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i know that this is wrong that i feel like a slave within my parents house. i know its doing sewa and sangat of my family bu sometimes i feel like my family is just taking the mick. my brother is divorced and has kids in which i constantly run around for. i know this is very bad thinking nut i feel pushed to the side. Its hard please help

bhul chaak mafakana

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If u r a female. Then i think this is an understandable position. In the past, if a man with children became widowed the closest female relative would have to step in as the mother. And her life would be forfeit.since marriage was the only option availabe to woman. Her best years would be spent on taking care of the children. And she would be too old for marriage.

This would happen in Chinese soceity as well as indian.

So in modern times, it seems u are being used to fulfil this role. If taking care of the kids is interfering with ur education or ur marriage prospects. Then please speak up n put a stop to this. If taking care of the kids is not hurting ur future, then suck it up. In a family, close knit culture, everyone has to make sacrifices to make it work. Ask guruji for strength

If ur a male, suck it up. The more practice males get taking care of kids n household chores. The better for all society ;)

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Je Ki Fateh
i know that this is wrong that i feel like a slave within my parents house. i know its doing sewa and sangat of my family bu sometimes i feel like my family is just taking the mick. my brother is divorced and has kids in which i constantly run around for. i know this is very bad thinking nut i feel pushed to the side. Its hard please help
bhul chaak mafakana

Dear Khalsa Jee,

just see the Jot of Waheguru in all and serve as doing sewa, keep aside all negative thoughts.

Sometimes we are pushed in unwanted situations by our own karma, and we are helpless, so till the situation changes when the karma is cleared, just keep your focus on Wahiguru, and sooner or later, you will feel inner satisfaction by His apaar Grace, nothing is hidden from Him.

Any how, God Bless you.

Sat Sree Akal.

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