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has anyone entered a phase in their life when they want to quit everything...i am in such a position...everything materialistic is going o well but spiritually i am getting exhausted...i keep doing ardaas to waheguru but i keep getting more ashant everyday...i don' know what this is...its suffocating and i want to quit thinking about waheguru but at the same time i think its maya at its best trying to keep me away from Him...today i woke up at 3 am but went back to sleep again, have been missing my amritvela everyday...i did simran but didn't give me the peace it often gives....i can't sleep till 12 even when i go to bed at 10...i want it all to go away but i don't want to be the same person i was before....my mind tells me to dive into maya because waheguru doesn't care...i talk to friends and family but on the inside i am broken and sad...

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has anyone entered a phase in their life when they want to quit everything...i am in such a position...everything materialistic is going o well but spiritually i am getting exhausted...i keep doing ardaas to waheguru but i keep getting more ashant everyday...i don' know what this is...its suffocating and i want to quit thinking about waheguru but at the same time i think its maya at its best trying to keep me away from Him...today i woke up at 3 am but went back to sleep again, have been missing my amritvela everyday...i did simran but didn't give me the peace it often gives....i can't sleep till 12 even when i go to bed at 10...i want it all to go away but i don't want to be the same person i was before....my mind tells me to dive into maya because waheguru doesn't care...i talk to friends and family but on the inside i am broken and sad...

bhenji in this case best is do ardas to maharaj for hunger of naam and do as much seva as possible which will help you concentrate........and for waking up daas also suffered first from it but he tried a trick to wake up was that when your eyes gets open and u dont not to get up for doing path just remember a scene in which u will be thrashed by jaamdoots if u will not wake up to do path....just remember it and feel the pain, ur body and maan will automatically will get up.....works for me :p u can give a try......also try to figure out that do u have a worry of any kind in back of your mind hope it helps :)

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has anyone entered a phase in their life when they want to quit everything...i am in such a position...everything materialistic is going o well but spiritually i am getting exhausted...i keep doing ardaas to waheguru but i keep getting more ashant everyday...i don' know what this is...its suffocating and i want to quit thinking about waheguru but at the same time i think its maya at its best trying to keep me away from Him...today i woke up at 3 am but went back to sleep again, have been missing my amritvela everyday...i did simran but didn't give me the peace it often gives....i can't sleep till 12 even when i go to bed at 10...i want it all to go away but i don't want to be the same person i was before....my mind tells me to dive into maya because waheguru doesn't care...i talk to friends and family but on the inside i am broken and sad...

Remember waheguru dont need you. Every human being, every living being needs waheguru. If you think wanting success in life is as simple as doing ardaas and praying to waheguru to give you what you need in life then your mistaken brother. Waheguru CHOSES himself who to help n a certain way and what is good for them. How many times in gurbani does it say even bad times are gifts from waheguru because they teach us who in charge and when times are good we forget our lord our creator so good and bad times never forget your source of life your source of everything you have in life that others around the world dont have (ie war torn areas of the world, orphans, starving people, badly disabled people, etc) be grateful to your lord for what he has given you.

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