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I don't feel like doing anything, it feels like I've lost interest in everything but if someone makes me do something something simple like kirtan then I'll start enjoying it like I used to before. I want to so Simran inside I want to go do seva at the gurdwara but I don't know what's stopping me, I want to so something but it feels like i lost interest and everything seems boring. Why do I feel this way? I did have a fight with my mom earlier which ruined my mood and made me upset. But I don't know something's missing. I don't know what to do.

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I don't feel like doing anything, it feels like I've lost interest in everything but if someone makes me do something something simple like kirtan then I'll start enjoying it like I used to before. I want to so Simran inside I want to go do seva at the gurdwara but I don't know what's stopping me, I want to so something but it feels like i lost interest and everything seems boring. Why do I feel this way? I did have a fight with my mom earlier which ruined my mood and made me upset. But I don't know something's missing. I don't know what to do.

watch a comedy movie or two....... :p

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watch a comedy movie or two....... :p

I don't watch tv or movies I stopped after a while when I took Amrit watching movies and tv is munmukh activity it's something a munmukh does yes I watch dharamak movies buts its ok if I watch other things then I can't go to surti/ smaadi I used to but now I'm really having a hard time I'm Doing other bad things which is affecting my bugtee life I want my old life back but it's hard

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Gosh op you really do have it hard first it was a guy problem now this ! :rolleyes2:

Well im sorry but my life isnt easy, yeah my life is like hell ever since I took Amrit, I don't regret taking Amrit but yeah problems in life started after I took Amrit. No on knows what I've been through so stop rolling ur eyes

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I don't watch tv or movies I stopped after a while when I took Amrit watching movies and tv is munmukh activity it's something a munmukh does yes I watch dharamak movies buts its ok if I watch other things then I can't go to surti/ smaadi I used to but now I'm really having a hard time I'm Doing other bad things which is affecting my bugtee life I want my old life back but it's hard

listen to some birr ras shabads or dharmic raps like this one

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listen to some birr ras shabads or dharmic raps like this one

I have that kind of stuff but I don't listen to it it's not my thing I don't find the background music appropriate I go like this would guru Jee do this , listen to this, watch this and then yeah u decide from there hahhaa I can't imagine guru Jee listening to something like this haha Lol
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