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sikh girls? well Many of them are writing their Kaur as "Caur" or "Kour".Its pretty annoying that gurus given honor has become joke for them..Driving sikhi Wherever they want..

One more thing I have seen In Gursikh families A guy is not allowed to cut his even single hair of his beard but when we see his sister and mother They are cutting their hair,waxing,shaving for fashion world.I just saw a two big examples recently in India ..A guy is going on his bike ,he is a saabat surat sikh guy with his full beard and he tied patka..he could be 16 or 17 years old guy..His sister was sitting behind of him and wearing short up to her knees and sleeve less and loose top. We could clearly see her hair on her head was cut and her legs were waxed and her arms were shaved just because she wanted to fit with her western garments..

Sikh woman and sikh girls are wearing western garments with their own choice in modern world..In order to fit with them They are doing everything as same as like non sikh girls do..Cutting of hair ,,waxing,,,,shaving.. etc etc..why? because They are wearing western garments...

and When it comes to criticize whole of the blame is poured on the innocent sikh guys that They don't want to marry the girls who don't do stuff like that.
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oh come on..The one who is himself hairy and respecting the blessings of gurus how can He say others not to respect the blessings of gurus..The whole of the thing again comes to a sikh woman and her hypocrisy,if a guys wants a cutsurd girl because he had been grown up in such women where girls used to do cutting waxing shaving etc etc.....No doubt Sikh woman is about to
sikhi in future and whole of the blame is going to be poured on the Sikh man...

and this Questioner is blaming the sikh guys without any reason .some punjabi or sikh girls?? I dont know where you live..Go and see in the society Sikh guys are only meant to be brothers no one is going to be married with them. and Most of the sikh girls have negative attitude towards a sikh man and sikhism. sikh women's self criticizing behavior towards sikh man and sikhism is leading to the destruction of sikhi in future. Fashion ,, media ,,,glamour world,, entertainment these are the areas where sikh girls want to go .. Our sisters are being pornstars today how its shameful for us..Sorry we are not made up of any metal and iron .we are human beings as same as like others We have heart and feelings..If someone points out such things and make fun of our sikhi in front of us..its going to break down us..and how its easy for you saying increase your tolerance level..

At last I would only say Clean shaved face is the biggest weakness of sikh woman. My friend just made a propose to girl last week and the girl was from Gursikh family and my friend was too.

The girl without any delay said . "Yess I m sikh girl but I want such a guy who has some nice haircut like Ranbeer and Shahrukh and wearing earings /"..

Where our sikh sisters heading for???


"I repeat lead by example, show others so much love that your charisma attracts others to you rather then chasing after or trying to change others."

This said thing fits on sikh girls not on sikh guys. have you got it???

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Whatever you say and do Kaurs.. Nothing will change...

There are differences created by almighty and there are differences existing in society......

I am tired of uplifting Women but women themselves are not ready to come out the mentality to be strong enough to fight with circumstances.

The biggest thing is that our own dear ones create these differences for us.

Gkaur- You alone cannot fight with these factors nor you can change it... I would suggest that keep believing in Gurus - they are the only ones who can save you....

I am a girl and I live a strong and healthy life where what other says don't affect me at all... Coz I bother for what my Guruji says to me...... :biggrin2: :biggrin2: :lol2: :lol2:

Listen to all and do what your heart says... coz if you can give birth to men then you can do anything better then what they can do :D :D

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I don't know how I got over here and I just read your that comment that hurts me a lot .The things you have told against Sikh guys I think They fit more on the character of Sikh girls who always go around here and there with slutty and romantic attitude and you have targeted punjabi girls without any reason. Myself Sunakshi Kaur from an hindu punjabi girl orgin, 25 years old married to sikh guy last year. I m from Brahmin Family and I m pretty sure all other punjabi girls respect the sikh guys and why shall we not ? They are savers of our generations. The problems are rising between sikh guys and sikh girls. why are you blaming punjabi girls? Don't forget punjabi girls also include Muslim hindu and many other girls. I don't know who can you be that sure about punjabi girls rather than sikh girls.its just hypocrisy of you sikh girls. without any reason you cannot make any assumptions. These are the sikh girls who make fun of their own sikh guys.


Tears are coming in my eyes. The Issue is not with punjabi girls ,The issue is between Sikh girls and sikh guys. I have studied in some khalsa college and I was accompanied with some of sikh guys.They were always helpful for me and I never seen any sikh guy doing hurt someone girl without any reason. you would not believe, in my point of view Sikh guys are the nicest men in the world.
I think a Sikh guy is that khudgarj He will never tell others whats in his heart even if he falls in love with someone girl. He just leaves everything on the girl because he does not wanna hurt that girl who he loves with.
I think sikh ( Sardar) always spend their life according to sikhi and most of the Sardars go through arranged marriages. Its okay mine one did not go through that way because it was not his fault, It was me who approached him and said him to marry with me. He was sweet and cute .He had great sense of humor.He was funny .He always helped me without being selfish.
I knew already He was loving me but He never said to me .People say Sardars don't have guts and courage to propose someone girl.
But Its not true the thing is something else.
When my post graduation was about to complete and We had hardly ten days more to spend in college life then I felt that I am in love with him.But he was that Khudgaraj, I knew already He would not propose me at any cost because I knew sikh Guys ( Sardars, most of them) are not supposed to do ashikee( Love).Their first love is their Identity ,Their physical appearance. Their look.
And at the end of the day of my college when I did propose him, he accepted it and when I did ask him a reason "why did not you say me that you love me when I already knew" ?"Every girl wants guys should come first to approach the girls".
He told me some of the reason and I believe the reason is really genuine and real whether you believe or not I leave it on you.
The reason he told me when Sardars try to get girls,,The people starts make assumptions like" oh dekh ki haal a ..sir ide te paag a te kudhiyan piche janda pya va." The case is same as like a muslim girl when she does something like that because she wears hijab.
There is a very notable point that as sardars wear turban and they are showing their commitment to their sikhi ,In the same way.Muslim girls are showing their commitment to Islaam wearing hizab or Burka.. and on the other side both Muslim Guy and Sikh girl ( non baptized) lack these things and as a result They are more flexible and free in the society. Moreover Getting attracted to other non sikh guys by a sikh girl becomes obvious .In my point of view she does not have anything that could remind her that she is sikh girl so she should approach a sikh guy .
and I want to say I have accepted my better half based on his qualities and personality. I think a Sardar guy is the perfect example of personality...He is a gentleman .
whenever I go to my own parents family with my husband,,Everybody gives him that much respect and honor my heart starts blooming,flowering, blossoming, flourishing, thriving..Its like I am proud of myself that I got Sikh husband.. Everywhere I go with him to my massiyan or mama maammies..Everybody calls him Sardarji Sardarji.Singh saab Singh saab.. and I am the only one hindu punjabi girl in my whole families and relatives that married to sikh guy and whenever someone remembers me they just say " "oh jida gharwaala sardar a..singh a,,ohdi gal krdi a."" so why should not non sikh girls get any sardar husband? :D.
I am hurt because you targeted punjabi girls but punjabi girls also include Hindu and other girls too.. and I don't think so any sardar goes for lust as you defined ,..so far I have only seen who get haircut for girls who become mona,,yes They go for lust because They don't have anything that can remind them that they are SIKH and you have to believe there is a great difference in mona sikh and sardar sikh.
Most of the bad things are done by Mona sikhs and people try to associate these bad things with sardar sikh guy..I don't know people cannot be happy seeing their own people happy.
I never seen any Sardar teasing any girl physically rather than it he comes to help her from those mona sikh and other guys if someone girl faces such situation,Never seen any sardar stealing into the houses of people.Never seen any sardar raping the girl.Never seen any sardar addicted to sex stuff.never seen any sardar hurting someone else..Never seen any sardar who is being selfish..Never seen any sardar who is grooming any girl for his lust..and there are thousands of qualities I can share with you about sardars that make them holy, pure , trustworthy,dependable and reliable.
I don't know much about you but I can definitely say your assumption about sikh guys is false not whole of it but about 80 % very easily ..The things you told against them suits much more on sikh girls as compared to sikh guys. See the majority my sister Don't come with exceptional cases . When the emotions and patience get uncontrollable the frustration is obvious and that's what happening with sikh guys.
We got just baby in this year ,He is 6 months old. My hubby was saying to cut his hair because its hot over here in delhi because of summer season but I completely denied to do that..If I Have become Sikh now I would think like a sikh I would try my best so that My kids will not feel anything less about their faith.. I try to get more and more knowledge about sikhism.
And there are many non sikh girls who became Kaurs with their own will and are proving themselves that they can be better Sikh wives as compared to wives who were born as sikh.
At last i just wanna say so far I had only heard but after being married to him Its quite true that Sardars are get by luck ,He will be yours only when he is in your luck.
you can have desires and requests for them to get but they are as rare as like diamonds in this world in very few Quantity .. Maybe I was very lucky So I got one of them. i will always
be very grateful to my God.
I feel I am the happiest girl on this world and one thing more ,Siikh guys (Sardars) are not dating girls,They are being dated by other girls).
So please before you make such assumptions, First you need to go to the core of problem of whether they are punjabi girls or sikh girls.
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I'll just quote what Mehtab Singh Veer Ji wrote in another thread as I think it perfectly sums up the post above mine:

...Those who have kirpa of SatGuru jee will come to this Panth, no matter where they are born and as what. Others may be born in a family that calls itself Sikh but may never realize that blessing.

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Whatever you say and do Kaurs.. Nothing will change...

There are differences created by almighty and there are differences existing in society......

I am tired of uplifting Women but women themselves are not ready to come out the mentality to be strong enough to fight with circumstances.

The biggest thing is that our own dear ones create these differences for us.

Gkaur- You alone cannot fight with these factors nor you can change it... I would suggest that keep believing in Gurus - they are the only ones who can save you....

I am a girl and I live a strong and healthy life where what other says don't affect me at all... Coz I bother for what my Guruji says to me...... :biggrin2: :biggrin2: :lol2: :lol2:

Listen to all and do what your heart says... coz if you can give birth to men then you can do anything better then what they can do :D :D

At least your thoughts are genuine somehow that "sikh women themselves are not ready to come out the mentality to be strong enough to fight with circumstances."

Because most of them have been moved to cleanshaven and stereotype faces of men.whether the such men are in sikhi or outside the sikhi..It does not matter to them. When sikh girls get higher qualification a guy with turban and beard look old fashioned to them ( its common reason you can see too)

"if you can give birth to men then you can do anything better then what they can do "

Its 100 percent true if sikh girl herself ignores mona guys and stop marrying outside sikhi and prefer turban guys then definitely it will work and sikh guys will listen her and keep kesh and beard and tie turban because a woman has great impact on the man both mentally and physically.

Ek gal boht common a saaddiyan familiyan wich jado sikh kudhi jwaan ho jandi a te ki kendi apni maa nu jado ude vyaa di gal chaldi a..dyaan dyo jra

"Mummy Mummy main sikh naal vyaa nai krouna,,munda mannu cleanshave chahuda va" te kadi tusi ida hi sikh munde nu kende sunya ke oh kenda main sikh kudhi naal vyaa nai krouna??? thavanu pta te manu b pta Kade b nai sunya huna ...Sach a ji sach...................

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As a man love your weapons more than any 'woman' (or anyone else 'humanly') and you will be fine.

That is all I have to say, it seems feminism is widespread with othe rissues but what veer ji said is true.

Those who wish, and with his grace will find this panth.

We have too many favors to return to worry about this stuff.

47 and 84 genocides are still un-repaid.

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This is a new punjabi song uploaded on youtube tommarrow..The main singer is stereotype clean shaved guy with his weird hairstyle,wearing earings, wearing caps its like he is copying 50 cents or any western rapper...and he got rapper in his song .The rapper is cute sardar wearing simple dastaar.. and you know as same as like Our brilliant dumb kaurs come over the

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What proud they do by calling themselves as kaur with their name? I never got its answer so far.

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Only a Sikh(Amritdhari) will defend Sikhi. A non-Sikh(Punjabi) can not understand the essence of Sikhi, therefore will not see any reason in defending Gursikhi. Stop expecting fruits (Sikhi) to bloom out of swamps(everyday Punjabis).

How can a haircut, meat eating, alcohol drinking, substance/intoxicant abuser talk about Gurmat??? Now it doesn't matter if such people are born Punjabi or not. Their mindset is not towards Sikhi, then how do you expect them to defend Sikhi??? I think the problem also lies with us Sikhs(Amritdharis) expecting too much from everyday Punjabis(who have nothing to do with Sikhi in actuality). Wake up!

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Once again the problem is that sikhi and punjabi culture are being confused.

A sikh girl amritdhari or not loves her religion and will not do anything which dishonours sikhi , herself or her parents, (same applies for boys) she has no problem with marrying a boy with a turban (obviously a must for amritdharis). does not do bf's or clubbing, drinking, beuty parlour etc, same for boys no gf's etc and hopefully no beauty parlour but their are more and more getting their beards threading etc,

All the boys and girls who say they are sikhs but do the bf/gf, drinking pubs clubs,beauty parlours, night out with the girls/ boys etc are not sikhs and just because they say they are makes no difference, Gurbani forbids sikhs to dishonour themselves or their parents, drinking etc.

Now you decide the ones who are hated and the ones that are not, and actually hated is a very strong / wrong word, i would say pitied (boys and girls) as they have turned their backs on Guru ji.

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