Why Do All Marriages Between Sikh Women And Non-Sikh Men End In Divorce?

[Guest Jacfsing2]

4 hours ago, Berserk said:

I'm assuming you're young, you don't need to be worrying about marriage right now. 

Your correct, but even for close family we should still assist them spiritually, if someone asks for help on this aspect we should provide it for them, (we as a communitty of Sikhs struggle with this and now we have confused Sikhs like Hundal).

2 hours ago, Preeet said:

Dear, our religion is such a religion where conversions only take place if someone wants to convert with their own wish.. & 1st of all a Sikh would not marry a non Sikh, because dharma is important to us, and if we cannot follow dharma with our spouse then what is the point of this life (since the point of life is to practice dharma). 

Love is deeper than just spousal love, there's love for parents, siblings, and close friends. If someone dear to me wanted to get my help on spirituality, Daas would recommend Guru Sahib alone, not any other.

[Guest Sherni]

On 16/12/2016 at 4:41 AM, Sukhvirk76 said:

Maybe you should familiarise yourself with Mool mantar? 

BTW what is wrong with someone being 'liberal', feminist and a woman. Lol

Idiocy is bliss... 

Sorry but i find your views repulsive and anti-sikh. You remind me of people like sunny hundal who arent sikh but wont to tell sikhs what we should do and think in our own religion

[Guest Jacfsing2]

On 12/15/2016 at 11:41 PM, Sukhvirk76 said:

Maybe you should familiarise yourself with Mool mantar? 

BTW what is wrong with someone being 'liberal', feminist and a woman. Lol

Idiocy is bliss... 

Vaheguru, bless the admins for finally putting this guy on quality control. He keeps on saying random nonsense, which really doesn't mean anything liberal at all? The mool mantar mentions Gur-prassad as the only way to Vaheguru, so you haven't really studied it too much.

[Guest Tony]

On 19/12/2016 at 0:22 AM, Sukhvirk76 said:

Quality control is exactly that. Control!

Lets not challenge and learn and grow, no. Let's control the conversation, let's not explore let us all congratulate ourselves in our in our own plastic piety. 

Control should be anathema to any true sikh 

I love admins and they how they put punjabi atheist trolls like you in much deserved quality control group. You should be greatful you havent been out right banned for mocking sikhi and sikhs in their own forum.

Your a replusive monster and why many sikhs hate the liberal and left wing socialists and thus turned right wing. Cos of morons like you, sikhs for years were brainwashed to acceptable our demogracial genocide while enemies like islamo-fasicts and others perserve and try to increase theres. Trolls like you do not deserve a say but just contempt.

[Guest Sss]

On 7/29/2013 at 9:02 AM, Guest kalyug times said:

I've noticed virtually every sikh woman who foolishly dated and married someone outside their faith have had their marriages end in divorce. Most of these women tend to have married white atheist/Christian men and it always ends very badly very bitter divorces.

There was this one punjaban i got to know called [ModCut- NAMES ARE NOT ALLOWED] she married her white boyfriend and divorced 2 years later after she caught him cheating and now shes letting herself being used and abused by guys in clubs and one night stands in online dating sites. Another punjabi girl i knew who was from south england kent she dressed up like a goth and was into the satanic dark heavy metal scene she married her white atheist satanic boyfriend and 2 years later he died of aids after contracting it through heavy drug use through needles. Now she is online dating going out with all sorts ......a lost cause a shame on her parents and community.

Now I've just read an article of a bitter divorce where the parminder nagra a punjaban british actress of sikh heritage married her white atheist/christian photographer boyfriend a few years ago. While I was reading the article I thought to myself is this the state of affairs these days that these moronic punjabans can think they will be happier with non-sikh guy after the lust and fun times are over?

Maybe its a good thing that Indian parents prefer males over females in Indian and punjabi society as women themselves are not responsible for the future well being of the community no more and will exploit their freedoms and shun their responsibilities in a liberal westernised carefree hedonistic mindset and society.

Wait a minute do you realize that not all punjabis are sikh??? They can be christian, hindu or muslim. And I don't think it has anything to do with their religion, probably cultural differences. Sure many punjabans can be happy with another race, I know so many that are married outside their race and are happily together. And since I was raised in a Punjabi household, do not ever say that statement that they prefer males over females. I already know that but I hate when people like you say that, it is the most sexist thing to say. How is it that women aren't responsible?? Huh?? Do you speak to your mother with that disrespect for a gender that has itself brought you into this very world that you luckily even get to exist. If an Indian woman wants to marry outside her race, let her, damn stop making a big deal out of it, you're not entitled to choose who a woman wants to marry. Who cares? Let them exploit freedom, a lot of women are so done with this desi controlling.What are her responsibilities?? cook, clean?? Sorry but some were not simply raised that way, some were raised in a way to only worry about their education and schooling. Whats wrong with a liberal westernized society? It is a hell of a lot better than conservatism. Edited

[Guest Jacfsing2]

On 4/20/2017 at 3:12 AM, Guest Sss said:

Wait a minute do you realize that not all punjabis are sikh??? They can be christian, hindu or muslim. And I don't think it has anything to do with their religion, probably cultural differences. Sure many punjabans can be happy with another race, I know so many that are married outside their race and are happily together. And since I was raised in a Punjabi household, do not ever say that statement that they prefer males over females. I already know that but I hate when people like you say that, it is the most sexist thing to say. How is it that women aren't responsible?? Huh?? Do you speak to your mother with that disrespect for a gender that has itself brought you into this very world that you luckily even get to exist. If an Indian woman wants to marry outside her race, let her, damn stop making a big deal out of it, you're not entitled to choose who a woman wants to marry. Who cares? Let them exploit freedom, a lot of women are so done with this desi controlling.What are her responsibilities?? cook, clean?? Sorry but some were not simply raised that way, some were raised in a way to only worry about their education and schooling. Whats wrong with a liberal westernized society? It is a hell of a lot better than conservatism. Edited

You can say what you want about the issue, but in reality it's impossible to find anyone better than a Gurmukh towards being a Rishta with. Male or female. I highly doubt that you've matured mentally enough to understand that. How exactly liberalism or conservatism benefit us? It doesn't only Sikhi would benefit us.

[Guest Guest]

I’ve noticed so much judgement here. We are all individuals here complete with our own set of good and bad morals, beliefs, ideals and so forth. 
We’re all human both capable of making our own desisions whether good or bad regardless of race or religion. Mistakes that we therefore make do not reflect on others, only ourselves.

Stop the blame and judgement. It keeps racism, misunderstandings and hatred alive.

Look for the good, only the good. Not your cup of tea? Simply move on.

[ipledgeblue]

On 10/3/2021 at 12:03 AM, Guest Guest said:

I’ve noticed so much judgement here. We are all individuals here complete with our own set of good and bad morals, beliefs, ideals and so forth. 
We’re all human both capable of making our own desisions whether good or bad regardless of race or religion. Mistakes that we therefore make do not reflect on others, only ourselves.

Stop the blame and judgement. It keeps racism, misunderstandings and hatred alive.

Look for the good, only the good. Not your cup of tea? Simply move on.

a lot of people are awful at making decisions, so they need a helping hand, sometimes an elder's wise words! Our manmatt leads to poor life choices, that is why we need Guru so we can learn gurmatt!

looking for the good, do you mean dil saaf hona chaheeda?

[GurjantGnostic]

Sikhi calls spades spades. Be wary of the positivity trap. Acceptance and approval are two different things. 

[MisterrSingh]

4 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

Sikhi calls spades spades. Be wary of the positivity trap. Acceptance and approval are two different things. 

Absolutely spot-on. Unfortunately, it's a distinction missed by most Sikhs.