Middle Of Everything

[jasdeepsingh2k125]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

now i am middle of my path of spirituality....means i think i am going in dhandikala

i sometimes when listen to katha & jeevanis of mahapurakhs and chardi kala gursikhs and their kamies then i dont know what happens to me i think they used to jap for 22hours a day and i am nothhing , i am not progressing not getting any clues you kow what i mean to say...i am getting alienated with my friends..i mean like before 2 years i was not the same person that i am now ......i think i have completly changed........now when my friends call me i dont get along with them as i used to.... i mean for instance today as because our exams of 12th got 2 months ago and so also jee so we all are enjoying this free time my all friends thought of playing cricket and do gossip afterwards and u know the normal gossips of teens and their central point...........u know the things which i used to think as normal before now i feel them as trash and gross......... and they say i am not same jasdeep ...............from this my mann just becomes i dont know which feeling exactly but something between sad and deprssed..when i do some path for that moment i mind is ok...otherwise i am think that my situation is like lok gayio parlok gavaio ..............

:( i know that jag rachna sab choot hai but yet again one has to live in a society...........

[simran721]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

now i am middle of my path of spirituality....means i think i am going in dhandikala

i sometimes when listen to katha & jeevanis of mahapurakhs and chardi kala gursikhs and their kamies then i dont know what happens to me i think they used to jap for 22hours a day and i am nothhing , i am not progressing not getting any clues you kow what i mean to say...i am getting alienated with my friends..i mean like before 2 years i was not the same person that i am now ......i think i have completly changed........now when my friends call me i dont get along with them as i used to.... i mean for instance today as because our exams of 12th got 2 months ago and so also jee so we all are enjoying this free time my all friends thought of playing cricket and do gossip afterwards and u know the normal gossips of teens and their central point...........u know the things which i used to think as normal before now i feel them as trash and gross......... and they say i am not same jasdeep ...............from this my mann just becomes i dont know which feeling exactly but something between sad and deprssed..when i do some path for that moment i mind is ok...otherwise i am think that my situation is like lok gayio parlok gavaio ..............

:( i know that jag rachna sab choot hai but yet again one has to live in a society...........

Jasdeepsingh2k125 Ji funny you saying that as I am currently going through the same phase as yourself. I seem to be too engrossed into my paath/seva/ listening to katha/gurbani etc that I no longer seem to care about anything else. I have too been wondering why this is happening to me as I'm not sure myself. Could someone please shed some light on this please.

[scali]

When one gets born, mind which is also ones personality slows its vibration down from spiritual to physical world to create matter which we see as body(us). As ones mind changes matter vibrates as to denser or lighter matter . We pick up vibrations of others. You attract or repel people in your life based on your mind vibrations. Spiritual mind is inward, gross mind is outward, you are in transition, you may not want to leave the outward illusion seem to be fun more familiar world for inner soul world. Stick with inner in the long run its more rewarding.

[navsangeet]

it happened to me already veer, a week ago, it had confined myself to my room and just wanted to listen to keertan, but thanks enuf to my family they managed to throw me down from my avastha..i think i lost it all, i cannot help it now...a week ago i was in so much pyaar with waheguru and now i am blank and i feel like crying...i can't getup at amritvela, my eyes open at amritvela but my body can't get up, there is no attraction for bania...beware of maya brother...don't listen to others and don't try to explain them why u are like this...i tried and failed...

[isingh1699]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

now i am middle of my path of spirituality....means i think i am going in dhandikala

i sometimes when listen to katha & jeevanis of mahapurakhs and chardi kala gursikhs and their kamies then i dont know what happens to me i think they used to jap for 22hours a day and i am nothhing , i am not progressing not getting any clues you kow what i mean to say...i am getting alienated with my friends..i mean like before 2 years i was not the same person that i am now ......i think i have completly changed........now when my friends call me i dont get along with them as i used to.... i mean for instance today as because our exams of 12th got 2 months ago and so also jee so we all are enjoying this free time my all friends thought of playing cricket and do gossip afterwards and u know the normal gossips of teens and their central point...........u know the things which i used to think as normal before now i feel them as trash and gross......... and they say i am not same jasdeep ...............from this my mann just becomes i dont know which feeling exactly but something between sad and deprssed..when i do some path for that moment i mind is ok...otherwise i am think that my situation is like lok gayio parlok gavaio ..............

:( i know that jag rachna sab choot hai but yet again one has to live in a society...........

Jasdeepsingh2k125 Ji funny you saying that as I am currently going through the same phase as yourself. I seem to be too engrossed into my paath/seva/ listening to katha/gurbani etc that I no longer seem to care about anything else. I have too been wondering why this is happening to me as I'm not sure myself. Could someone please shed some light on this please.

it happened to me already veer, a week ago, it had confined myself to my room and just wanted to listen to keertan, but thanks enuf to my family they managed to throw me down from my avastha..i think i lost it all, i cannot help it now...a week ago i was in so much pyaar with waheguru and now i am blank and i feel like crying...i can't getup at amritvela, my eyes open at amritvela but my body can't get up, there is no attraction for bania...beware of maya brother...don't listen to others and don't try to explain them why u are like this...i tried and failed...

All of u should be mega proud of yourselves (in a way without haumai and hankaar) as many people at your age in Punjab are doing drugs, have no consideration for what Sikhi stands for and are ruining their own lives as well as the future of the Sikh Panth. To my knowledge you guys+girls haven't killed any innocent people, you haven't aborted any innocent life on the basis of gender, you don't sell or take drugs and you don't drink so why not give yourselves a break and realise that you are champions and Sikhs. Guru Gobind Singh Ji had their entire family made shaheed but they still walked out clapping as the Sikh Panth can never lose and never be defeated if we are strong mentally within ourselves and united as one force.

Next time you feel depressed, remember those that are much worse off than you and try to engage in some seva for them.

Turn every negative emotion you feel into a positive action as a result of that ok!

U guys+girls are the future of Sikhi and you can be legends for the Panth if you think positive with Chardi Kala. Remember how Bhai Sukha Singh was even daamadol before Sikhi entered his bloodstream properly and look at how he went on along with Bhai Mehtab Singh to teach the Muslim Massa Ranghar a lesson that Sikhs can be hunted down in the most cruel ways of Genocide by our enemies but we will never be defeated!!!

PS: it takes bravery to even admit how you feel in front of others so things can only get better and stronger if you keep faith in Sikhi and staying in Chardi Kala

[savinderpalsingh]

WaheguruJiKaKhalsa!!WaheguruJiKiFateh!!

Just do ardas to waheguru

listen to katha
kirtan

like a cell phone , our atma is a cell phone .

and without recharging we cannot be in good awastha .

to charge you need to do sewa without ego and hankar

sab tuhi mere malaka sab tuhi

if you dont feel attraction towards bani , haaje mel hai kafi

pray and goto local gurudwara spend empty time in sewa and simran while doing sewa ,

main nahi kch ho nahi.

koi aa na mohra

mere mujh mein kujh nahi jo kujh hai so tera .

tera tujh ko saump ke kya laage mera

main nahi main nahi

neeti neeti

[jasdeepsingh2k125]

WaheguruJiKaKhalsa!!WaheguruJiKiFateh!!

Just do ardas to waheguru

listen to katha

kirtan

like a cell phone , our atma is a cell phone .

and without recharging we cannot be in good awastha .

to charge you need to do sewa without ego and hankar

sab tuhi mere malaka sab tuhi

if you dont feel attraction towards bani , haaje mel hai kafi

pray and goto local gurudwara spend empty time in sewa and simran while doing sewa ,

main nahi kch ho nahi.

koi aa na mohra

mere mujh mein kujh nahi jo kujh hai so tera .

tera tujh ko saump ke kya laage mera

main nahi main nahi

neeti neeti

veerji the attraction is not a problem but daas means he is in middle of spirituality path he means that he is not the same guy as he was used to so just finds somewhat difficult to adjust he the changes maybe.like daas doesn't see his friends like he used to.... :blush2: :blush2:

[savinderpalsingh]

first sign is your friends will move away from you

lets go of the worldly relations , only your soul will be judged for they cannot save you

be in the sangat of gurmukhs who sing the praise of that almightly lord

[taran0]

the soul feels sad as the world it once held onto was just a dream, what is the point of it all?
but look forward to what is ahead of this life, japp naam and remember this is holding the hand of the Guru, and hereafter we will be reunited with our beloved...

the housholder is haunted by worry, the renunciate is haunted by ego

gurmukh is the householder and renunciate in one - sant sipahi - the saint and the soldier in one

The gurmukh lives in family but understands it is just a dream, but this life is also the only way to do bhagti and reach vaheguru, so living in maya he remains clean like the lotus flower on the swamp, he performs his worldy duty and helps those around him yet he is detached from life and understands that one day we must all accept defeat why not bow down to the guru and accept it now......

such balance is beyond us at young age... hope that as we get older wisdom will teach us more about this balance.....
sangat is very important - sangat of gursikhs, siyane, sants, mahapursh and doing seva is very important to learn more about balance.

[simran721]

veerji the attraction is not a problem but daas means he is in middle of spirituality path he means that he is not the same guy as he was used to so just finds somewhat difficult to adjust he the changes maybe.like daas doesn't see his friends like he used to.... :blush2: :blush2:

Jasdeepsingh2k125 ji what I'm realising is now that the ones that are meant to be in your lives will stay with you and the ones that aren't will eventually lose contact. In the past 2 months or so I have lost a few friends. Now those friends were the ones who to talk garbage/gossiping/slandering etc. For the last 8 months or so I've been attracted to Waheguru so much that i'm in love and that I don't wish for anyone to come in the way of this. I feel like I'm in a relationship and its very beautiful indeed. At this moment I feel very protected, but what i'm scared about is when this all diminishes. Who will I turn to then, as I will have nobody by my side except for my family?