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Muslim Getting Married In Shepherds Bush Gurdwara This Friday


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Because arranged marriages between two from the same community are so succesful?

None the less, Im glad this was stopped. If you want to marry outside your religion, go get a court marriage. Hate these liberals trying to enforce their views on religios institutions.

That's the point I was trying to make. Neither are guaranteed to work. But the manner in which people who endorse love marriages seem to behave is as if love unions are bulletproof and everlasting. They refuse to hear anything to the contrary in case it shatters their illusion on these matters.

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Not limited to Sheperds Bush. Alice Way Hounslow Gurdwara frequently holds interfaith marriages. These committees are consumed and blinded by Maya.

It is no co-incidence that both Hounslow and the Central Gurdwara (which, btw hasn't been in 'Shepherds Bush' since the late 1960's despite the name) has committees heavily made up of urban Delhi-ite Sikhs. Hounslow, is by far, the worst. They might as well double up as an official Indian Consulate for West London.

The trouble here is that there's no come-back. There's nothing for the Gurdwaras to be afraid of. It works like this:

  1. They deliberately organise marriages of Sikh girls to non-Sikhs, including Muslims
  2. Then they wait and see if anything happens.
  3. If nobody notices, the wedding goes ahead.
  4. If Sikhs do start to notice, the Gurdwara simply call it off.
  5. And thats it.
  6. The end of the matter.
  7. No come-back. No punishment.
  8. And because there's no come-back they do it again when another family come to arrange a wedding date there.
  9. And then we start all over again from point #2 onwards.
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Other than the SGPC or Akal Takht, does there need to be some kind of body in the UK, a Gurdwara watchdog so to speak that monitors and audits each Gurdwara to ensure that they are not conducting any form of beadbi.

This body needs to be incorruptible and unbribable as much as possible. It would uninfiltratable as possible so that it cannot be subverted.

If a Gurdwara committee is found guilty then they should be fined because the only pain they feel is in the pocket. The committee members need to be named and shamed, blacklisted if needed. They must be accountable and it needs to be made public because the worst thing these crooks fear is being exposed.

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Oh you poor souls. I pray that one day you wake up and realise your investment in misinterpreted 'terms and conditions' was founded in ignorance and self hate. If you all started to love yourselves just a tiny bit more, the hole you so desperately seek to fill within yourselves might start to shrink. When you realise that these two HUMAN BEINGS have united THROUGH God way before your ego started to feed your brains with opinions and beliefs, you will see that any attempt you have made to stop the ceremony was not only futile and of zero consequence, but actually aided in strengthening their DIVINE bond.

You spew your chastisement through an online blog - oh you brave warriors of God! The fact this girl wanted to carry out the Sikh ceremony should make it obvious to you that she is acting in TRUTH (it's obviously not a move to please other people). So then who are you to judge and condemn her? You quote scripture in order to justify yourselves, not realising that the scripture you quote SUPPORTS their marriage. You act like God can be offended by any decision we make here on Earth. Worse than that, you have the audacity to tell yourselves you are offended on behalf of God. I wonder how many of you have taken a second to be honest with yourselves about WHY this really makes you feel uncomfortable? Your spite toward Muslim people is so boldly evident it's laughable. One of you even started talking about the moguls, ha! Let go of your hate people. We were put here TOGETHER as one, Maybe some of you should stop sipping away on your Chivas Regal and acting like a bunch of barbarians - then perhaps 'your women' might actually want to marry you. If you want change so much, get off this blog and start changing yourselves. Those of you are angry at this wedding - it's YOU who are angry, YOU have nurtured that negative emotion within yourselves. None of the posts here come from a place of compassion or love for this girl whom you claim as your own. Be honest with yourselves - this stings you because he's Muslim and you harbour hate in your heart. What does your religion teach you about that? Get the hell up off your high horses and go find somebody to LOVE. True love IS God and doesn't need religious teaching to justify it. Stop living your lives through teachings and start FEELING with the short life you have been blessed with. I pray the couple enjoy every bit of happiness they deserve from this union. I pray they teach their children that ALL people who follow a religion are reaching out to GOD and should be respected for doing so.

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