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Anmol Bachans - Precious Words By Saints

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Dhan Dhan Baba Nand Singh ji :-

"Guru Nanak keeda, jo Guru Nanak da "

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"Mein sabhda hoke vekh leya, ik tera hona baki hai,

Mein sabh kuch apna kho baitha, ik aapa khona baki hai"

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Eh (Sahib Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj) JEONDAA, JAAGDAA, BOLDAA Guru Nanak Hai!

Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji is the alive, awake and speaking Guru Nanak!

(Dhan Dhan Sant Baba Nand Singh Ji Maharaj)

Dhan Guru Nanak, Ik Tuhi Nirankaar

Great Guru Nanak, You are the one Formless Lord God

(Dhan Dhan Sant Baba Nand Singh Ji Maharaj)

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Dhan Dhan Baba Nand Singh ji :-

"Tute hoye nu jorhan naalon vada punn koi nahin, te jurhe hoye nu torhan naalon vada paap koi nahin"

"There's no such kindness to make an athiest, a believer and there's no bigger sin than turning a believer into an athiest"

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Dhan DHan Kilewale Mahapursh :- " If you cannot do Naam Jap in Kalyug....then atleast Avoid Nindiya of anyone(even if he is wrong).....then your name would be in Ardas....Jina Dekh ke undith(Aundith) kita, TIne Pyareyan Sachareyan di Kaamai Da Dyan Kareke Khalsa ji Bolo ji Vaheguru."

even if somebody is disrespecting guru sahib?

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even if somebody is disrespecting guru sahib?

My friend, WHat if you donot even know wheather the other person has actually done anything wrong and still you are doing nindiya of that person ....that is wrong.

if you know (100%) that for eg: The other person has disrespected Guru Sahib....then as per guru Maryada....make him understand thrice...if still not understood then Raise ur Shaster and cut him off

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My friend, WHat if you donot even know wheather the other person has actually done anything wrong and still you are doing nindiya of that person ....that is wrong.

if you know (100%) that for eg: The other person has disrespected Guru Sahib....then as per guru Maryada....make him understand thrice...if still not understood then Raise ur Shaster and cut him off

To add, nindya is telling something about someone that isn't confirmed or true. It is like telling a dog as a cat and vice versa.

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To add, nindya is telling something about someone that isn't confirmed or true. It is like telling a dog as a cat and vice versa.

to further add......nindeya is also when one's bad qualities are exaggerated by suppressing or ignoring the good ones......

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Kande nu kanda kehna ninda nahin hondi, sach honda hai

My Friend ....Cannot you see Kande de Naal Gulab da Phul vi Lga Hunda Hai.

I agree with Bhai Waljinder singh ji that We are good at looking Negative bcz our own thought process is negative....but sant mahapursh always look at what is good in him and put Parda on rest of negativity.

you or me donot know whether in future this same person would be good person or maybe mahapursh FOr eg:- Kauda Rakhsh. He was full with Negative thoughts and used to eat human; yet maharaj ji took him into sharan and did his Udhaar.

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My Friend ....Cannot you see Kande de Naal Gulab da Phul vi Lga Hunda Hai.

I agree with Bhai Waljinder singh ji that We are good at looking Negative bcz our own thought process is negative....but sant mahapursh always look at what is good in him and put Parda on rest of negativity.

you or me donot know whether in future this same person would be good person or maybe mahapursh FOr eg:- Kauda Rakhsh. He was full with Negative thoughts and used to eat human; yet maharaj ji took him into sharan and did his Udhaar.

but for this instance if they do wrong deeds then they r wrong...............kal kisne dekha?

sometimes ur thing can also be opposite like in case of darshan rogi

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It is simple.

If my son does something wrong.....I donot go out and publiise in the world ;what he has done and so on. Instead I would make him undertsand/teach him with love. and

main thing.....just to get attention, Kids do bad things...and if you just ignore them...they donot do it.

same goes to all those ppl like darshan rogi(who just for the sake of getting attention, Doing nindiya of Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji); We just need to ignore them and pay no attention; ultimately they would relize their mistakes

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Sant Gurdial Singh ji Tandewale:-

"Dharam jazbaatan da khed hai"

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Sant Baba Attar Singh ji Reru Sahib:-

When Sant Baba Aaya Singh ji Hoti Mardanwale left the panj bhootak chola, sangat (fauji) was directed to Sant Attar Singh ji Reru Sahib by akaal purkh ji's hukum. Sangat had never done darshan of Sant ji. So when they reached reru sahib, they were told that Sant ji "khetan vich hal vaa rahe ne". Sangat on their way to fields started doing shanka/doubts on Sant ji by saying that Sant mahapurkh should not do this, they should just sit and give darshan to sangat, etc. Sant ji, antarjami, knew what was in their minds, so sant ji went to them and said Sant ji is in the kutiya and sangat was directed towards a cottage nearby. When they reached there they saw the same Baba ji, with illahi noor, chita rang, chita darha and said babaji you r the same who met us on way. After confirming they asked how did you get here before us, even took bath and changed clothes. Sant ji first tried to avoid this as thes are gupt khedan. But on insisting did following bachans after explaining the importance of sewa:-

"Tusin rabbi hukum anusaar, itni dooron chalke vi aaye, jekar tuahdi eh tush jehi mang vi poori na hundi, fer shardha nahin si rehni. Shardha ton bina sikh nu sadhu darshana da pooran labh nahin milda. par bai, sadhu da ant laina vi theek nahin, shardha rakh ke jitna ho sake sadhu di sewa kariye, ona di parikheya nahin karni chahidi, bhala je ansi hun tuhadi parkh kariye, ta koi kaswati te poora uter sakega?"

Sangat apologized. Baba ji again said: Gursikho, shardha waleaan de berhe paar hunde han. Bhagti roop brish laun layi, shudh hirda dharti hai, nimrata roopi jal te shardha hi beej hai. Eh hal wahun di sewa vi daate paason mang ke layi hai, pyare ne tuth ke eh daat bakhshi hai."

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Excerpt of teachings to Sant Isher Singh ji Rarha sahibwale by Sant Attar Singh ji Reru sahib:(adhikari layi bachan)

Naam japan wale nu kai gallan da dhyaan rakhna jaroori hai.

oh kise bhekh te koi tarak ya nafrat na kare. Chahe oh hindu hai, muslim, chahe sikh ya isaayee. Rasta bhawein vakh-vakh hai par rab sabhna da iko-ik hai, kyonki:

"Mazhab na koi rab da, banda kare ijaad,

Oh nazdeek khudaaye de, jo rakhan usnu yaad"

fer kai sadhu daane, deewane te mastane hunde han. Koi tamoguni, kise vich sato gun adik hunda hai. Jiwein satguran furmaya hai:

"birkhe heth sabh jant ikathe,

ik tate, ik bolan mithe" - ang 1019

par advaitwadi sabh naal milaap rakhe, tusin is sansar vich bhaant-bhaant de log, sabh ral mil ke chaliye. Mat apne vich neshti howe, milaap har-ik naal rakhe, ki pata parmesher nu kisdi kireya bhaundi hai:

"ik bhaye dekho sabh naari,

kya jaano seh kaun pyari" - ang 327

Baadshah diyan beant raania hundia han, par raaj da maalak useda puttar banda hai, baadshah di jis upar pooran prasanata(khushi) howe. Ise taran, parmeshaer vi anderle pyar nu dekhda hai, bhekh te nahin reejhda. So har ik naal prem karna saadhu da mukh dharam hai:

"tulsi is sansar mein sabhko miliye dhaaye,

na jaano kis bhekh mein, narayan mile aaye"

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Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Urmur Tandewale:-

jeonde mar jaida, sewa kamauni aukhi..........

tavian te asan launa painda, tatta ret pavauna penda,

oh naio ghabraida, sewa kamauni aukhi

jeonde mar jaida, sewa kamauni aukhi

aare naal sir chirvauna painda, band band katvauna painda,

taain charkharhi charh jaida, sewa kamauni aukhi

jeonde mar jaida, sewa kamauni aukhi

neenha vich laal chanaune painde, tind de sraane laune painde,

oh fir vi shuker manaida, sewa kamauni aukhi

jeonde mar jaida, sewa kamauni aukhi

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Sant Baba Attar Singh ji Reru Sahib:-

"Hirde di shudhi, waheguru de milaap da asli saadhan hai"

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Sant Baba Attar Singh ji Mastuana Sahib:-

"Kise da bol kabol saharna, tapaa sir tap hai"

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