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 I am 28 year old. My family and I am trying so hard  to find guy from last 4 years.  I really wanna settle down in my life. Par koi v suitable rishta nhi mil rha... 

 I understand that Gurbani  is  very powerful. Is  there any path which I can do to find my soulmate ??

mera Mann Sara  din bahut restless rehnda aaa and I keep thinking about my soulmate. I daydream a lot about him. Bahut tarah de khyal  aunde aaa ,k kidha da Houga, compatability hougi ya nhi.. 

mera rabbi charged bahut jayada vishwaaas aaa but mind bahut distraction ch rehnda.. paath nhi kr Hunda even I want to do . Gurudwara sahib jandi aa .. kayi bar viyog naaal akkha bhar jandiya k rabb Sade leyi kinna kuch krda. Te metho waheguru da naaam b nhi leya janda... 

i feel so bad . Mai chahundi ta bahut aa k rabb da naam meri zindgi da atutt hissa ban jawe, par things doesn't go the way I want. 

I live in Canada . Tried everywhere to find my soulmate- ajit weekly, shadi.com, Dil mil , tinder . Ajit India... par nothing is working out...

m so desperate .. koi veer/ beebi g koi slaah Devon ta bahut thanks houga tuhada

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2 hours ago, Guest Single kurhi said:

Wjkk wjkf

 I am 28 year old. My family and I am trying so hard  to find guy from last 4 years.  I really wanna settle down in my life. Par koi v suitable rishta nhi mil rha... 

 I understand that Gurbani  is  very powerful. Is  there any path which I can do to find my soulmate ??

mera Mann Sara  din bahut restless rehnda aaa and I keep thinking about my soulmate. I daydream a lot about him. Bahut tarah de khyal  aunde aaa ,k kidha da Houga, compatability hougi ya nhi.. 

mera rabbi charged bahut jayada vishwaaas aaa but mind bahut distraction ch rehnda.. paath nhi kr Hunda even I want to do . Gurudwara sahib jandi aa .. kayi bar viyog naaal akkha bhar jandiya k rabb Sade leyi kinna kuch krda. Te metho waheguru da naaam b nhi leya janda... 

i feel so bad . Mai chahundi ta bahut aa k rabb da naam meri zindgi da atutt hissa ban jawe, par things doesn't go the way I want. 

I live in Canada . Tried everywhere to find my soulmate- ajit weekly, shadi.com, Dil mil , tinder . Ajit India... par nothing is working out...

m so desperate .. koi veer/ beebi g koi slaah Devon ta bahut thanks houga tuhada

 Best to relinquish thoughts of finding a "soulmate" in the way you seem to be hoping for. Be pragmatic and realistic. That kind of wishing for a magical, super man who'll transform your life is just setting yourself up for disappointment. Your primary concern should be adjudging someone's suitability on various fronts, not whatever romanticised notions of married life you've gained over the years. 

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5 hours ago, Guest Single kurhi said:

Wjkk wjkf

 I am 28 year old. My family and I am trying so hard  to find guy from last 4 years.  I really wanna settle down in my life. Par koi v suitable rishta nhi mil rha... 

 I understand that Gurbani  is  very powerful. Is  there any path which I can do to find my soulmate ??

mera Mann Sara  din bahut restless rehnda aaa and I keep thinking about my soulmate. I daydream a lot about him. Bahut tarah de khyal  aunde aaa ,k kidha da Houga, compatability hougi ya nhi.. 

mera rabbi charged bahut jayada vishwaaas aaa but mind bahut distraction ch rehnda.. paath nhi kr Hunda even I want to do . Gurudwara sahib jandi aa .. kayi bar viyog naaal akkha bhar jandiya k rabb Sade leyi kinna kuch krda. Te metho waheguru da naaam b nhi leya janda... 

i feel so bad . Mai chahundi ta bahut aa k rabb da naam meri zindgi da atutt hissa ban jawe, par things doesn't go the way I want. 

I live in Canada . Tried everywhere to find my soulmate- ajit weekly, shadi.com, Dil mil , tinder . Ajit India... par nothing is working out...

m so desperate .. koi veer/ beebi g koi slaah Devon ta bahut thanks houga tuhada

 

 

 

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"Satgur Mera Vad Samratha"

The above Gurbani tuk tells us that "My Satguru is Very Powerful"

Have no doubts that Guru Sahib is all powerful and can fulfill all desires, even in a moment. The only thing is that it is up to Guru Sahib/Vaheguru to accept our ardaas.

There are at least three answers to an ardaas:

No

Yes

Yes, but later

 

If you feel your ardaas is not being answered that develop a loving relationship with Guru Sahib. It is very similar to worldly relations. If you are close to someone powerful you are more likely to get favors from them. For the time being try to forget about your problems and desires (this is really difficult)

So here are some suggestions to get a closer two-way loving relationship with Guru Sahib:

- Develop love, wonder and supreme faith in your mind for Guru Sahib, by listening to or reading sikh history. Suraj Prakash katha is really good for this.

- Increase Naam Simran drastically.

- Nitnem everyday is a must, but on top of this increase Gurbani recitation (Sukhmani Sahib, asa ki war etc)

- Learn and do simple kirtan privately and imagine Vaheguru is really there in front of you watching. (he really is there whether you imagine or not)

- Memorize as much Gurbani as possible. Just memorize a little everyday, in the long term it will amount to quite a lot.

- Do sewa that humbles you (cleaning shoes, washing dishes, cleaning toilets at Gurdwara)

- Wake up amritvela daily (if this is difficult then start with the above suggestions first)

- If you haven't already, take Amrit and try to keep all rehits strictly

 

 

I hope this helps anyone who feels they are lacking in life.

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Waheguru ji da khalsa Waheguru ji di fateh ?

I love someone and my mother knows about the guy bt ikko prblm h ki saada financial status match ni krda..mom ne menu ik saal da tym dita h ki agr o munda kuj settle ho gya ta o sochn ge bt boht hi mushkil h ku ha krn.. twade cho koi v menu slaah de skda h ki Mai keda paath kreya kra ki mere ghrde raazi khushi man jaan vya layi

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Waheguru ji da khalsa Waheguru ji di fateh 

I love someone and my mother knows about the guy bt ikko prblm h ki saada financial status match ni krda..mom ne menu ik saal da tym dita h ki agr o munda kuj settle ho gya ta o sochn ge bt boht hi mushkil h ku ha krn.. twade cho koi v menu slaah de skda h ki Mai keda paath kreya kra ki mere ghrde raazi khushi man jaan vya layi

 

 
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On 4/10/2016 at 1:34 PM, Guest supreet kaur said:

I am 30 years old. My parents trying to my marriage. But last 4 years , relations are coming but not fulfill. Plz tell me which path is suitable or open blockages of sanjog

The same situation happening with me still i am unmarried i think we will do path of sukhmani sahib and ardas for same or if you think we can contact each other may be this is the way that we meet here

You can find me on fb Drparamjeet singh uppal or on insta as drpsuppal

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