPiri]

There is something really disturbing about this.

If she was forced, why did she receive punishment? It would make sense for the individual that forced her to receive punishment, but preferably this should be dealt with by the police or their families. 

If she lied that she had been forced, then why and who is she lying to? It depends how damaging this is but she should be scolded, preferably by her family. 

If both consented to this participation, then it is not in anyone’s place to punish them; they are not your property. If you would like to help, then use sweet speech. 
 

 

[Guest raja]

sex between loving couples should be a private act and not revealed to the public. The very fact that people wishing to be exhibitionists shows they dont value that relationship and therefore have no shame or dignity like animals willing to do it in front of everyone. If they can be named and shamed that would be a good idea but if not just leave them to it and karma will get them eventually, it always does.

[jkvlondon]

2 hours ago, Singhni MiriPiri said:

There is something really disturbing about this.

If she was forced, why did she receive punishment? It would make sense for the individual that forced her to receive punishment, but preferably this should be dealt with by the police or their families. 

If she lied that she had been forced, then why and who is she lying to? It depends how damaging this is but she should be scolded, preferably by her family. 

If both consented to this participation, then it is not in anyone’s place to punish them; they are not your property. If you would like to help, then use sweet speech. 
 

 

Bhain ji 

obviously in a patriarchial society they will blame the woman first and foremost for spoiling family's izzat , men are just men ....it's so stupid my brain hurts thinking about such people. If a guy is passing around this filth then obviously it's his idea even if she joined in. How many times in India have you heard females being killed or kicked out because of izzat  even if an innocent victim of abuse or rape (as in child abuse)

[Jonny101]

On 8/24/2016 at 10:18 AM, Guest jagsaw-singh said:

Ok then. I can see nearly all of you are gonna need some pointers, I.e 'how' & 'why' , when it comes to self-reflection. Let me try and put it in very simple layman terms:.        If, for example, the amritdhari porn videos girl ha been filmed or pictured drinking a can of beer or smoking a cigarette there would be multiple threads about her on Sikh forums.....there would be death threats.......she would be called an evil immoral b@@@h......and the satkar committee would track her down and administer a beating.  However, as she has instead made not just 1 but 3 hardcore porn videos everyone just shrugs their shoulders in indifference.   The question to self-reflect on then, is what kind of people have we become whereby taking a sip of wine is seen as something far more immoral than making hardcore porn videos ?

I think the reason no one reacted is because most Singhs don't even know these videos existed. I didn't even know about these videos until you mentioned it here on this forum. And most Singhs I know wouldn't know either because we don't associate with people who watch these kinds of videos.

 

Kaam is something our youth is struggling to fight. So it is no surprise that one of our sister fell so low. That is why we should not follow western norms of allowing boy girl social interactions or should try to avoid it as much as possible. There should be some sense of Sharam in both boys and girls. Our elders followed a very different way of thinking from westerners. Before men and women in our culture would not even have eye contact with the opposite sex out of Sharam. But in the west we are taught that having direct eye contact with the opposite sex and freely interacting with them is a sign of confidence while shyness is considered a sign of low self esteem.  

 

In India, besharmi is on the increase. That is why you notice when many young boys newly arrive from India, they always pervertedly stare at women like they are seeing a woman for the first time. In fact you will notice this pervert behavior alot in India itself. Just stand on a busy street like Ghumar Mandi in Ludhiana and observe a situation where a young women walking down the street and you will notice almost all the men will stare at her.  Some really shameless ones make harassing comments at women. Of course our western desis also stare but they just do it more subtly so it is not so obvious. 

 

Ultimately Sharam is increasingly vanishing in our people as we get more westernized. In India just as Sharam was considered a shingaar  (mark of beauty) in a woman similarly Sharam is also a virtue a Gursikh should strive to have.

[jkvlondon]

On 05/09/2016 at 7:15 PM, Jonny101 said:

I think the reason no one reacted is because most Singhs don't even know these videos existed. I didn't even know about these videos until you mentioned it here on this forum. And most Singhs I know wouldn't know either because we don't associate with people who watch these kinds of videos.

 

Kaam is something our youth is struggling to fight. So it is no surprise that one of our sister fell so low. That is why we should not follow western norms of allowing boy girl social interactions or should try to avoid it as much as possible. There should be some sense of Sharam in both boys and girls. Our elders followed a very different way of thinking from westerners. Before men and women in our culture would not even have eye contact with the opposite sex out of Sharam. But in the west we are taught that having direct eye contact with the opposite sex and freely interacting with them is a sign of confidence while shyness is considered a sign of low self esteem.  

 

In India, besharmi is on the increase. That is why you notice when many young boys newly arrive from India, they always pervertedly stare at women like they are seeing a woman for the first time. In fact you will notice this pervert behavior alot in India itself. Just stand on a busy street like Ghumar Mandi in Ludhiana and observe a situation where a young women walking down the street and you will notice almost all the men will stare at her.  Some really shameless ones make harassing comments at women. Of course our western desis also stare but they just do it more subtly so it is not so obvious. 

 

Ultimately Sharam is increasingly vanishing in our people as we get more westernized. In India just as Sharam was considered a shingaar  (mark of beauty) in a woman similarly Sharam is also a virtue a Gursikh should strive to have.

well if they want to copy the hindu panjabis who displayed their daughters and daughters-in laws in dheean to local mughals to have their pick what do you expect ... Bollywood movies used to have flowers coming together to represent a kiss now you get women dressed like hookers  , in state of undress in almost every movie and where you had one baddie  raping now you have gangs of rapists ...  they are engineering the depravity of the youth . Where people say you can trust a sardar , now because of the filth spewed by singers even our image is getting tarnished. If that couple is reading this  forget about pretending to be a gursikh , just go on and become full-on coconut pornstars but remove my Guru Pita ji's roop from yourself you don't deserve his love